Is timing really everything? Have you ever truly loved someone but the timing wasn't right? Maybe it was too soon after a bad break-up or divorce? Maybe your job took you out of town?
If so, what happened? Are there ever happy endings with this?
2007-04-26 03:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it happened to me. I fell for someone over 2 years ago, and at the time we both had things going on and eventually he ended up with someone else. However, we stayed friends and kept in touch emailing each other. Last year, when they broke up, he started asking me out, and it took us several months before I finally did say yes, the first night we went out, something happened to both of us, we both got the this feeling that this is the way it should have been. To make a long story short, we are getting married in 3 weeks. He is my best friend, lover, and everything else in between. So, yes, there are happy endings. I'm glad we waited because it made everything that much more precious. Good Luck to you!
2007-04-26 06:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This may sound silly, but the first guy I ever really loved, started when I was around 12. We went to school together and he had always had a thing for one of my best friends. He was so sweet to her all the time that I fell for him. He never did like me through school like that. I accepted that we were just going to be friends and later in high school we were "friends with benefits". After graduation he got married and had a baby and I moved away and went to college.
In December of 2005, we saw each other at Wal-Mart. I was pregnant and I had already known about him and his wife spliting up soon after they were married. We talked and he ended up coming to the hospital when I had my daughter. Then, we went out to the bar the next week with a couple friends and hit it off. We started seeing each other in January and have been together since. Its been great!!
2007-04-26 11:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think timing is everything but sometimes it's the situations that we go through or are going through that can affect starting a realtionship with someone you love.
I know from experience that I didn't wait because if I would have then I would be one left wondering "What If" and sometimes thats worst then waiting for the right time or right situation........
2007-04-26 11:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. His job took him out of the country. Nothing really happened per se. We just never got back together. It just ended. To be honest though, I still think about him A LOT.
No closure I guess.
2007-04-26 12:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by anastasia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I fell deeply in love with a man, and i wished i had met him sooner. only after 3 month we both knew we were made for each other, and started planning the rest of "our" life together.
The he was diagnosed with Anaplastic Astrocytoma... a malicious brain tumor that completely destroys everything. he is done with his therapy and has a stay of execution of about 2 years max. its already been 1 year.
he refuses to see me because he doesnt want me to stay in love with him then lose him and be hurt. he keeps pushing me away to protect me.
but he doesnt seem to understand id rather spend one last day alone in his arms, then a lifetime of never feeling it again.
so, yes. timing can be everything.
im sorry i dont have a happy ending for you.
2007-04-26 11:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes... what happened was 2 broken hearts.
Not only was the timing not right.... but it was
off by like 17 years.
Two people who are years apart in age fall in love....both have our families to care for so walking away was the only option.
2007-04-26 11:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes....we were both married at the time. I divorced soon after, he divorced 5 years later.. We talk from time to time but just never could recapture what we had.
2007-04-26 10:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by rebel g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
timing is everything.............
i was dating a guy that was real cool and down to earth....but i wasn't really into him i was just really lonely cuz my mother had passed away 3 months before we started dating......well it turns out that i meet his best friend and his best friends girl friend about a month into the relationship..... of course i fell for his best friend..... he had that spark in his eyes, the type that u couldn't look away........well we started having our affair it lasted for a year......i was never in love wit the guy that i was with but i stayed wit him even after i found out that he was bisexual 2 months into the relationship. only for the reason that it was the only way i was ever going to keep hanging with his best friend and his girl.......yes it was wrong.....but it felt right :) but wait the story gets better.......
i brake up with the bisexual.....admit to having an affair.....got separated from the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life wit because he told me that i was too young and i need to grow up, learn from mistakes....and learn to have PATIENCE.....that is the one thing he always told me to have and i had to learn it the hard way....i was 18 when that happen....... i had a relationship after that it last 3 1/2 years....it was horrible i was treated like dirt ...i was taken for a fool......i missed this guy like crazy.....i would pray,dream and hope that one day i would be by his side just like he promised me........SSSOOO to make a long story short....
2 months ago in feb i decided to call his job and left an alias wit my #.... he called two days later.......went on our 1st official date, he broke up with the same girl that he was with the week after...and we been together since......we're getting married in july......so to answer ur question yes there are happy endding for those who wait and have patience :)
2007-04-26 11:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by lilbubblesber 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes timing is everything
seriously..
its hard to say whether u have happy ending or not
some, yes if they are lucky, they might get another chance to love again with the same person
but to those who are not lucky than they wont be so lucky to have happy endings
2007-04-26 10:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by charlene 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes timing has tons to do with... whether a relationship will work out or not.
i mean you can love somebody but just be in a totally different place in life.... and you shouldn't stop what you are doing for them.. and vice versa.. so sometimes, it doesn't work. but if there really is LOVE in the relationship... they will try again.
2007-04-26 10:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋