Marriage & Divorce - 26 April 2007

so- what i want to know is- how do you know you want to get married. i've been with my bf for almost 4 yrs now. we are both 26yrs old, have loving relationship, are best friends, & are just good people overall. we started dating right out of college, and have been ever since. i love him so much- but i'm scared to get married. i am scared that he will propose & i'll not be able to say yes.there is nothing about him that is a "deal-breaker" so to speak-i just don't know if i'm ready yet- he's been talking about it a lot lately. after 4 yrs, those "lovey-dovey" head over heels, infatuated feelings go away- yet i feel like when you want to/are ready to marry someone- you should feel that way. i know i want to get married one day & have a family. is it okay to go into a marriage-engagement with out feeling- "giddy" & so excited? how is it supposed to feel? or are we all fooling ourselves and living in a fantasty land of "happily ever after?" he is my best friend- is that enough?

2007-04-26 02:40:06 · 13 answers · asked by no_worries 1

doesn't talk or walk with to you in public?but only talk to you when not in public?

2007-04-26 02:20:12 · 21 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Well guys, about 3 months ago I was suspsecting my girl of 3 years that she was cheating. She was hiding text messages, calls, and emails. She needed help to get a job, not working with him but on the same department.

Well the other night he text her again, after 3 months of things being back to normal.

So last night, joking around, I said, "I tapped your phone.. anything you want to tell me?" (I really didn't do it) Just to see what she would say. And she said, "Just break up with me now. I don't wanna be with someone that psycho." And then she says, "I also know for a fact you can't do that, and it's an invasion of privacy.."

Anyway.. was she hiding something in the texts?

2007-04-26 02:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1

2007-04-26 02:08:19 · 26 answers · asked by iknownothing 3

garter belts and stockings. She has several different colors and types. She says it makes her feel sexy. And, I think it's sexy also. Do any other ladies feel the same way? What are your thoughts?

2007-04-26 02:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by Rhett Butler 2

she didn't cry on her` dad `s funeral........"when asked her why didn't she cry ...isnt she sad"?she replied...she felt sad but she doesn't t seem to want to come out tears.Why do you think she act that way?

2007-04-26 02:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Duhhhh??

LOL

2007-04-26 01:18:12 · 11 answers · asked by Bubba Sparks 1

my husband and 2 children and i moved to spain from england a little while back we have since split up and my children are settled and love it here and i am worried that i can be made to take them back to the u.k as my husbanfd has now returned there. please help me!!!

2007-04-26 01:14:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, after taking a biology science class, I understand the male body and do take note that the sexual hormone is prevalent in the male. This is the way God/Nature intended. However, I think there is an actual human brain in a male that says "No I should not do this" or "My wife is gonna blow a gasket for this". But to use the be all end all of cop outs, we just sit back and say "well that is just a guy fur ya".

This clown here who is online having sexcapades does not need a wife, he needs his computer and she should leeev hiz hazzz right now. If he is not mature enough to say to himself (let alone anyone else) "ya know, I love my lil wifey and this would hurt her terribly", then why should he deserve to keep her.

Go get some help dude. You may have addicitive personality disorder. It aint about sex anymore, you are a sexual addict.

2007-04-26 01:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Bubba Sparks 1

If they cheat, and travel together, and he spends on her lavishly,
five stars hotel suits on the beach, and you are left behind, and your child and you are leaving off plain rice; and when you find out they say that it's their basic rights to pursue their happiness, and that they are in love, and somehow it is right, isn't it? They fell in love and are having good time, and it's right, and you are wrong?

2007-04-26 01:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by msn 2

2007-04-26 01:01:11 · 17 answers · asked by Isa ! 1

2007-04-26 00:49:57 · 2 answers · asked by E 1

Just few corrections here to make it perfectly factual
And now she is really pissed because she read the worst things unimaginable, but all this stuff was just a craze of writing and had nothing to do with my realities or thoughts, in spare time, and put off the steam of some bad days, but included no cyber, I acted as various people, and never r the reality of me as a mature man, or never had a wish to meet, to cyber, or to call -100% fiction and mind games with weirdo’s on the chat rooms, then on emails, stupid YES, awful yes, will do again...NO, most definitely not (for good) she really is taking it so hard and thinks it is over with our marriage ..Do you think I (we) deserve that, and we will loose our love & life? As I worship her?????

2007-04-26 00:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by mature_egyptian 1

But I don't want her to fall pregnant. Discuss.

2007-04-26 00:24:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

motorway police who signalled me to pull over. An officer comes up and I put the front passenger window down. He asks who was on the phone, to which I replied a friend. I told him I was using a Bluetooth but he did not seem interested and said the law has changed in Feb and you cannot use a phone (this surely does not apply do Bluetooth devices???). I again put across that I was not using a phone but a Bluetooth. Because there was a slight itch,I was stroking my neck/chin with my elbow resting on the door/bottom of window. I guess he assumed I was using a mobile although when I wasn’t. So he started filling out this ticket and done the usual checks. I clearly told him I was not using the phone.Furthermore my phone was dark black and how he visibly seen this in the dark as apposed to my silver Bluetooth headset , i don't know??He even wrote down it was dark black phone. It says to surrender my licence at the police station within 7 days but should I do this?

2007-04-26 00:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a relationship with girls who are really close with another each other. The two of them have loved each other from childhood. As some women do, they like to have sex with each other. Since my relationship with this girl and her friend (her friend having tagged along on many dates) have become close, my girl friend asked me if we could include her girl friend (who has become a best friend of mine) in our relationship.
This is what many a man would consider a bonus. They can go be themselves, shop and do things guys feel obligated to do, and I'm not dragged into it so much. I get to spend time with them both, in a non-platonic way, and neither of them gets mad, that they aren't getting attention. I don't feel like I'm being cheated on or anything, and every thing seems to be going good....
Except that I would like to marry these girls (both of them together, and we've talked about it). But the church and Government won't allow it. I'd like to know why the three of us can't be?

2007-04-26 00:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Ben A 2

The problem is her mother want to marry him to a other boy, I love him very much i can't leave without her. she also loves me. Please help me.

2007-04-26 00:17:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-26 00:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by sharad 1

I am a Muslim and I got married according to Muslim rituals in Udaipur in July 2006. Is registration of our wedding compulsory? If so, how can I go about doing it? Its been more than 9 months since the wedding Is it too late for registration? What are the penalties/ drawbacks for non-registration?

2007-04-26 00:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by minos00_2000 1