This guy is great! He cooks, cleans, massages, listens, dances, brings the check home to me, and I tried to push him away! What's wrong with me? I am having such a hard time with this. He told me he was coming at a certain time and had me waiting what's up with that. I was about to break up with him who needs that. Then we had a talk and he checked me for blowing the whole thing out of proportion. Made me feel bad for him standing me up. Now that's game! What should I do with this one? Maybe I'm just not ready to be commited.
2007-04-26 09:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by Peek@u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He did come later in the day. I understand some women like to be dogged but I don't. I am so scare of getting hurt I think I'm triing to find ways to test him. I don't know. I want things to work out but i don't want to be hurt again. I just don't. And I told him that. And he said he has no intentions on hurting me. Which was a honest answer. I'm leaning toward just jumping in with two feet. I DON'T KNOW! AGGG! THanks guys anyway.
2007-04-26 09:54:04 · update #1
He doesn't live here yet but that's where it's headed. He spends a lot of time here. I should tell you that we have a sixteen year old daughter together and some things happen in the past that we couldn't help. Now he's back and wants us to try to have the relationship that we couldn't have sixteen yrs ago. I feel like I'm on jerry. dang
2007-04-26 09:58:01 · update #2
Funny, my ex always had to "talk me down" from the incredibly inconsiderate things that he did.
Six months after leaving him I realize that people CAN be accountable to each other if they really want to....
So sounds like he is living with you or what? I don't get the dynamic since you said he gives you his paycheck....
2007-04-26 09:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he eventually come? Or did he not come? I would be mad if I was waiting around with no phone call. You have to figure out what he wants in life. The stuff in the beginning sounds like he's a great guy. If you're afraid of committment, then walk away. Sounds like he wants you and is committed to you. Walk before you break the guy's heart even more, or suck it up and be committed to him if he makes you happy.
2007-04-26 16:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman just love to be crapped on, two of my good friends here at work get crapped on all the time by their husbands, who do nothing to help out around the house,, and also they get called nasty names, but still together, one for 21 years, and the other for 13, treated like dirt,,
so maybe your guy should wake up and understand that woman for some odd reason, never want to hang onto a guy that is understanding and smart and a good cook,
2007-04-26 16:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quality guy is late and you want to break up? You're doing HIM a favor.
2007-04-26 16:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not feeling him, it was not meant to be, walk away.
2007-04-26 16:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋