time with us. Is 2 hrs. on the computer normal? it;s not like that's what he does for a living. he's a constuction worker but the second he walks in the door that's what he does until i get mad, then he hurrys and gets off. what would you say?
2007-04-26 10:09:07 · 16 answers · asked by bella-d46 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh, if he was your husband then I hope he had a wife... unless hes bisexual and in a weird country or something where he is married to you (a guy) and a woman.....
Did anyone else find the wording of this question weird?
2007-04-26 14:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by kl0wnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say porno--- or he is on chat with a girl talking about kinky sh!t, in any case, get a lap top in the kitchen because youwant to know whats so good to take him away so long every day. Be a ***** cause this is your man and in the end you'll want to know anyways. I've seen marriages break up cause of whore they hook up with on line. Then they run to the store for something and calll them. I hate players, anyway hope you don't have to police your husband but if your not with a practicing worshiping christian, well once the thrill ride is a little bland in the romance the other men stray with no conscious of family. Pray for him and get real honest with your concerns, if he is wanting privacy--then there you go. Get him in church, worship, put Christ first. Its the only way to have peace. Good luck!
2007-04-26 17:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get a computer tech person to come in while he is away and put a program on the computer that will track his email and web searches. This will be a good way to find out what is going on and why he needs to be on so urgent. it is a good possibility he has a girlfriend on there. you have to understand men only want 2 things to make them happy. a hot meal on the table and sex every nite. if that isn't happening then you have problems. its a simple fact of life with men. marriage has never and will never be good for them. good luck and get yourself prepared like a trooper to handle what you might find out about his computer escapades!
2007-04-26 17:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by 3cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, in my eyes there should not be anything more important than spending quality time with your love ones and nothing (that can be helped should come second). If he chooses to be an individual in a relationship, that requires two, there is a a problem brewing. Explain your concern to him and see if his behavior changes. Show him attention and your desire for his and you should not have the problem anymore. Hope I have helped.
2007-04-26 17:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by seaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me I get home from work and spend time with my wife and kids before my friends and computer by the time kids goes to bed and I go and do my time.. even I get up 430am to do my own time until one of my kids wake up and i stop and go out there spend times with them smiling...
It seems that he not ready for kids and He will quickly get off computer because you mad or pissed off. gosh he sure not a gret father to be.
2007-04-26 17:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal my fiance gets off work at 330 and is on that thing until 10 or 11. He eats his dinner in there.
And then he gets upset because we are not in the same room.
Theres a tv in there for me now. lol
2007-04-26 17:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol 2 hours.... that's not that much.. that must be his way of relaxing especially after a day of construction work. Talk to him about having a time limit so that you can have family time. Maybe take your kids to the park to play or something while the two of you talk on the bench watching them if he's tired.
2007-04-26 17:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by boomboombaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe se is into porn stuff or maybe he is chatting online with someone???? Can you check his computer when he is at work to see where he has visited? Try talking to him, tell him you miss him and want him to spend more time with you and the kids in the evenings.
2007-04-26 17:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by breezzstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been bitten by the internet bug.
SOMETHING is drawing him to jump right on there.
Sounds fishy to me. I bet he's talking to somebody, or emailing someone....or who knows what.
Sit him down and have a little chat about why he's so mesmerized by that box, and why he hardly even notices he has a wife and child that have been waiting for him and deserves his time. Once people get addicted to whatever has their attention, they usually don't care what the other person feels or says, though. So if he won't change it, or talk about it....then gather your strength to do whatever you need to do to change things for YOURSELF and your child.
2007-04-26 17:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if he does that every night, that would tick me off. What does he do on the computer? Play games, look at porn? Depends on what he's doing.....either way, he should spend time with his family.....tell him to get his priorities straight.
2007-04-26 17:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋