To be with someone you love and adore and who loves you, but not as much as you love him or be with someone who loves and adores you but you not so much him?
2007-06-03 09:49:34 · 17 answers · asked by Be me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough question. If I had to decide, I would just be happy with the one I love the most. Even though he did not love me equally, if he loved me at all, would be good enough for me. I honestly dont think a person can find another person that loves each other equally.
2007-06-03 09:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love and adore the one your with then your naturally going to think that they feel the same as you . If you don't love and adore it would make it allot easier to break up that's for sure . Hmm to bad you cant have it both ways
2007-06-03 17:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want someone who loved and adored me as much as I did them. But if I couldn't then I would opt for the first one.
2007-06-03 16:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been in both situations and as much as I want to say that its better to be with someone who adores you, because the opposite way was hectic, I cant. I was never satisfied in a relationship where my partner was way more into me than i was into him. And everyone knows, disatisfaction leads to cheating.
2007-06-03 16:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsh0rtie99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's selfish and shallow being with someone because he worships the ground you walk on and you not caring two bits. I think it's better with someone who you love and want to make happy, that in turn will make you happy. Besides, maybe he does love you as much as you love him, people show their love the best way they know how not necessarily by someone else's definition of the word.
2007-06-03 17:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with someone who loves, adores and who cares for me rather than be with someone whom i love yet he doesnt love me just as much....
2007-06-03 17:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by me_adoreu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people love each other equally is the only way it should go. You obviously have a long way to go.
2007-06-03 16:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't settle for either of those, I would continue looking.
One is going to make you happy and him not so much, the other is going to make him happy and you not so much. They both will most likely lead to a bad situation.
2007-06-03 17:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange... Love is countless.. you can't say its l'le or more.. lways go 4 1 who loves u..bcoz he/she ll be more caring and have complete dedication 2ward u..
2007-06-03 16:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither ! They both are a setup for a divorce or a miserable existance !
2007-06-03 17:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋