2007-04-26 10:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
such an ammazing question.
iv seen women getting treated like crap and they STILL want the man . the thing is ...sum women have low self esteem and they think that if they hang on to a guy ....that makes them important. and their whole world revolvez around the guy.
there are many examples of wife beating and abuse in relationships. that is just because women think that they cant do any better than that man . they just need to learn to have other things working in their life that makes them feel special ...like a good job..or being close to their family members.
because once u let a man behave badly with u ...he will continue to do it. this rule isnt just for men ...its for everybody. u need to set limits on what kind of behavior ur willing to tolerate.
so the women who whine about being mistreated...its their own fault. u teach people how to treat u.
2007-04-26 10:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by zjk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to be specific, how exactly do you think your being treated like crap? If you mean that he is being a real man, and taking control of his life and everything that is his, and that includes you, then your just being a spoiled, whiney, typical in todays world, female and I would suggest you grow up, but if he's just flat out an idiot, worthless low life, that beats on you, and curses you, if he just curses you some that doesnt count as abuse. but if he beats on you then you need to get him into counseling, dont divorce him unless he has cheated on you, thats the only reason ever for divorce, sexual immorality. If you divorce him for any other reason other than cheating, that will make both of you adulterous. as for why low life men think women will always be there even if they treat them bad, their stupid, they think their **** dont stink, when you marry, you marry for life, take the good with the bad, and get help for the really bad. dont put up with adultry, even that can be forgiven and worked thru if he/she is truly sorry, it makes it very tuff tho, hard to get back the trust. if he's beating on you, get away till he gets help and never hurts you again. get him and you in church, that will help more than anything, as well as counseling. trust me.
2007-04-26 17:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by samuraijsp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the old days when men could treat woman like crap but not anymore. women have got it all now without HIM wearing the pants in the family. ba bye to the 50's leave it to beaver lifestyle and hello 2000 and the new independent women who will be ruling the world! go get em girls!
2007-04-26 10:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
*Well because half the time they are.*
-Most women are vulnerable to emotional situations...so even if a guy treats her like crap, she will stick around for fear of losing him...or because she was lead to believe that she cannot do better than him. So she sticks around.
.It's almost like they have the same mind frame as women who are emotionally or physically abused.
2007-04-26 10:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sadly enough time and time again women are attracted to the guys that treat them badly. Most of the time they still want to get back with them even after they break up
2007-04-26 10:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by phnxfrhwk 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you,but look how many questions are on here from women wanting to continue their marriage with their cheating husband. Do they bring it on themselves? So if the husband gets away with it once,why stop when he knows she'll be there with open arms and legs to wecome him home? Think maybe that's why?
2007-04-26 12:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like it is , there is no reason for you to put up with BS from anyone, stand up for yourself and let him know the rules as you see them and if he doesn't straighten out his act he can hit the highway. This has gone on far to long for him not to see the light. Life's to short to be miserable.
2007-04-26 12:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to exhibit strong indicators of a narcissist, so yes, she could very well be "crazy" as you refer to mental illness. She seems like a toxic person to be around, so I would do everything I can to steer clear of her. And possibly get her some much-needed help.
2016-05-19 04:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for an awakening?
IT'S BECAUSE WE LET THEM believe that they can do it and get away with it. Have you done anything to show him he can't do that and still be with you? People treat us the way we teach them we'll accept being treated by them. That's the TRUTH, Girl.
2007-04-26 10:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you stay even when he treats you like crap. If you left, he would respect you
2007-04-26 10:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Coming_home 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋