Marriage & Divorce - 26 April 2007

When people say they are christian and want to marry another christian, would you marry any other person who says they are christian or would you want them to be of the same denomination? I have seen marriages where both persons never attend the same church. And some marriages where the religious difference is the main cause of friction and conflict so that couple never speaks of church. I think it would be more sensible for Baptist to marry Baptist, Catholic marry Catholic, Jewish to marry Jewish, etc.. When mixing different faiths there can be some confusion to the children of the family or to the people themselves later on.

2007-04-26 04:16:37 · 39 answers · asked by Housecat 3

I used to hear from one of my ex boyfriend's mom's by way of email about once a month for the last several years (the relationship ended in 2002). I've been married for nearly 2 years now and last November my ex boyfriend got married. His mom continued to keep in touch with me - I even asked her if it was allright and she said it was fine, that she asked her son and he was good with it. She even promised to send me pictures from their wedding. Well, it's now almost May and I haven't heard from her since December. Is it OK for me to just accept this and move on? It was always nice hearing from her, but kind of awkward too. I feel like it's best if I don't write her anymore...but think it's strange she didn't bother to send me their wedding pictures, especially since I had sent her mine a year prior. It doesn't matter - I guess I'm wondering why she hasn't written and if it's OK not to write until I hear from her first? And if she doesn't write, is it OK for me to just move on?

2007-04-26 04:12:10 · 22 answers · asked by Rachel 7

2007-04-26 04:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1

My husband and I have been having major problems lately. This most recent one is my fault, although his reaction to it has been way over the top. I lied to him about some money that I invested in a catering company. I knew he would not be 100% behind it, and so I did not tell him. It was a big mistake on my part. Now he does not trust anything I say. However, he began to call me names in front of our daughter, and threatening to take her away from me. He has a severe drug and alcohol problem, and I think he was needing a fix. He was slamming doors, and using profane language. All in front of our 3 year old. He completely lost his mind! Now, the next day, he is still harrassing me about it. I told him I was sorry, and told him he could handle all of the finances, since he does not trust me, he doesn't think that is good enough. His behavior in the house has become so hostile, that I am worried about how it is affecting our daughter. I asked him to move, and he refuses. help!

2007-04-26 04:08:20 · 15 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1

Seven years ago i was with a really sweet guy and ended up cheating on him-with his brother. So grosse i know. Anyway, we broke up, and i hate myself everyday for it.I ended up staying with the brother that was totally abusive for a short amount of time, basically just so I wouldnt feel as guilty for cheating on him, if that makes sense. Should i phone him up and apologize? Here's the real kicker, I got pregnant and had a baby-not sure who the father is. please dont say Maury or somthin like that. Im pretty sure that it was the good one that was the father. I dont know if i should contact him and let him see her. I am married now and in a wonderful relationship but this drives me crazy on a daily basis. He really was a great guy. I even dream about it him and I just want to put it past me. Stupid things you do when your drunk, young and nieve.

2007-04-26 04:04:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse has a problem admitting when he is wrong. he instead blames everything on me. he is very bossy and very head strong. he is also very sensitive to anything that i say or do, but will do the same thing to me and battle over whether or not it is wrong. we fight all the time and i am so unhappy. the problem is that i do still love him and even though it seems like it is not possible, he is not all bad all the time plus we have kids and i don't want them to go through a divorce. we do not fight in front of the kids, but i am sure they can feel the tension. i have tried everything to get him to understand how i feel and he says he wants to change to make things better but nothing ever happens. i don't know what to do and now, the stress is affecting my health and i am getting sick from it. we've tried counseling and he makes changes for a while, but they never last. i have changed how i do things, but now feel like i am the only one giving in and am losing who i am. ideas???

2007-04-26 04:01:48 · 35 answers · asked by Just my two cents... 1

We just split up after 3 years together because he wont stop lying! Now he admits he needs help and is asking me to support him. What do I do?!

2007-04-26 04:01:34 · 28 answers · asked by x~Princess Sammy~x 1

2007-04-26 04:00:50 · 22 answers · asked by sankyfinatra 2

My husband has been at his job several years,he never came home talking about women's work performance,until a few females who were slutty got hired.Every time this certain one passed he got nervous.He claimed he did'nt know her name or anything until I made up a lie,then suddenly out popped her name.I could'nt shake this feeling,so eventually I got her number and asked her point blank,she hung up the phone.Once we were at the store all employees go to,so my husband stayed in the car,well by chance she came in,suddenly out of the car comes my husband,I feel he was trying to see if I maybe was talking to her.Well I ended up with a trespassing order placed on me through his job,and I'm still left with unanswered questions.He denys everything.

2007-04-26 03:56:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

for instance he goes as far as waking me up in the middle of the night to have sex with him even when i am free and when i am ovulating and if i refuse he will not be happy with me through the next day.and this is on a daily basis.

2007-04-26 03:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by pretty 1

Is timing really everything? Have you ever truly loved someone but the timing wasn't right? Maybe it was too soon after a bad break-up or divorce? Maybe your job took you out of town?

If so, what happened? Are there ever happy endings with this?

2007-04-26 03:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by loves2sing 2

I got married few weeks ago. My wife has not move to my country yet. Even though I know I love that lady the most, I can't without her, but somehow I cant stop myself from getting involved with other girls, it's 100% sexual nothing else [no love or anything]. Is there any way, I can just sit and wait for her to move? I want to be an ideal husband with no wish to see any other lady than my wife.
I sometimes feel I am a bit#h person, but honest to God I dont want to cheat on my wife, I want to live with her forever till death.....Help me please!!

2007-04-26 03:49:02 · 32 answers · asked by Knowledge Seeker 2

I have been married for a long time - and my husband and I are thinking about spicing up our sex with a third person. Any one out there been through this? Is it possible to add a third person and still be able to have a good relationsip afterwards with your spouse?

2007-04-26 03:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

That the first year of marriage is the worst?

2007-04-26 03:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long did you date before you told each other you were in love and how long before you married?

2007-04-26 03:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by glbenner 4

He is a know-it-all type, and he likes to take control of everything... I mean every big thing, he doesnt care about the small things... He told me his ex-gf told him that he should find someone who can accept that... when we hang out in a pub, if he meets some guy he likes to talk to, he would ignore all my hints to stay there talking and drinking even if I get really wild... He would insist on doing things in his way or no way... and he always considers himself as being fair and treats me equal... I wonder that are there many controlling men? b4 I thought it was sexy and made me feel more like a woman... but sometimes its really hard to tolerate....

2007-04-26 03:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you feel about your husband wanting to hang out at strip joints.

2007-04-26 03:35:04 · 15 answers · asked by Baby Jessica 2

I love making love to my husband, out in the garage, waking him up at 3 am, while fishing, out back in the backyard by the fire, here and there.. he seems to be taken back by my boldness.. Am i being too much of wanting him anywhere? Anytime? When I do this, i get MULTIPLE organisms he knows that but he had to pause and take a breather.. just bed bores me to death! I love adventures!

2007-04-26 03:33:34 · 23 answers · asked by horsehealer09 1

if my fiance's parents asked me: "would u adapt with our son if asded to live as husband and wife"? pls help am confused and can't understand what this statement indirectly means.

2007-04-26 03:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

AS one of the conditions of us staying together she had to break all ties with this person. I have found out that she still talks to him on the phone and has occationally ran into him. She insists that nothing has happened after we got married. More recently this argument has seperated us. I guess the question is am I wrong for not putting up with it.

2007-04-26 03:29:07 · 24 answers · asked by teddy w 2

You receive an anonymous letter in the mail that's very detailed giving specifc dates and times they were together. Additionally, the letter is sent to your family. What's your reaction?

2007-04-26 03:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Perplexed 2

What is the age that you have to be to get married in New Jersey with your boyfriend and your familys consent.

2007-04-26 03:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by I love You 1

my wife is pregnant.i want to divorce with her .her incom is 22.000.000$/year my incom is 18.000.000$/year.how much money i have to give her every month for the bebe after i divorce her.she has a diploma and certeficat that can get a job with 50 .000.000$.

2007-04-26 03:22:40 · 24 answers · asked by abdou sara 1

My husband has been so quiet lately. I ask him if he is okay and he say fine. A couple days later I asked him again, same reply, then asked him if he was tired (he hasn't been sleeping good), he said no, then said that he just didn't feel like talking, do I dropped it. I get home later that night and he was yapping on the phone (this call for 1 1/2hrs). I took a bath and he called someone else to yap (this call almost an hour). I sit down in the livingroom with him and said to him that when he said that he didn't want to talk he must have meant too me, then I asked him if he was mad at me for some reason not known to me, and he jumped at me and said NO! We haven't slept in bed together for 4days, he hasnt told me that he loves me as always, hug me, or kiss me. It is like he doesnt even want to be around me. I haven't done anything to make him mad at me! Do you think that maybe it is me? What can I do? It is tearing me apart that he is obvisously hurting & cant do anything!

2007-04-26 03:21:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been trying to reach this girl I met by texting and calling her. I called her at different time twice and she never picked up and I text twice as well.

In the second text I told her that I have 2 tickets for the movies and I would like her to join me. I also told her that she has till todays noon to decide. This way if she cannot make I cannot still pass the ticket to one of my friends.

This was her reply:

Don't give me ultimatums . Bitched

Any explanation to this? and why she ended it with Bitched?

2007-04-26 03:20:58 · 15 answers · asked by EDD 2

my wife is pregnant.i want to divorce with her .her incom is 22.000.000$/year my incom is 18.000.000$/year.we will get bebe in 3 month.how much money i have to give her every month for the bebe.

2007-04-26 03:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by abdou sara 1

Hi. My husband moved out the first week of April. He said he has emotionally detached & is not in love with me anymore. He said it is because for two years he has felt terrible about himself for the way I have treated him. When we argued, I treated him very poorly - I called him a loser, told him I was not in love with him, & I no longer wanted kids with him. He has lease until the end of May. How do I get him back? I couldn't feel any lower & nothing I say seems to be enough.

2007-04-26 03:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 03:13:01 · 25 answers · asked by punkin 1

2007-04-26 03:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by scunnylad1 1

2007-04-26 02:48:41 · 19 answers · asked by cali34 1