and she talks to her guys friends alot-coworkers only on the phone should i worry or want ,I get pissed sometimes cuz can dont want to hold a convsition. with me but does on the phone
2007-06-03 05:22:01 · 19 answers · asked by Jesse A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-06-03 05:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like there's a lot of wanna-be psychics answering your question, Jesse.
Your wife may have cheated once, but that sure doesn't mean she's doing it now. A lot of people---myself included---have friends of all races, sexual persuasions, and genders.
Jessie here's the thing. WHY did she have an affair? Has the situation been resolved? Example: She had an affair because you weren't attentive enough. She stopped the affair when you agreed to be more attentive.
And....do you ever talk about the things she wants to talk about?
Hon, you can't just assume she's having another affair just because she has male friends. You two sound like prime candidates for counseling to me. In the meantime, please don't jump to any conclusions.
2007-06-03 12:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happened once it can happen again. If she talks to men on the phone and its not work related then she maybe going back to her old ways....If you've expressed your concerns and she still ignores the fact that it bothers you...she is showing you she doesn't care that you're bothered....You need to man up, tell her its unacceptable. If it still bothers you maybe, you guys need to separate for a moment so you can think about what you want and are getting out of the relationship. Good luck.
2007-06-03 05:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, is there anything going on??? and trust your wife...
I talked to a lot of male coworker. I tell my husband everything that we r talk about. The communication is very important key to your marriage...
2007-06-03 05:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of times we know the answers to our own questions before we ask others. i don't agree that once a cheater is always a cheater but if the writing is on the wall read it!
2007-06-03 05:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by stacy_branch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're what's known as a cuckhold and there's nothing wrong with that. If you want more info just email me and i'll tell you. I'm not going to go into detail on here because I can't
2007-06-03 05:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment she cheated on you she lost the privilege to have male friends. Tell her to stop the BS or hit the road.
2007-06-03 05:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. if she is talking to other men obviously she is not interested in you. remember there are more fish in the sea it may hurt in the beginning but in the long run you will find someone who wants to be with you and respect you good luck
2007-06-03 05:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by ANNA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times/chances are you going to give her...obviously she has made a very sour point by ever having cheated.
Move on already & never look her way again!
2007-06-03 05:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her about how the conversations bother you. And also I would strongly suggest counselling - couples and/or individual. That is, if she won't go to couples counselling, try to go yourself, because you could use someone to talk to about what you are going through.
2007-06-03 05:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋