-Were you caught?
-Do you feel guilty?
-What were the circumstances?
2007-04-26 06:55:46 · 42 answers · asked by Michael9 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on your definition of adultery. The Biblical defintion is any sexual relationship outside of a married relationship, which includes consenting adults that are single.
From that definition, I have committed adultery. I am not proud of it, but I do not feel guilt because I have asked for and received forgiveness, both from God and from my future wife.
From the standpoint of cheating, whether it be on a significant other or as the "other" person, the answer is no. Not even in a loveless marriage, I did not do that.
2007-04-26 07:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i have never commited adultery, came close once though. Although I can not talk for my ex wife, she had seven affairs. And yes she was caught, why, because people are people, everyone follows a routine, and after being with a person for so long you see it, recognize it, and that is how i caught her each time. If she fealt guilty i couldn't tell you, I would imagine no considering the fact that she started a whole world of crap with me and eventually took everything I owned, Ther circumstances which time. this last time I walked in on her having an affair with a man and woman in front of my 3 month old baby, so i did what any man that enters that situation does, completely lost it. I punched 2 holes in a wall and got charged with 2 felony aggrevated assault charges on a wall, I was immediately arrested and spent 2 days in jail, then saw the judge that happened to be her cousin, then got told i was not allowed to see my kids again, and the list of the malicious attack goes on. But i won't bore you with the details.
2007-04-26 07:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by calverley79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes did, not caught but suspected, yes felt very guilty (as one should be). Circumstances were the ex-wife being a negligent, lazy, and actually terrible mother. I couldn't take it anymore and rebelled, albeit in a wrong way, but not after years of pleading and trying to fix things. Somehow, thru an ugly and costly divorce, with my dear kids victimized by a revenge-crazy money-hungry bad mom, i now have a new wife I love, and primary custody of my boys, and we can heal and move forward healthily. I did it wrong (adultery), but trying to make the best of it and live right going forward.
2007-04-26 07:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Serg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I've never committed adultery. I have too much too lose if I got caught. I'd feel guilty. There are no legitimate circumstances.
2007-04-26 07:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a young teenager, I cheated (kiss) on my boyfriend. I told him about it, and it ruined our relationship just the same. He never forgave me.
The next boyfriend I had, I cheated (sex) on with the first boyfriend. I got caught, and we broke up. (my friend tattled)
I guess I cheated here and there throughout high school.
I guess I didn't feel too guilty, either.
As an adult, and in adult relationships, I have never cheated. I don't know what did it, I would guess becoming a mother has changed me.
LOL yeah and then I read everyone else's answers. OK so I'm not talking about marriage. But if I was married, no.
2007-04-26 07:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by BellaJ_DDils 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but I thought about it when things were really bad.
I knew I would get caught or feel guilty and it is wrong so I talked myself out of it before I made a stupid mistake
2007-04-26 07:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by nascargirl216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I Will be honest and so far the only one here to say yes. I was starting the process of divorce though. I still lived with my husband but knew it was ending soon. I met someone who listened to me and comforted me. It happened and I did feel guilty. My ex never found out.
2007-04-26 07:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we were separated., and I was trying to move on. Very guilty because I still loved my husband. But it worked out, because we got back together. We've been married for 14 years now. This happened in our 2nd year of marriage.
MY advice... DON'T DO IT!!! Even for the reasons I did.... DON'T DO IT
2007-04-26 07:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by jeaniesfloral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have been to church billions of cases and that i nevertheless did anyhow. Its way too nasty and gross. i know this actual loopy female that is going to this church each and every Sundays and he or she continually commits adultery, each time. She even made a bypass on me at one time, yet I refuse, by way of fact my spouse replaced into approx. a hundred ft away in yet another neighbor's homestead. Its a loopy international available.
2016-11-27 23:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know adultery is sex out of marriage but doesn't that include premarital sex too? I always wounder that but I think it does. I haven't. Anyway cheating hurts people you care about, and makes you look and feel like a shitty person. Don't do it!
2007-04-26 07:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by miley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋