2007-06-03 09:37:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either one is horrible. I don't think one is worse than the other.
2007-06-03 09:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by chris_afgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since I only have a wife, & not a husband then I guess it would be worse if I found out if my wife had an affair, since for me finding out my husband had an affair just would mean anything. So..WIFE.. final answer!
2007-06-03 09:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only worse thing i can see if the wife is having an affair is that she may end up pregnant and you would not know who's the child is . Emotionally its just as bad either way a broken heart is a broken heart.
2007-06-03 09:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by dad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are equally as bad but I think because women have more of a tendency to nest rather than to roam, it would be more of a shock for the wife to have an affair.
2007-06-03 09:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sort of like asking would you rather have your right eye gouged out, or the left? What's the point of this question? To reduce the pain a spouse would feel after being cheated on to a contest? The answer is simple: It depends. Any number of things would influence the answer of any person, particularly whether they are answering based on what they think they would feel, as opposed to what they know they felt upon learning of their spouse's infidelity. What you think you would feel often differs from what you actually feel after the fact.
The bottom line is that both hurt. Immensely. Which is why it's better to ensure it doesn't happen instead of pondering who gets hurt the most if/when it does. And I would venture to say that a spouse who has learned of his/her spouse's betrayal isn't wondering whether it would hurt this much if he/she was of the opposite sex, so why ask?
2007-06-03 10:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither..
They're both equally bad and unforgiving...
Why ? Both events show neither partner having respect and dedication for the other..
So much for "I DO" in good and bad times, in sickness and in health, till death do us part..
If you truly love, honor and respect your husband or wife , keep your ta ta's and wee wee's hidden..for no one else to see but your spouse..
Plus, the ring on a particular finger should be reason enough to say NO I'm devoted and dedicated and loyal to my husband or wife...
having an affair is stupid, because you're very much likely to gamble and lose. The Casino always wins.. so don't be stupid.
2007-06-03 10:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only know that it was terrible finding out my husband was having an affair.
2007-06-03 11:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by MNature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty i think it would be worse to find out the wife is having an affair...
i mean men are men, most any man, if put into the perfect cheating situation (hot girl, no strings, never get caught) is gonna do the deed...because its 99% about the sex...
i a woman cheats...its always a deeper more complicated situations that not easily corrected
2007-06-03 09:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends. Having a husband and a wife at the same time is pretty confusing to start with.
2007-06-03 09:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by hermanius_bosch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your equal. Why be married @ all if you both had an affair?
2007-06-03 09:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That would be difficult to figure out as you would never be able to personally compare it, unless you were married to both a man and a woman and they both cheated on you.
2007-06-03 11:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋