This past March my mom asked if I wanted to move to Nekoosa with her. I told her that I would have to talk to my boyfriend Evan about it. I asked him if he wanted me to go and he told me that IF I move he will move in July after his graduation party. He recently proposed to me and I said yes. Well people in his classes keep telling him that he just messed his life up because he is only 18. Now last night he told me about all this and he doesn't know if he wants to move up here or not. He said he loves me and wants to be with me but has to think about everything about us being engaged and him moving. My mom and I are supose to get applications today so he has a job and with $2.89 a gallon and not having that much money we don't want to get them and him not even move. He asked what if he didn't move and I told him then, " I wasted my time going to a school with no friends and getting our apartment set up. My question is, if he doesn't move should I move back to Kenosha or stay here?
2007-04-26 07:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Haley Candace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgot to put in the fact that there is this girl that is in 2 of his classes and everyone tells him that he should be with her because he can see her more since he only sees me on the weekends. He doesn't talk to any of his friends. I told him before I moved to hang out with them and that he didn't have to be with me every minute of the day. He took me to school, and after school he was with me til midnight and it was like that everyday accept the weekend when he worked but on Saturday he slept over. I told him to go hang out with his friends because he did not need to be with me the entire time. But he always said no because they always talked bad about us or whatever. He also said they weren't great friends to start off with. At school the people telling him he messed his life up never talked to him before until a few days ago. All they say is "you messed your life up go out with Jenny"
2007-04-26 07:33:08 · update #1
Stay where you are, you are both too young for marraige or even a serious relationship.
2007-04-26 07:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it most beneficial for you where you are or in Kenosha? You have to look out for your needs whether you're single, engaged or married. Your partner has to look out for his needs and then you can negotiate and possibly compromise.
My immediate thought when I read the situation was that if he can be swayed by what his friends say, he may not be ready for a committed relationship.
2007-04-26 14:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by E Click 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your mom should go ahead and move. Regardless of what his friends are saying to him, if he loves you he will move to be with you. You both are way to young to get engaged. You know that saying about the butterfly, if you set it free and it comes back it yours yada, yada, yada, and if it doesn't come back it never was. Good rule of thumb to live by. Use your head. Good luck.
2007-04-26 14:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where you are, your young, have a life. If he changed his mind based on what other people say he is not ready for marrige let him go.
2007-04-26 14:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay where you are if he dont move. Tell him he needs to make up his mind about moving and you.
2007-04-26 14:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfli a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋