2007-04-26
02:48:41
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asked by
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married, and this guy at work is married. I have a huge crush on him. I know this sounds horrible, but I'm unhappily married, and he never EVER talks about his wife, which makes me think there may be problems there. He seems to really like me. For example, he offered to put a new stereo in my car for me. Other people at work says ne hever talks to other girls, I'm the only one. I'm not even sure I want to take this another step, but I'd like to know if he's even interested.
2007-04-26
02:55:21 ·
update #1
Ok, to all the women getting defensive out there, calm the **** down! I'm not cheating, and said I'm not sure if I even want to! I just want to know what his intentions are. AND I have talked to my husband about being unhappy. I didn't ask for marital advice!
2007-04-26
03:10:17 ·
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Another thing, I'm NOT pursuing him, it's the other way around. I'm not trying to ruin anyone's marriage. I'm really looking for answers from men, not women.
2007-04-26
03:12:42 ·
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Let him install the radio and then ask him what he wants for payment? Then you will know what he's after.
2007-04-26 03:02:47
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answer #1
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answered by luv2fish2extremes 2
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Morals, schmorals. 70% of married men cheat. But just like all the Yahoo women are trim horny sex goddess nymphos, all the men are faithful, nope-never-me married guys. Remember, user names follow people around so you won't be getting too accurate a response from people. No guy here is going to spout off "heck it's easy - i've cheated lots of times!" only to have his wife walk by or view his responses later and find *that* little gem.
Ever jumped in a swimming pool and gotten wet? Heated up a hot dog in a microwave? Turned on a TV with a remote?
About that easy for most guys, unfortunately.
2007-04-26 02:57:49
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answered by Anonymous
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So YOUR not happy in your marriage? Right? So this gives you the right to make someone elses marriage miserable, and ruin a family and devestate his wife? LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE. I have recently been cheated on by my husband, and the gut wrenching pain that I live with everyday is the worst thing ever. And you WANT to do that to his wife? What has she ever done to YOU? Would you want that done to you? Please, leave him alone. Us women are supposed to stick together, not stab each other in the back. Enough men do that to us for us to be doing it to each other. If hes gonna stray, he will, but dont be the one to allow him. Really think about this. OH, and I'm not a "bible thumper" but if your a Christian, do I need to remind you that adultery is a sin? Besides if YOUR that unhappy, just leave your husband. Noone is making you stay in that marriage. God, does anyone know fidelity is anymore? Or 'til death to us part'? Or if that dont work, then at least a divorce FIRST??!?!?!?!?!?
2007-04-26 03:09:16
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answered by Anonymous
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If you're unhappily married as you say then you need to go talk to your husband and either work it out or end your marriage. Quit being selfish with that poor pity party me crap and wanting to make the situation worse by sleeping with someone else. Do you really think that is going to fix your marriage? And if you don't care about your damn marriage then at least have the respect and integretity to let your husband know you're not happy and it is not workable so you're getting a divorce.
2007-04-26 03:01:01
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answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4
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U seriously need to slow down. Its not acceptable to try to get with a married man and your also married. Just because he never talks about his wife that doesn't raise any point. that does not mean that he don't love her and other people have told you that he don't converse with other women so why are you trying to pursue him. If you are unhappy within your marriage get a divorce. Don't ruin his marriage because you are miserable in yours.
2007-04-26 03:07:50
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answered by Ms.Curious 2
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I can honestly say it depends on the man. I have been in the situation where i could easily have-i had other women coming onto me who knew i was taken and i just blew them off.
I have never cheated on a girlfriend and wont. For one thing i am very picky of who i date and get "serious" with.
2007-04-26 02:54:22
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answered by Anonymous
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It really depends on the man and his relationship with his wife. If he has good values and morals and respects his wife then he won't cheat. Cheating on a spouse shows lack of character.
2007-04-26 02:53:55
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answered by glbenner 4
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It just depends on how strong the marriage is. Some men can stray easily, while others wouldn`t touch it with a ten foot pole!
2007-04-26 02:52:27
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answered by MISTY 7
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Depends on the man and if he is faithful. My question is why would you want to. If it is that you are the other woman why would you want a man that is not faithful to his wife, and if you are the wife then why would you want to put yourself through that and what would you gain?
2007-04-26 02:52:23
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answered by peachesgirl1212 2
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Depends on the man...some men would never ever do that...others you can twist them around with a s l u t
2007-04-26 02:51:26
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answered by sunbun 6
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