and u know what can of toy i'm talking bout
2007-04-26 10:08:25 · 26 answers · asked by hawk_boy2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok ok, small typo there, Ladies, how do i get my wife to use one
2007-04-26 10:18:10 · update #1
Most ladies don't have wives... so was this question directed at Men or Ladies?
I was too shy to use one myself, and I didn't want to buy one in case it made my husband feel inadequate. Eventually I got over that, though, and bought one.
So you could buy her one and use it on her during lovemaking. This might get her comfortable with the idea, and is already turned on. I suggest using some lube the first time, so that it feels extra nice for her.
Then leave it for her to use when she wishes.
2007-04-26 10:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lineya 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure they ^^understood what you meant but wanted to be smart asses, but anyhoo if YOU want your wife to use a toy, ask her about it first! Some women don't like toys honestly and you don't want to incorporate it during sex w/out her knowing and spoil the mood. Tell her that you'd like to use one on her and that it would really turn you on. If she's interested go and pick out a toy together that you both would like. Good luck and have fun!
2007-04-26 17:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually the ladies I know of don't have wives except in san francisco....but if you meant what I think you did then try taking her to an adult toy store and get her reactions to the different toys you see. You should be able to tell what interests her and you might be surprised that she is curious too just didn't know how you felt about it.
2007-04-26 17:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, I would suggest you using a toy on her. (If it came out of the blue with no toy play it might seem weird.)
Tell her you'd like to see that after you guys make love. (People are more open to suggestion then, and it's not like you'd be putting her on the spot to do it right then so she would do it if and when she was comfortable.)
2007-04-26 17:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jenine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had to think about a toy I have always had a man. I have had friends whose boyfriends have had them use a toy and well they choose the toy over their boyfriends now.
2007-04-26 17:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start out by doing it for her and then move her hand to where its both your hands moving the toys. She probably isn't comfortable with the idea so you need to express to her how much you like it.
2007-04-30 15:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask! i mean - you can try picking one up and bringing it home. i know one time my husband and i went to one of those...toy stores and picked it out together. however, most of them felt kind of icky! now there are some open, clean places where you aren't the only woman there! :-) tell her how you'd feel watching her or helping and that might make her more interested.
2007-04-26 17:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Suzanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls aren't into toys. Chances are if she isn't willing to use it in front of anyone, she's not into it alone. Doesn't matter, if you know what you are doing, you don't need a toy to make her happy.
2007-04-26 17:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by joteach03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's game to using toys, it should NOT be a problem. If she's not programmed that way, that is a long reach.
2007-04-26 17:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her...ud be surprised she may already be thinking the same thing to just spice up the sex life. Ask while having sex ---u know in the middle of the dirty talk just ask her and she may just say yes.
2007-04-26 17:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋