Marriage & Divorce - 3 June 2007

Should I break up?
my gf told me that she doesnt have to appreciate me because I live in her house but she says that I should I should appreciate everything she does. she also says that cooking is not her responsibility and she shouldnt have to feel obligated to have sex with me. Her mom is always dipping into our relationship and its making me sick. Ive been raising her kids for 5 years and now that the real dad wants to step up, she feels that I should roll with it and continue doing my part as their fake dad. She says that since I live here, its my responsibility. help please

2007-06-03 12:41:08 · 25 answers · asked by the dude 513 1

I completely gave up my freedom and independance for a woman with kids. I moved into her house and proceeded to being a good man and a good father. at first she was so nice and appreciative and now after 5 years, she says that she does'nt have to appreciate me and its my responsibility since I live here but when I ask her to cook, she says " its not my job to cook for you". Shes always blaming me for her life being a disaster and her not having a social life but I feel that I tried to help her. she feels that if she cant go out than I should'nt either.

am I wrong? i feel that Ive givin this situation everything and yet she still wants more. Its not my fault that she got stuck with 2 kids by 2 losers. giving up my independance is more than enough, I dont have anything left. HELP

2007-06-03 12:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by the dude 513 1

my ex wife came today to see the kids. (who imediatly went out to play) and she makes fun at me for having to have time off work to look after the kids, I have since remarried, (a russian girl nealy half my age) well I got to thinking, (dangorus for a man eh) can I sue for loss of earnings for the time I was off work, I dont need the money, I just want to wipe the smile off her face, and if not why not.

2007-06-03 12:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by fool4love 2

is there any benefits for a spouse to buy a house in his and his wife's name if he is planning to get a divorce?

2007-06-03 12:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-03 12:23:40 · 28 answers · asked by bkj1969 1

2007-06-03 12:10:33 · 13 answers · asked by jess 1

My daughter turns 18 in August, and will be going to college, so she still needs to be supported. Why is it that I will support her through college, but her father doesn't have to?

2007-06-03 12:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by Sunday 3

after they're married? I always hear about how they have higher expectations in their husbands after marriage and they nag and complain more.

2007-06-03 12:04:31 · 30 answers · asked by Pinkie 2

2007-06-03 12:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by trixxxi 2

My husband cheated on me about 2 1/2 yrs ago with a woman he met for the purpose of cheating on me. He has also had several emotional affairs. He has some ongoing issues, & I have been patient, willing to work on us, doing most of the postaffair recovery. He seems to think it was wrong, says he was sorry, and that's basically it. I could get over all this, if he were to work on himself or us, but he doesn't (at least consistently or often). It's left to me. He also talks about other women he has been with, or propositioned while he is with me (in intimate ways). Sometimes when I ask him questions, his answers change. He recently told me of a detail of his OW while we were being initimate. It was something I asked him awhile back & received a different answer. He said he does it to get me going, or because it turns him on. The other day he did it cuz he was annoyed that I was annoyed with him, so he did it as punishment. How can I get over affairs when he keeps throwing it in my face?

2007-06-03 11:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few weeks ago, she threw a rock at my car (while I was sitting in it) it caused some damage, but nothing major. I could let it slide, but now she is asking a favor of me. She wants to take our kids out of the country to visit family. Our divorce decree says she needs my written permission for this. I told her I won't agree to it until she pays for the damage to my car. Now SHE is threatening ME with some sort of legal action. She don't have a prayer, but I want to know how to get her to realize what she did to my car is wrong, and she should take responsibility for it, especially if she is going to ask favors of me. Anybody? Oh yeah, I live in the U.S.A.

2007-06-03 11:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ponyboy99 3

I got divorced less than a month ago. I have 2 precious little girls. The baby is 9 months & my oldest is 3. I need help explaining to her about the divorce, especially since "Daddy" moved to another state the very next day & does not have a phone.

Now when she asks for "Daddy" I don't know what to say & it is breaking my heart! This is the 2nd father who has abandoned this precious girl, but fortunately, she doesn't know about her biological father walking out on us 4 days after she was born.

I'm open to suggestions. Please be gentle. This is a very delicate subject for me.

2007-06-03 11:51:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I convince my ex to at least give us another chance, even on a trial basis? Both of us still care for the other one. She thinks it is too late. She said it is too much water under the bridge. I told her you build new bridges. She has seen my profile on the dating site & said if if were a few years back that she would jump on it.
There was a lot of arguing toward the end, but I really believe that there has to be some way to work this out. Its been a year & we still care about one another. She said the trust is gone.
I have always believe that where there is a will, there is a way & never say never!

2007-06-03 11:22:52 · 13 answers · asked by J.J. 1

2007-06-03 11:16:31 · 3 answers · asked by outsidethebox108 1

When I ask my spouse to try different things, she is visibly offended and/or will say that because I did not approach it correctly (i.e. not enough foreplay, wrong tone of voice, bad timing, etc.) it turns her off. Any advice?

2007-06-03 11:01:39 · 25 answers · asked by Jonathan L 2

I have been married for seven years and we have a one year old daughter. Lately my husband has been very secretive about his relationship with the woman who lives down the street from us. While I am positive that there was no sexual affair, I am convinced that he was embroiled in an emotional affair with this woman. Both deny this, but I have discovered countless late night phone calls and pictures of her on his computer (fully dressed for you pervs out there). They both insist it was just friendship, but they went a long was to keep it a secret from me. The past couple of days I have been swapping emails with this woman and she is pretty much telling me that my husband has been telling a bunch of lies about me and now evidently there is a woman where he works that he has been talking about to this woman on a consistent basis. My husband insists that he loves me and does not want a separation. Don't say leave the bastard....(for better or for worse). I do love him.

2007-06-03 10:59:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this reallly amazing teacher, and i love him to DEATH. yeah and he told our class he's getting married. sooo should i like tell him i love him? haha this is stupid i know but is there anyone out there that can help me?

2007-06-03 10:53:09 · 17 answers · asked by nelliekellibelly 2

I have been married for 3 1/2 years. I do love my husband but have been thinking that I want to go out and experience life more. There is 13 year age difference ( he is older). He is not abusive and is an awesome father. I am kinda bored in the bedroom but he is willing to do anything for me and the kids.

2007-06-03 10:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffiny9880 2

ok married to a great man and father of our 4 year old son. i am 8 months prego. my husband works alot. my son usually dosen't see him at least one night a week to do him working late or playing hockey. now i don't know if it's my hormones or what but it's driving me mad. I'm i being the selfish one or is he? like i said he is a great man over all when he is here he is great. he gets happy for the weekend when it's time to spend with us. i know that it's good to have hobbies even though i don't and that is another story. i don't mind him playing one night a week or even two but sometimes it's 2 days in a row. yesterday (sat) it was in the late afternoon it cuts into our whole sat. now tonight (sun) he has a game early evening. and he has another game on tue which means he probably won't be seeing our son that night. and for the rest of the week who knows with his work schedule. when i said something before he is like "i can't control when the team plays or not" i'm i being selfish?

2007-06-03 10:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by chocolate 1

2007-06-03 10:25:20 · 17 answers · asked by Steve T 2

Today yet again I was with my 12 year old daughter, sitting waiting for a train and a male and female sat behind us they were about 22 years old.
The woman was showing the male some photos and made a comment that a certain person in the photo was a cu-t I was pretty shocked firstly as this is one of the worst swear words and it was a woman, they looked well educated and dressed well.
then after some other similar language we moved.
I have in the past confronted people when Ive been with my children, and I am not sure what the best solution is, I even considered asking my daughter to tell the woman that she doesn't like to hear that sort of language as she is only 12.
There is always the risk that if confronted the situation could turn nasty, personally I wouldn't care as I am a big chap but know it would upset my daughter if it turned nasty.

your views would be welcome on what you would do,

I am not against swearing as such but when young children are about I feel its very ignorant

2007-06-03 10:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by phil 3

It looks like I will be about 26-28 when I will be getting married. Is this a good age to get married? I think that I will loose a lot if I dont get married earlier. I feel like its a bit late to get married.

2007-06-03 10:17:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby is 25 yrs old works in insurance and i am 21 yrs old still in college working part time been married 3.7 months.We went on 4 month break before the wedding because he was not sure.During the 4 month break i had a fling w/ ex. bf got married month later not realizing i was pregnant w/ ex. bf's child hence the pending divorce.He is threatening to tell everyone personal info on the divorce if i dont cooperate and just put the house up for sale immeadatley.But i have no place to go right no so i am stalling?anything my lawyer can do?

2007-06-03 09:59:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

going to be going thru a divorce my husband didn't even serve papers yet and changed his will . question is even though were married does his new will count

2007-06-03 09:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by Lynda C 1

To be with someone you love and adore and who loves you, but not as much as you love him or be with someone who loves and adores you but you not so much him?

2007-06-03 09:49:34 · 17 answers · asked by Be me 5

2007-06-03 09:37:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-03 09:34:54 · 49 answers · asked by Queen_B 2

As some of you may know, a FUPA is a fat upper pubic area.

My wife is going to have a baby soon, and I was wondering something.

I have a fairly large FUPA and I was wondering if I can turn it into a Joey pouch? Like the one's kangaroos have.

Can someone please tell me if this is possible?

2007-06-03 09:29:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been seperated since 2003. He has now been arrested with buying cocain from undercovers.

He has been before the grand jury and he must now put in a plea.

Now that it is on record that he uses dope does this now mean he can NOT have unsupervised visits with our children?

Also if he goes to jail or prison does this mean I can get a Free or Cheap Divorce?

And if we do divorce will this now allow me to have FULL CUSTODY without a Battle?

We reside in Ohio.

Please help as much as you can... ONLY serious Answers, please!

Thank you,

myreply7

2007-06-03 09:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend/fiance of 5 years just recently broke up.. about 2 weeks ago. I found out from a friend of his that he was cheating on me prior to the breakup which hurt me so bad. But i kept quiet about it, Once I told him that I knew he was cheating on me,he denied it but finally admitted that he had caught hard feelings for the other girl. I moved out and we didn't speak for a few days. He then called me and said that he wanted to talk to me face to face about it. While we were talking he said that he loves me and he was confused about who he wanted to be with. Then he later said that he wanted to be with me and her, he didn't want to choose. How could he fix his mouth to say something like that? While In his presence I must admit that i became weak and I did allow myself to be intimate with him. He told me that he wanted me to move back home, but later said that he wanted to be with her. Now he says that he needs time to see where he wants to be and he wants me to wait for him.

2007-06-03 09:13:56 · 9 answers · asked by Shay R 2