Am I too much to handle?

Question

I love making love to my husband, out in the garage, waking him up at 3 am, while fishing, out back in the backyard by the fire, here and there.. he seems to be taken back by my boldness.. Am i being too much of wanting him anywhere? Anytime? When I do this, i get MULTIPLE organisms he knows that but he had to pause and take a breather.. just bed bores me to death! I love adventures!

Answer 1

I think it's awesome that you're so adventurous in your sex life. I hope your husband appreciates this. You don't have a boring sex life, that's for sure !!

Answer 2

in my opinion, he's being nice by actually letting you go with him to the places that most ppl go to relax, and just kick back and forget about the fast paced world, but then he has you, this crazy..dense wife, that doesn't understand the complex of life and just wants to have sex all the time, maybe you should try being a little more classy and asking him how he feels once in a while instead of brining it upon yourself to throw yourself on him, its cool to come on to him, you're married it is now both ways, but why not sit back and let him initiate, he probably feels pressured by you, and im sure he loves you or he would be going fishing alone..lol, just calm down, enjoy other things in your marriage, you obviously don't have problems with your sex life, its communication, your asking the wrong questions here, take time to get to know your husband again and not just jump on him like a horny encounter..

Answer 3

Talk to him about it. Perhaps he has some fantasies of his own that he wants to play out, but he's apprehensive about taking the leadership role in the "bedroom." I'm sure you know that it has to be about him sometimes too, and if he likes a nite in the bedroom, taking things slow and easy, then allow him that every once in awhile. No one on here can tell you what your husband is thinking and feeling, or what he prefers. You need to talk to him and both of you be honest about everything, even if it's awkward.

Answer 4

That's what I am talking about. Good spontaneous sex, I have always wanted to try something like that but just too afraid to try it. I don't think you are too much to handle, I think all guys wants this type of sex every now and again maybe you all are doing it out in the open too much and he wants to tone it down a bit but I'm sure he is enjoying the sex.

Answer 5

Your husband is weary. He works long hours and only wants to find solace and relaxation with his fishing pole. By the way, have you ever wondered just exactly what he's doing with that pole?

Anyway, that's besides the point. What you need to do is find someone outside your marriage that can enhance your sexual interests. It's obvious that your husband finds you irritating and childish, although he knew that when he married you. Have you considered well-hung dwarves? I've heard that the Eastern European dwarf community is especially well-endowed "down there", if you know what I mean.

Answer 6

Tell him he should appreciate what he has. Most women are not that adventurous. He is a lucky man to have a wife who loves to keep things hot and exciting.

Answer 7

Maybe you dried him out! Haha, happens sometimes when you're having too much sex. Cool it for a couple days and then enjoy! Physically, they can only work for so long before needing a break. It's a male flaw, but when you don't like women or at least are monogamous with a man, you gotta deal with it!

Answer 8

You will need to compromise when you hit 60s. Noone wants to see an old hag getting it on with wrinkly, saggy boobs from the back of their porch.

Answer 9

My guess is you have deep insecurity issues in your using constant sex as a way to control. And you also sound gravely immature. If your husband doesn't want to, you shouldn't insist upon it for your own pleasure. That is not what being married is all about.

Answer 10

Yes, you are too much to handle, but it would be exciting to try and see if it could be done

(And where were you 30 years ago when i was dating?)