i have this reallly amazing teacher, and i love him to DEATH. yeah and he told our class he's getting married. sooo should i like tell him i love him? haha this is stupid i know but is there anyone out there that can help me?
2007-06-03 10:53:09 · 17 answers · asked by nelliekellibelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No dont tell him, that will just cause weirdness. What makes a crush so much fun is that most of it is all fantasy with a samll chance of anything happening. Its that hope that makes a crush so intriging. But now that he is getting married, that hope is gone. That might be why you are upset. But serious;y, just keep undressing him or whatever you do when you're in his class.
2007-06-03 10:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Should you tell him? No baby, not a good thing. What you have is a crush, feels really intense, special, doesn't it? But its not reality. He couldn't be anything to you, it would be immoral, and would lose him his job. And he's already in love with someone else.
Just let it go. Crushes are nature's way of getting us ready for the real thing - for love. You don't have a relationship with this man, apart from the student teacher one, same as every other kid in his classes.
If you let him know, he may have to arrange for you to be in another class, as you would have declared feelings for him. Better to just enjoy the feeling in secret, and know that it will fade when something real comes along.
2007-06-03 18:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, it is just a crush, he is in love with someone else, obviously cause he is getting married. No offense but I don't think anyone can help you, if you tell him you love him then you will just embarras yourself, I mean really what is he gonna do, break up with the woman he loves and go for you ? I doubt it, move on, look for the qualities he has in another man.... that isn't already involved with someone.
2007-06-03 18:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by lavinnar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is certainly nothing wrong with being enamored with someone of the opposite sex. In our minds we often create these fantasy worlds, and wish we could live them out, but sometimes we just have to face the reality that things don't go as we wish they would.
I have many friends of the opposite sex, but I don't fantasize about them, nor wish I were married to them, and yet I still maintain a good platonic relationship with them.
The best thing for you to do is to forget about mentioning this to him, and let him enjoy his bride and his new marital environment. He doesn't need any complications from someone who may be obsessing over him.
If you really love him, then let him enjoy his real love and fiancee`. You can still enjoy his teaching, and let it be that. Telling him that you love him would not be a good idea.
2007-06-03 18:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by 1greatguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A crush on a teacher is normal. You admire him. But it isn't true love. Don't embarrass yourself by telling your teacher you love him. He's going to marry a peer, not a student. You should know that most students have at least one crush on one teacher sometime in their life. This was yours. Now wish him well and don't tell him about your crush. It will embarrass him.
2007-06-03 18:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, be happy that he is happy.
I am not going to diminish your feelings by saying that you are not really in love...who am I to tell you that?
Take everything he has given to you - - education, attention, even a smile -- and tuck it into the back of your heart. Someday you will meet a true soulmate and the feelings you have for the teacher, and these memories, will magically be transported to your new, forever love.
2007-06-03 18:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to say the cliche things. But, my one piece of advice is to get a new crush. That's the fastest way to get over ANY crush.
I am older now and have quite a bit of dating experience. There's more fish in the sea.
Good luck.
2007-06-03 18:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres what you do sweetie... let it go.. Teachers are paid to be captavating and interesting, and to help you grow as a person. It's thier job. Its normal to feel love for someone like this who is in an autortive postion. But you can't honestly believe he will call off his wedding for a student..
2007-06-03 18:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by ashez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, if you tell him, that might screw things up in his life, and if it doesn't, that just means your feelings have no impact on him. He doesn't love you back, I'm afraid, and he's not gonna. I'm sorry, that sounded harsh... but I'm afraid that's the truth. The problem is, you should have told him sooner. Its not stupid, its real, but you're just going to have to let him go. It'll get easier with time, even though it sucks right now...
2007-06-03 18:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up.
Samantha-
Your frnd dated a teacher? Ewww! What was he thinking? They'd have to be sneaking around, looking over their shoulders, otherwise he could get fired. Which brings up another pt to the original asker, if you date your teach. and you're underage, he could go to jail...
2007-06-03 18:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋