2007-06-03 03:24:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talking and a bit of give and take!
2007-06-03 03:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people who realise that the frenzy..the fever of being 'in love' dies away and they are left with a relationship to make by 'loving' each other....in other words, love is a verb, an action a doing thing...a way of behaving. It takes two people who are prepared to put each other before themself...... and the children (when and if there are any) before both of themselves. It takes two people who are not possessive or jealous and can find their own space without making their partner anxious.....two people who can be comfortable when family/friends/acquaintances are around. It takes two people who can communicate with out trying to score points off each other or play silly mind games.
Basically it takes two people who are going to work together to make the marriage work.
Best wishes, Mike.
2007-06-03 03:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by georgiansilver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me and my hubby it is partner ship. He isnt just my hubby he is my best friend and my partner. We do everything we can to make the others life as simple as possible. We work together to get things done. We help each other with bills and money. We both clean house and cook. It is completely give and give somemore. And we make sure that everyday all day long we say and show how we feel for each other. There is nothing more pleasent to me than to know I have satisfied him and did all I could to make him happy and I know I have because he showes me how much he appretiates it and how grateful he is as I do him.
2007-06-03 03:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Respect for each other, a sense of humour and a 50/50 partnership. And work at your marriage, otherwise don't waste your time.
2007-06-03 03:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and honesty, first and foremost. Dont argue about money and never go to bed on an argument. It will always seem 10 times worse in the morning. My Dad told me that on my wedding day and despite the fact he said it wouldnt last, we have been married for 22 years this October.
2007-06-03 03:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by DJJD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust honesty adn communication!!!!
Thing is these dyas when ppl argue they will fone/ text/ email a firend or even talk to satrnager sin chat rooms rather than thier partner! and carry on then the next arguement same thing happens! next thing u no this stranger on the net is to new shagging partner and cuases u to leave ur partner! secret is talking dont talk to other ppl untill ur problem has been resolved!
2007-06-03 03:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good effective communication. Or failing that, an ability to ignore things indefinitely would do just as well.
2007-06-03 03:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not conforming to societies norms of how you should grown up and behave at set ages or when married.
Ie when you met you used to grop in the cinemas, make out on the floor in nighclubs... have tickle fights, have fun... keep doing it
2007-06-03 03:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question! You are going to gets tons and tons of different answers but for me it is being married to my best friend. I think the thing that works so well for us is that we are each our individual person and are not possessive or jealous of each other.
2007-06-03 03:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by wildlifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy marriage = every day working wiht your partner there is always room for an improvement..
2007-06-03 03:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by megaherzfan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
contented with your life then you find it is a happy marriage life
2007-06-03 03:28:52 · answer #11 · answered by sarah@520 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋