Ok, after taking a biology science class, I understand the male body and do take note that the sexual hormone is prevalent in the male. This is the way God/Nature intended. However, I think there is an actual human brain in a male that says "No I should not do this" or "My wife is gonna blow a gasket for this". But to use the be all end all of cop outs, we just sit back and say "well that is just a guy fur ya".
This clown here who is online having sexcapades does not need a wife, he needs his computer and she should leeev hiz hazzz right now. If he is not mature enough to say to himself (let alone anyone else) "ya know, I love my lil wifey and this would hurt her terribly", then why should he deserve to keep her.
Go get some help dude. You may have addicitive personality disorder. It aint about sex anymore, you are a sexual addict.
2007-04-26 01:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Bubba Sparks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men and women CHOOSE to have sex
hormones or not, you CHOOSE to have sex, we arent animals that have sex with ANY thing...
2007-04-26 01:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll probably get thumbs down for this, but it seems like your pregnancy hormones are making you overreact a bit. He seems to really love you, and I know how you feel because I thought about leaving my boyfriend too. I didn't think he was going to own up to the responsibilities of being a father, but boy did he prove me wrong! :) He loves you, it's so obvious. Don't be so paranoid and worried. He seems to be here for the long haul. As far as the sex goes...guys have bad days with it just like we do. It's normal for a guy to have problems getting it "Up" if he's stressed out. You say you NEED sex, but maybe he has things going on in his head that he can't express and might not be in the mood to have sex. Why don't you ask him how he's feeling and be real with him. But, trust me sex isn't everything. My man would rather cuddle on the couch because we're at the point in our relationship where being intimate and affectionate with our clothes on is more important to him than anything. Grant it, I like sex - but since I've become pregnant my sex drive has gone totally done. None of the right buttons work anymore. If he doesn't want to have as much sex, why don't you have him help take care of you? Or, take care of yourself. I do from time to time. You need him around. He's a good guy, and he seems very excited to become a daddy.
2016-05-19 02:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women too for that matter like to try and justify their actions whether thy are wrong or right.
It has taken a long time but the one thing that I have learned over time is that if I have done something and need to apologize then it needs to just be "I'm so very sorry and I will try to never hurt you like that again" no excuses, reasons or justifications.
It is a difficult thing to do because as humans we really want to tell our "reasons" for doing a certain thing but when it matters most and when we have truly hurt someone then the apology needs to be just that and nothing else.
2007-04-26 01:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is an online sexcapade? I think you actually have to meet in person to have sex, therefore this is all in your head.
As for what you learned in your high school biology class about sexuality, oooh please!
2007-04-26 01:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE TEY ARE FULL OF BLAHH BLAHH BLAHH LOL
2007-04-26 01:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋