Was she cheating?

Question

Well guys, about 3 months ago I was suspsecting my girl of 3 years that she was cheating. She was hiding text messages, calls, and emails. She needed help to get a job, not working with him but on the same department.

Well the other night he text her again, after 3 months of things being back to normal.

So last night, joking around, I said, "I tapped your phone.. anything you want to tell me?" (I really didn't do it) Just to see what she would say. And she said, "Just break up with me now. I don't wanna be with someone that psycho." And then she says, "I also know for a fact you can't do that, and it's an invasion of privacy.."

Anyway.. was she hiding something in the texts?

I made something up like I "tapped her text messages"

Answer 1

You might drive her to cheating with your paranoia. In a relationship of 3 years there should be trust. You are being too suspicious.

Answer 2

her hiding those things are sending off major warning bells to me. And she is wrong about not being able to tap a phone. It is not allowed in court if you did not tell that person you were taping them though. My ex best friend used to freak out when ever she couldn't find her phone and she was always flirting and play grabb *** with my husband. Well we were already suspicious that they were having an affair so one morning my oldest son got a hold of her cell phone and checked her texts. sure enough they were texting each other all about what they had been doing and it went on for a few months. It sounds like unless you've got the proof sitting right in front of her she is never going to admit it and you've got to decide whether you want to find out the hard way or not if she is messing around on you.

Answer 3

I disagree with all your other answers. I think it's good that you would question her. If you feel she is doing something wrong. If she can't come clean and wants to end it then you probably should, but if she says it's not that big of a deal and she only wants to be with you physically and emotionally, then you should work on the communication a little bit, but everything should work out good.

Answer 4

What do you want to know...to confirm? That's she's screwing this dude? Duh...Hell yeah! They have the hots for each other. It could have been a one nighter, but apparently both of em liked it so much, it's an ongoing thing.

Answer 5

Evidently she was hiding something from you, the way it sounds is she is trying to find an excuse to call it quits with you or she is quilty and knows it.

Answer 6

She probably was hiding something , and she probably was cheating and still is, These days it seems like everybody cheats, So be careful.

Answer 7

Well if she`s not, she soon will be if you keep behaving like that! You need to find another way of checking up on her, and stop joking about it.

Answer 8

You need to start working with a therapist to get over your suspicions. You are not being fair to her.

Answer 9

I don't know if she is cheating or was cheating but she is sure upset at the possibility of you checking up on her.

Answer 10

well of three years you should know if she's lieing so ask her out right if she's lieing then finish it if not then make it work good luck darling