We've been unhappily married for a year and consumated the relationship only once. We live States apart and he doesn't make any effort to send time with me. Whenever I bring up the subject, he gets defensive and starts shouting and yelling.
2007-04-26 10:10:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce, and find someone that actually cares about you.
2007-04-26 10:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by James Dean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing for both of you'll is to get a divorce. Because why live in marriage when the marriage ended a long time ago. It is just putting stress on you and him. But if you need a friend to chat with just IM me anytime.
2007-04-26 17:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say get a divorce because that isn't the answer to everthing. why don't you seek marriage counseling. how do you know that he cheated. if he surely doesn't want to get help with the marriage and you guys tried everything then maybe start divorce proceedings. i would try everything first then see where you guys are. i have a guy that doesnt communicate eiether and sometimes i wish he were living in a different state.
2007-04-26 17:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by bella-d46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*A little off topic, but on at the same time.*
Cheating means someone is wanting another and not you.
I'm all for a full,open,loving,and creative sex life.
I'm for a couple doing whatever makes them feel comfortable and meets both of their needs. If an open relationship meets both their needs then great.
If it doesn't meet both needs and makes someone a little unsure about themselves or feeling unloved then it's just not worth it. If he is not meeting your needs.....then walk.
There are sooooo many men out there that are loving,caring, wonderful in many ways who will make you feel special and loved.
Contrary to belief, there are men out there that are faithful. After 2 yrs. of an "open relationship" in which we had great sex,but left me feeling not so loved. I'm in a relationship with a wonderfully open,sexually satisfying man and we both feel connected,loved,and understood.
If you are unhappy, then don't stay.
2007-04-26 17:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dosent sound like you have any marriage left. If the spouse is still cheating there is no working with then until they sever all ties with the other person. If there is no children involved cut your losses and be glad you got away when you did.
2007-04-26 17:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if ur unhappily married and live states away why are u even still married?
2007-04-26 17:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated than I would divorce him. No reason to stay with someone who won't put in any effort. Start over with your life and make sure he's not in it.
2007-04-26 17:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek assistance from an attorney. If there's kids involved you will have to consider the children. If there's no kids in involved, alimony, and all you can get, and stay away. Nevertheless, talk with an attorney.
2007-04-26 17:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by ZEBUCORE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that this man does not want to be with you and has no interest in making a marriage, therefor I suggest you move on with your life and stop dwelling on something that only exsit as a name because there is definitely no marriage.
2007-04-26 17:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kandie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even in "roomate" status. You live apart.
MOVE ON, HONEY. Let him do his yelling at somebody else. You deserve so much better...and it's there for the taking, you just have to take action and claim it.
2007-04-26 17:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I wouldn't suggest divorce but in this case that is the only thing to do. What a disaster!
2007-04-26 17:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋