Marriage & Divorce - 26 April 2007

I have been married 6 years. For the last 3, the wife will not have sex. I have been faithful to her the whole time. It is very frustrating and she doesnt care. I have the oppertunity to cheat with another woman. Its not what I want, but I have needs and she doesnt care about them. I am 35 yrs old and in my prime. I need something!! What should I do? Should I cheat or just keep living without?

2007-04-26 10:27:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 10:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had feelings for my bro in law. we both had a great chemistry feelings..bond etcetc. our relation was on a roller coaster . At times i felt i enjoy more with him than my spouse.
not proud of it ..but this has been on since 5years .he got married off late ,. today i dont feel that much for him.. but i have to stay around family also be aroundthe ultrasounds etc that my sis in law needs( she is preg)
bil& i fight..argue ..i dunno y .. but im tired .. really.
i haveto bearound all the time we live together..all of us..moving out is no -no till another fewyears(reasons)
now..i need help. tell me how to adopt an attitude of a nice person with a reserved unaanoying...for me?>

im very (was) v jouvial with the bil.. and im fun loving etc. but how to help myself?

ty to all of you who answered!

2007-04-26 10:26:38 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2

Cuckolding is gaining in popularity in America

2007-04-26 10:24:30 · 12 answers · asked by donte' 1

my girl friend loves me we only been together for 2 months i feel it's to early and she dosnt relly know what love is so what should i do cause i dont feel the same way we were friends at first but we didnt know much about each other

2007-04-26 10:19:33 · 22 answers · asked by Lovely_lady74 1

am i stupid to be panicking about finding pictures of his wife and 'marital' cats?they are not rude or anything, but just pictures of their little 'family' that he said he wanted to leave behind him.

one of my mates says its nothing, and that he is allowed memories of his past, but another said to throw a wobbly. i am quite stuck at the mo as to what to do. Do i wait til he comes home, and have a go, or do i let it go over my head and carry on as normal? i need some solid advice,...

2007-04-26 10:15:24 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 10:12:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been unhappily married for a year and consumated the relationship only once. We live States apart and he doesn't make any effort to send time with me. Whenever I bring up the subject, he gets defensive and starts shouting and yelling.

2007-04-26 10:10:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

time with us. Is 2 hrs. on the computer normal? it;s not like that's what he does for a living. he's a constuction worker but the second he walks in the door that's what he does until i get mad, then he hurrys and gets off. what would you say?

2007-04-26 10:09:07 · 16 answers · asked by bella-d46 3

My wife has violated the standard family law restraining orders by changing ALL of our insurance policies. The divorce papers clearly say that neither one of us are allowed to do this. She has removed my name from all of them and replaced them in her name only. Contempt of court? Should I? She has a lawyer and I dont. I am acting as my own. Shes playing dirty with bogus restraining orders, etc. I'm not a vengfull person, but I am also getting screwed. She has total control over everything we own. I called lawyers and they want a 10k retainer. When I tell them my wife has everything in her control, they say sorry, no cash, no lawyer..Help

2007-04-26 10:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by Paybackisamofo 2

and u know what can of toy i'm talking bout

2007-04-26 10:08:25 · 26 answers · asked by hawk_boy2003 2

Am I being selfish and jealous? Be honest.We been together for one year.I met his son about 8 months ago.We get along great, joking cutting up with one another.Never had any problems.Also he and his dad get along great as well, they talk every night on the phone.We don't get him but about once a month because we live 300 miles away.The ex-wife has known about me for about 5 months.I told my b/f to tell his son hello 1 day while they were on the phone and she called back and said tell that bit*h to not speak to my son....this was when she first found out about me.She has been giving us trouble ever since then.Aside from that I met her for the first time a month ago & it wasn't pretty, she does not like me.I try to be nice though & I am great to their son.But the thing is since then his son has been calling my b/f everyday with problems that have occured between him and his mom & my b/f keeps having to call her to fix the problem.This only started since I met his mom.What's going on?

2007-04-26 10:02:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my husband since 1994. he was a lead singer of his own band which split up in 2000. 2 months later he was fired from his job. These were devistating losses in his eyes, so i was supportive and understanding as a good wife should be. the first 2 years were excusable in my eyes, since he had been with the band for 6 years previous, but now it is just ridiculous. he still is not over it, he is still without a job. he is still depressed. when i try to talk to him about it, he shuts down and refuses to talk to me. i feel in my heart that, for my self preservation, that i need to let him go, but how can i let him go when i feel like i am the one who enabled his behavior over all these years? is it selfish of me to want to let him go? should I continue to stick it out? should i place a time limit on our marriage? what do I say? how do I approach him?
my parents were divorced when i was 6, i thought they didnt have what it takes, and i was going to show them that I did.
:(

2007-04-26 09:57:20 · 19 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3

Hello, I have a girlfriend who is in the process of the divorce, she has been the weaker one in the relationship.
The man now is saying he will get her for fraud for transfering money from his account to thier shared one, and this was before they were even thinking divorce, and he knew of it,it was to pay bills, but now is trying to claim, fraud...............does he have a case with this?

Any answers is appreciated.
Thank you.

2007-04-26 09:48:24 · 16 answers · asked by Pandora in blue jeans 2

This guy is great! He cooks, cleans, massages, listens, dances, brings the check home to me, and I tried to push him away! What's wrong with me? I am having such a hard time with this. He told me he was coming at a certain time and had me waiting what's up with that. I was about to break up with him who needs that. Then we had a talk and he checked me for blowing the whole thing out of proportion. Made me feel bad for him standing me up. Now that's game! What should I do with this one? Maybe I'm just not ready to be commited.

2007-04-26 09:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by Peek@u 2

if it's not just about sex but emotional closeness as well..........question is not about me.........

2007-04-26 09:35:42 · 21 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5

2007-04-26 09:30:00 · 24 answers · asked by nichola e 2

2007-04-26 09:22:24 · 17 answers · asked by nazanin 1

I've been married for a number of years. I love my wife, we have a happy and successful marriage, and I would not cheat on her.

However, lately I've had a terrible crush on someone I see during my weekly routine. She pretty flirtatious... whether that has to do with genuine interest, or whether it's just because I'm already taken and therefore it's "safe" to flirt with me. I invite her to lunch occasionally, and I flirt back with her as well... it's fun and feels good. Nothing beyond that though, nothing physical.

I'm in my 30's now, working on getting pregnant with our first child... so I'm completely aware that there's a simple "mid-life crisis" side to this. Please don't beat me up with a lot of harsh judgment... I'm not a bad husband or bad person, and I don't want a full-blown affair with anybody. I'm just wondering if these kinds of feelings are normal... at what point they do become a problem... and what's the best way to deal with them when they reach that point?

2007-04-26 09:19:36 · 26 answers · asked by Steve 4

my daughter lives with a muslim who is twice her age they have 2children +1 on the way he treats her like an animal. is very abusive calls her names like whore, prostitute and sell out he is an absolute disgrace to any decent muslim he is a smack head a womaniser.but most of all he is a parasite a disease to normal human beings he knows who he is and now so do many others.

2007-04-26 09:08:34 · 20 answers · asked by callan 2

2007-04-26 09:07:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 08:52:06 · 13 answers · asked by ljsbeachgirl 1

I am in the United States and my daughter is in Germany. She was here in the U.S. until she was 2 1/2 years old. Her mom and I got divorced and she went back to Germany. Before she left, she told me that I would never see or hear from my daughter again. I didn't beleave this but then, now my daughter is 22. I used the internet/my-space, and found some German girls over there that helped me try to locate my beautiful daughter. I have a name and an address. I think it is her because my last name is not a German type name. Anyways, I wrote a long letter and made a 30-minute CD video message for her and sent it to the address I found. Now, if you were this young lady of 22 years and your father who you have not seen for almost 20 years sends you a letter and video stating how much he loves you and always wanted you. Would you be happy about getting this letter? Would it make you mad? I am lost on this. I do not know what all she was told over the years. I said nothing bad about her Mom.

2007-04-26 08:47:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Repeating this because people did not respond to MY facts. My H left me for a neighborhood friend. ****He moved out four blocks away, She lives five blocks away in the other direction. She put her husband out who moved around the corner from me.**** I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP. The winch and her husband - 1 daughter. My husband and I - 2 kids. We take the same train to work ( NOTICE - I WORK) but sometimes he gets off the train at my stop when he is coming from her house in the morning or going there in the evening. All kids under 8.
He is paying the mortgage, day care, tution for our kids I can't afford. He threatens to seek full custody of the kids if I move out of town. I can't afford $20,000 in attorney fees.
He still gets invited to friends parties & he takes her. Sometimes I am invited and sometimes not. He won't divorce me & is fighting my divorce. What??? I need any advice that you can give. I am thinking of moving away giving them the kids. Better absent than nuts, right?

2007-04-26 08:38:29 · 8 answers · asked by jazz41 2

My significant other thinks that his time is more valuable than mine. He will often ask me to do things, when I am already in the middle of multiple tasks. It's as if he thinks I have nothing better to do. He works outside the home, and I stay home to take care of our children. Do any other SAHM's out there have this problem, and if you do, how do you deal with it?

2007-04-26 08:26:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

2007-04-26 08:20:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17, and my husband is 18. We just had a little girl a month and a half ago. He doesn't really help, so I told him that I wanted to get on birth control so I dont become pregnant until we're ready next time. He disagreed, and said that I didnt need it. Well yesterday at my 6 week postpartum check up, my dr asked if I wanted birth control. I told her yes I did, and got a new thing called Implanon that is a little "stick" that gets put right under the skin in your arm and is effective for up to 3 years. I can get it taken out sooner if I want kids sooner, but i knew the pills, patch, or shot wouldnt work for me and this is so low maintenence... well anyways, when I got home, my husband wasnt mad, but wasnt happy with me either. should i feel guilty for getting it, or was it really my choice to let us grow up a little more before having any more kids?

2007-04-26 08:19:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

my granddaughter is in her mothers custody. her mother dumps her off on other grandparents, both of which have spent time in prison for drugs.the mother will not let my son even speak to his daughter on the phone. he resides in another state. in the past 3 months i have only been able to speak to my granddaughter a very few times on the phone and have only got to see her for 2.5 hours. the mothers house is filthy, my granddaughter does not get bathes on a regular basis.the mother leaves her constantly with other people.the mother is the most unfit woman i have ever met.the grandfather that my granddaughter is around so much is a possible child molester ,and the divorce states that my granddaughter is never to be left alone with him. what are my rights as a grandparent? how can i help my grandchild?

2007-04-26 08:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by jessie f 1

how do you communicate with them? this is my stepkids' mom and she totally does things for her own benefit and never once thinks of them. They don't live with her but yet she says we do everything wrong and accuses us of the dumbest things. We must communicate with her because the court says we do and because she's their mom. How do we ever get anything accomplished? She lives in another state.

2007-04-26 08:08:28 · 8 answers · asked by booger0819 3

Do you think they even realize it is happening to them? Would you want a friend to point it out to you?

2007-04-26 08:07:44 · 26 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 4 6