what does this question really implies?

Question

if my fiance's parents asked me: "would u adapt with our son if asded to live as husband and wife"? pls help am confused and can't understand what this statement indirectly means.

Answer 1

You're saying "asked to live" right?
Well.. I think they're trying to find out how well you will adapt to married life as opposed to single life.

Tell them that although you cannot predict how well you'll adapt at first.. your love for your husband and your commitment to the marriage will see you through any situation that arises.

I believe that this is what they want to hear, and is also what you want to happen I'm sure.

Good luck

Answer 2

That question implies that there will be changes made and that you will be expected to make all the changes. This is totally unfair to you. On the face of it, it also implies that he has some bad behaviours or bad habits and that you will be expected to put up with them with your mouth shut AND to be happy about doing it. I would think that in any NORMAL relationship, both the man AND the woman can expect to make changes in adapting to each other. It is a real red flag that they want a prenuptual agreement that is so one-sided. I would tell them that you are willing to adapt to him so long as he is willing to adapt to you, completely 50/50, and if they feel that is an odd proposition, then run for your life!

Answer 3

for starters what does the word "asded" mean..

This is not an american word.

Answer 4

there pretty much asking would you consider marriage but dont freak they just wana know your intentions about the relationship.

Answer 5

I can't help you, there are words in your question that make no sense. Sorry.

Answer 6

boy am i lost reading this one

Answer 7

I can't either....so don't feel so bad.

Answer 8

WTF