Marriage & Divorce - 26 April 2007

I'm changing jobs and will be making $6 less per hour. I want to modify my child support but do not want to get lawyers involved. What is the process?

2007-04-26 08:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by Michael W 1

My wife and I live next to a very attractive French woman.

We enjoy her company very much. My Korean girlfriend has been over a few times when the wife is out of town, and she isn't as fond of her. Maybe it's the whole foreign thing. Who knows.

Anyway, sometimes I'll get up at 2 or 3 am and walk over to our neighbors house and try the door. I haven't gotten it to open yet, but every time I'm hopefull.

My Korean girlfriend says this is dangerous. I don't think it's that big of a deal. What do you think?

It's not fair that I'm always under this much stress.

2007-04-26 07:59:01 · 23 answers · asked by Kermit 2

Ok, here is the situation. My husband has a cow because I want to go out alone without him. I work a full time job and have 3 kids. I go out about once a week without him. Am I wrong in wanting to do this? I was caught talking to a guy about 2 years ago and he thinks I am screwing around on him. I also had some money hidden and he found it. I do tend to turn heads sometimes and he is insecure and jealous of that. He thinks I am going to find someone else. I need some advise here. What should I do and how should I handle this? I don't feel I have given him ANY reason to think that I am cheating on him.

2007-04-26 07:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by t j 1

after 6 months of trying i have finally conceived (i'm 6 weeks pregnant) but now my partner of eight years has changed his mind and has decided he doesn't want a baby and can't cope with my mood swings. Should I ditch him and bring the baby up alone or stay with him and hope that he changes his mind?
p.s we already have a 6 year old son together

2007-04-26 07:46:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think the rate is (like, 50% of relationships, 70% of relationships).

2007-04-26 07:45:09 · 15 answers · asked by Loose Cannon 1

Is it cheating to communicate with other men from my computer at work when no actual sex talk occurs, just teasing and suggestive talk?? No real names are used and never will be.

2007-04-26 07:40:45 · 38 answers · asked by misty_ghostdancer_1 1

Myhusband left me for a neighborhood friend. He moved out four blocks away, She lives five blocks away in the other direction. She put her husband out who moved around the corner from me. I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP. The winch and her husband have 1 daughter. My husband and I have two kids. We take the same train to work but sometimes he gets off the train at my stop when he is coming from her house in the morning or going there in the evening. All kids are under 8.
He is paying the mortgage. I can't afford it. He is also paying the day care and tution for our kids I can't afford. He has threatened to seek full custody of the kids if I move out of town. I can't afford $20,000 in attorney fees.

He still gets invited to friends parties & he takes her. Sometimes I am invited and sometimes not. I am miserable.
He won't divorce me and is fighting my divorce filing. What??? I need any advice that you can give. I am thinking of moving away giving them the kids. Better absent than crazy?

2007-04-26 07:40:19 · 14 answers · asked by jazz41 2

I'm 37 yrs old and I already have an 11 yr. old son. I never ever pictured myself having only one child, and I have been wanting another one for years now. My husband has made it clear he doesn't want any more period. He refuses to even discuss it. It makes me sad when I see babies because I know I will never have another one. I find myself wandering into the baby section of the stores whenever I go shopping just looking at all the cute little things I will never be able to get. It's driving me crazy. I'm getting too old to wait much longer, if I'm going to have another one, it has to be soon or not at all. I just picture myself in a few years depressed over the loss of my "womanhood" because I'll be past childbearing years. Please don't say volunteer at a daycare or a hospital, because being around babies makes me sad. I have to get over wanting one of my own, but how do I do that?

2007-04-26 07:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend who is 22 and is in the army...he's going to marry some girl Friday or Saturday and he doesn't even know this girl. I mean...he's been talking to her over the phone for about a month and he has met her once in person. I think she's only going to marry him for his money and he wanted to hurry up and get married cause he's going to Iraq in May. I've told him over and over again that he shouldn't marry her. ****...when they get married..they are only going to get to spend like a week or two with each other then he's gone to Iraq for 15 months. Someone please help me by telling me what to say to him so he doesn't make the biggest mistake in his life.

2007-04-26 07:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lisha 2

Ive only been married 2 years and I have a one year old daughter.My husband and I recently moved in my husband 's old house because we lived another part of the country.The house is where he grew up and is where his elderly mother is living and has done so for a few years because she cannot afford living on her own.My husband pays the mortgae and all the bills.Ive never had any hesitation of sharing a house with her she seems like a nice lady,But lately its starting to change because I am noticing shes overly possesive with the house.The furnishing and decorations have 2 be her way and shes not open 2 any changes and she has many old figurines of no value where it easy for my one year old to grab old of and I suggested whe put them up higher or away in a safe place just for a while until my daughter outgrows the touching everything phase well she exploaded.She wont have it and expects me to yell at a 1 year old all day everyday.My husband is away on a work assignment.What am I to do?

2007-04-26 07:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

Ive only been married 2 years and I have a one year old daughter.My husband and I recently moved in my husband 's old house because we lived another part of the country.The house is where he grew up and is where his elderly mother is living and has done so for a few years because she cannot afford living on her own.My husband pays the mortgae and all the bills.Ive never had any hesitation of sharing a house with her she seems like a nice lady,But lately its starting to change because I am noticing shes overly possesive with the house.The furnishing and decorations have 2 be her way and shes not open 2 any changes and she has many old figurines of no value where it easy for my one year old to grab old of and I suggested whe put them up higher or away in a safe place just for a while until my daughter outgrows the touching everything phase well she exploaded.She wont have it and expects me to yell at a 1 year old all day everyday.My husband is away on a work assignment.What am I to do?

2007-04-26 07:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

If you own, how much is your house payment?

2007-04-26 07:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by krymarbet 1

I have a great girlfriend of 6 months...We had alot of problems in february.(she lied)..She has also dumped me 5 times in the coarse of the 6 months, which makes me wonder when the next time is going to be....but we get back together a couple of days later each time. Now, when i am with her we laugh and joke and have a great time...i feel happy...but when im not with her, i think bad thoughts of everything that has happend since february...the thing is, i dont think about one thing in perticular, its just like a hovering thought or lingering..at night i cant really sleep for the same reason...but when i get up in the morning i cant really remember what issue i was dwelling on all night. I think she might have made me very insecure in the relationship..and im not used to that...Any ideas on how to get over my insecurity...what can i do? what can she do? she wants to make me feel better...

2007-04-26 07:19:00 · 18 answers · asked by dav m 2

I work 50 hours a week. My wife dose not work out side the house. She takes care of our two childeren, a two year old and a six month old. So I know she works. She cooks wonderful meals and is the most wonderful mother our kids could ever want. The problem is the house is always a mess. Not a small mess but a big one. When I get home she wants me to do the cleaning. When I get upset it starts an arguement that lasts all night. I love her but I think she should clean a bit more. I will help but shouldn't she have things clean when I get home? I just want some some advice

2007-04-26 07:18:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

This past March my mom asked if I wanted to move to Nekoosa with her. I told her that I would have to talk to my boyfriend Evan about it. I asked him if he wanted me to go and he told me that IF I move he will move in July after his graduation party. He recently proposed to me and I said yes. Well people in his classes keep telling him that he just messed his life up because he is only 18. Now last night he told me about all this and he doesn't know if he wants to move up here or not. He said he loves me and wants to be with me but has to think about everything about us being engaged and him moving. My mom and I are supose to get applications today so he has a job and with $2.89 a gallon and not having that much money we don't want to get them and him not even move. He asked what if he didn't move and I told him then, " I wasted my time going to a school with no friends and getting our apartment set up. My question is, if he doesn't move should I move back to Kenosha or stay here?

2007-04-26 07:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Haley Candace 2

Recently my husband cheated on me with his coworker. I want him to find another job so he and the tramp can't work together anymore. He is refusing to do so because it's like dropping his career. He works as a recreation supervisor for the city. Is it fair that he find another job for the sake of our marriage?

2007-04-26 07:12:17 · 48 answers · asked by dmL 1

2007-04-26 07:08:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sent this young lady a text message to tell her I was thinking about her, and she told me she had been thinking about me; however, she had sent me a text message over the last two days, and I had not responded. She then asked me was I ok? I sent her a message telling her that I had been hanging out with my cousin, and she texted me back and said "Fair Enough". I am not sure, but I think that may means she's a little annoyed with me. What do you think?

2007-04-26 07:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

now that i took my husband back he has a code on his cell phone is there anything out there that can unlock that code so i can see what he dont want me to see. if there is anyone out there who can help me find out whats on that cell phone please write back.

2007-04-26 07:02:31 · 54 answers · asked by sherryBerry 1

My friend complains to me all the time about how he is unhappy in his marriage. He has 3 kids who are all under 3 years of age. Everyone tells him "it's cheaper to keep her". You need to stay and just tolerate her. They argue everyday. They've been married for 4 years now. She has no job so he's afraid he'll have to pay alimony. He tried to discuss his feelings with her but that only leads to another argument. My question to you guys is, do you think he should stay in an unhappy marriage and be miserable or should he leave the marriage and try to be happy either alone or with someone else in the future. Couple of things to consider, there are young children involved and if he leaves, he'll be paying a lot of $$$ in CS for 3 kids and possibly alimony.

2007-04-26 07:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by #1 Monkey Minion 3

-Were you caught?
-Do you feel guilty?
-What were the circumstances?

2007-04-26 06:55:46 · 42 answers · asked by Michael9 4

she was married at 15 in mexico and crossed the border illegally She has a social security card but it is not her number. she has been working in texas for 9 years. she wants to get a divorce, and be able to work legally and be able to cross the border legally to see her family and return to texas so she can remarry.

2007-04-26 06:55:36 · 5 answers · asked by andy h 1

So many people say you just know .....but these people still usually end up getting a divorce....how do you know when you are truly ready?

2007-04-26 06:50:46 · 16 answers · asked by Rachael P 1

Now I am sure the women out there know their significant others.....

2007-04-26 06:47:46 · 41 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5

I actually asked him if it was a mischarge, and he said it was definitely not his. I know for a fact he's been on this website. It's he actually cheating on me with another women? And I also found out that this website is the biggest swinger website I am so hurt and I'm not sure what to do.

2007-04-26 06:45:26 · 22 answers · asked by nyc88 1

2007-04-26 06:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are swingers and my wife told me don't even think about it unless she is married and all four of us connect together.

Here is what I am thinking about doing. I will tell this girl about who we are and that I need her to get a good looking guy to pose as her hubby then meet us for drinks at our house. Then we can see if there if there is chemistry then if there is, do what we do.

Would this be too sneaky even for a swinger couple?

2007-04-26 06:41:57 · 12 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1

Why some people dosent have any significant impact when they lose somebody very close to them while some even lose their mental balance ? some people react nothing as there is nothing happened while some shows obvious sign of lose.some expresses it openly but some can't.some cry in front of others but some cant like me i cant cry in front of others i always cry while im alone just remembering her.i know its a human nature it can vary person to person but dose physical things has anything to do with pain, sarrow or heartache? My question applies to all kind of relationship love, family and others.

2007-04-26 06:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Rave 1

convention next month. should i do it?

2007-04-26 06:27:54 · 31 answers · asked by mark s 1

He just moved to faze two and has been sober for 3 months, even helped pay for my prom dress with his tax returns and we've been dating on and off for 6 or 7 years.

2007-04-26 06:19:56 · 34 answers · asked by Farrah H 1