what do u think about that?

Question

The thing is that i have tried giving him a piece of my cake and he told me its better to wait until he gets his divorce, because i told him first that i did not wanted to have any sex until he got the divorce and he told that he respects that. so what do u think about that?

Answer 1

Not quite sure what your problem is here. You told him no first and hes honoring your decision and now you tell him yes, whats a man to think? He probably thinks youre just doing this to test his integrity and hes standing fast on his first decision,which was totally your doing. So,are you testing him to see what kind ofa man he really his and his honesty? Either way hes going to wait til he gets divorced and you have nobody to blame but yourself here. Think about it and good luck

Answer 2

It seems as though he wants to do things the right way. I don't know him, so I can't say if that's true or not. But since you said that's what you wanted and he agreed, you should both hold true to that. It would suggest that you both have some integrity.

It's important not not build the foundation of your relationship on the rubble of his past one. Start new and fresh and in the clear.

Good luck!

Answer 3

I think you've met a decent guy! Keep your "cake" until his divorce is final.

Answer 4

Is it possible he`s not too sure if he still wants that divorce after all?

Answer 5

I think it's wonderful, a couple who is willing to wait to have sex. There's hope yet.

Answer 6

I wish everyone done that. I think it is great! Kudo's to the both of you.

Answer 7

Jeez.....a man with integrity? You'd better run away.

Answer 8

i think he is being careful& considerate of you.