Marriage & Divorce - 3 June 2007

2007-06-03 09:08:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

your wifes best freind was a party slut and started at least 4 fights a month between you and your wife and your wife always took her side. I think it,s becouse she tried to hook up with me but i married my wife instead!

2007-06-03 09:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Found the love of my life but he didn't want to know me just 'cos I've gained 3 stone. Has anyone else experienced this,as he loved me at 8 stone, but obviously not at 11 stone. I am really sad as I was always hoping that when my husband died ( he now has) I could go back to my schoolboy lover. Devastated - please help as I have no other direction.

2007-06-03 09:00:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-03 08:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a close friend who left her husband and recently went back to him. She is still seeing the man secretly that she was seeing when she left her husband last year. Do I keep my mouth shut?

2007-06-03 08:34:43 · 25 answers · asked by dewingedfairy 2

2007-06-03 08:11:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for almost 8 years and have 2 kids. I found out he was cheating on me, at the beginning he did not accept it, but later he did and agreed to go to counseling. He has told me he ended it, but I recently saw old pictures of them posted on the "other womans" webite, posted after they supposedly ended it. He has not changed his cellphone or given me his email password so that I can have some type of proof that it is really over. He promises to do whatever I want one day, and the next he takes it back. He does not make me feel loved or wanted, but he insists that he does and wants to make it work. He is very unstable emotionaly, so I told him 2 days ago that it was over, to call me only about the kids, but other than that I wasn't interested. He is on medication for his depression, but what am I supposed to do? I have given him many chances and he just won't cooperate. I feel so insecure about his feelings. Any advice? THANKS!

2007-06-03 07:53:07 · 17 answers · asked by ilovegreen 3

We have been togetther for 10 years now and recently got married about 3years ago. We have 2 beauitful boys and a pretty up and down relationship. Only because we have both Have had our fair share of bad mistakes..I would say i hurt him the worst and live with that guilt everyday!!!! Theres not one day yhat i dont hate myself or blame my self.. Right now He works 5 days out of he week and is sometime gone for 20 hrs. His job does consiste of him being gone that long (i think).I also work 4 days too and i am a bartender,I am not that big of a drinker so i hardly ever go up there when i am not working and if i do its with my man anyway!!! Well he is a drinker and loves to play pool so he is up there a lot.Our issues are that i dont ever get to see him and either do my boys and when he dose have time off then he is always gone or at the bar !!! Latley he goes up there after work and dosent call to tell me or even invite me to come with.I an begging him for time and he ignores Help!!!!

2007-06-03 07:32:37 · 5 answers · asked by hotmomma 1

back in december, my wife told me had feelings for another man..he was her boss(he is married also)..she hid talking to him on the phone at all hours of the night while i was away..she hid having lunch with him, and meeting him in a different town, until she was caught, and rumors forced her to leave me and her job...we had a rough past three yrs, i was laid off, almost lost our home, we lost a baby, and lost our friendship.....i filed for divorve in january, the custody hearing was in feb, were the judge split our two kids up...needless to say, the very next day she wanted to meet me...we spent the weekend together and talked, she wants to work things out...she is now back at home, but i have a really hard time trusting her when shes late from work, when she goes out with her friends and does not call...is she done with this guy? she tells me yes, and i need to trust her and stop bringing all that up......
what to do??? can it work...??

2007-06-03 07:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by trailblaze01 1

My husband really knows how to deliver a bouncy house, if you know what I mean ;-)

What does your spouse/SO really know how to do?

2007-06-03 06:34:30 · 3 answers · asked by Maureen 7

2007-06-03 06:27:48 · 43 answers · asked by Michael W 1

People always inviting theirselves to your house.Totally like everyday .If they don't have lives of their own that's fine; Not my problem though.Why do they disrespect people by always popping up especially at the wrong time?I have a idea of how to rid the problem.But would like to know how you would handle this situation?

2007-06-03 06:03:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

and she talks to her guys friends alot-coworkers only on the phone should i worry or want ,I get pissed sometimes cuz can dont want to hold a convsition. with me but does on the phone

2007-06-03 05:22:01 · 19 answers · asked by Jesse A 1

i met this guy who i really like and feel that i'm falling in love with... but, previously before i met him my ex-boyfriend's mother invited me to visit at her house and go to a revival with her and this revival happens to be the revival the guy i currently have feelings for is going to be at and if i go i won't be able to spend time with him cause i don't want to hurt my ex's mothers feelings.. my question is should i go visit are would it just cause trouble and i lose my current guy?
please answer quickly

2007-06-03 04:31:38 · 15 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1

if someon writes a will in his sound mine and later comes down with alltimers and his wife becomes power of attorney over his estate can she change the will after or before his death?

2007-06-03 04:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by jimmy a 1

I work as a manager in my office and there is this married guy who is a reporter, he's not doing an investigative story or anything but he's working on an issue that will directly affect his finances. I have helped this guy out so much, but he continues to ask for more and more information and I am no longer able to help him and he knows it.

But, for whatever reason he wants my private home email address and I gave him my cell number. He likes to call me
or come to my work around 4:00 p.m. at least twice a week and we'll stay there until about 7 or 8:00 p.m. strategizing how to resolve his issues.

I have no intentions on making out with him, and I don't understand why I am having dreams of making out with him.

His wife called and indicated that she really wanted to meet with me. His wife is 11 years older than him and I am 3 years older than him. I have no problem meeting with her. I really don't understand why he keeps coming around me...

2007-06-03 04:28:12 · 20 answers · asked by Ebonee 3

The thing is that i have tried giving him a piece of my cake and he told me its better to wait until he gets his divorce, because i told him first that i did not wanted to have any sex until he got the divorce and he told that he respects that. so what do u think about that?

2007-06-03 04:16:34 · 8 answers · asked by carebear86 1

My husband saying that he is talking to her xwife regarding his son. why my husband not happy with my 12 yrs old son. and he always happy when his own son come to our home. His way of talking to his son and with my son is diffrent. My husband spending money, food for my son but not that cheer as a one father. Always my son feel alown. what i have to do.

2007-06-03 04:05:20 · 11 answers · asked by SUR 1

It shouldn't matter to me now, but after my STBX left, I found out going through our old bills that during the last 3 months of our marriage, he'd been texting and calling a female co-worker ("Kelly") dozens to hundreds of times a day on his cell phone. I found hotel room charges on our credit card. He'd had a problem with ED starting in November, but couldn't get into see the doctor and get a prescription for Viagra until January, just before he left. I found out he'd ordered Viagra online in November.

Since STBX paid all the bills, I never saw the statements until he left.

When I confronted him with all this, he said that he and Kelly were just good friends, he paid for the hotel room doing a "favor for a friend", etc.

He swears he's not having an affair with Kelly (she's married, of course). Is he lying so I won't try to take him to the cleaners and ask for alimony and/or protecting Kelly? I think she's getting ready to divorce her husband.

2007-06-03 03:46:30 · 15 answers · asked by Gail T 1

Husband of 18 yrs quit job and moved away while I was on a business trip. Thought we had a perfect marriage, never any signs of unhappness. He says he'll never marry again. I think he got involved in an internet relationship. I am in limbo not knowing what to do.

2007-06-03 03:43:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I won't forget, but I have tried to forgive and move on. I don't think he has cheated again, but after about seven years, we are having other issues and I'm questioning if I'll ever be happy with him. Sometimes I think I just need to end the marriage and be happier without him. Also, I'm concerned about the example of marriage that we are showing our children.

2007-06-03 03:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by MNature 2

2007-06-03 03:24:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted a question a week or two ago about finding something outside of my spouse to make me happy. I got lots of good answeres-thankyou.
I am realizing as I read those and did some thinking, that I think I need my spouses approval all the time because I put all my value in my looks. I have always gotten LOTS of attention from men for my looks. From the time I was about 15. Now I am 38 and as I age and have put on some pounds, I still can get attention (looks, winks, hit on etc) but it is dwindeling and will continue to as I age I am sure. But I am realizing that is where I have always believed my value to be. The only positive things ever said to me were "your beautiful", oh, you have the pretty daughter" etc. Now, I am searching all over for my value as I loose my looks. Maybe it is why I am having a harder time with my spouse as he does not tell me often I look pretty. How does one let go of thinking their value is in one thing and they loose it and see value no where eles? Thanks

2007-06-03 03:19:12 · 3 answers · asked by leahleah2004 1

I have to little ones from a marriage we are now divorced and I have gone back to my maiden name. My Fathers was asking me about changing their last names. Their dad is a good for nothing deadbeat. I have full custody he only has supervised visitation. My childern are 4 & 2. Just wondering if its something I would have to get him to sign off on or if I should just leave it alone? Thanks.

2007-06-03 03:10:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is very aggressive and continues to leave us and does not communicate at all about finances, etc. he just had his car repo'd and he is blaming me for not taking care of it., i have taken care of everything, he takes care of only his issues that he incurred on one of his bouts like flying to florida to meet the girl he has cheated on me with. He had a 1200 phone bill and recently paid that off and neglects our monthly household bills. no priorities, i am in a very controlling relationship and he knows that i will do anything for him. i refuse to take care of his debts he incurred while leaving us. now after his car has been repo'd, of course i am made to feel its my fault, he wants to move on. is this best? he has not had contact with me or our 3 year old for 5 days, please help

2007-06-03 03:00:33 · 33 answers · asked by andrea81371 1

i would never really say cheating is ok,but cheating doesn't have to be about sex,does it?

2007-06-03 02:57:11 · 22 answers · asked by m 4

2007-06-03 01:08:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my close female friends,highly educated,very attractive,married,3 settled children,in her 40s,with very good and satisfying life with her husband whom she adores,has a unique problem.
She met someone as e-mail friend,met him and his wife once casualy and has fallen in love with him.He is not handsome nor rich,is married with 3 settled children .She is perfect in her home and office duties and a very loving wife ,mother.Also has a wide circle of friends-female and male,who admire and respect and love her.

2007-06-03 00:38:54 · 17 answers · asked by honey trickle 2