You receive an anonymous letter in the mail that's very detailed giving specifc dates and times they were together. Additionally, the letter is sent to your family. What's your reaction?
2007-04-26 03:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Would I, yes definitely especially if I receive a letter saying the date and all. But before I jump into everything, I will make sure that the info. is real by asking him if not I will make sure to get all the evidence that I need to put him down. I will not let him make a fool of me and use me while he is having a wonderful time with the other woman. And when I get all the evidence,then that's when I'm going to make my move..
2007-04-26 03:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would tick me off. but u cant always jump in to conclusion cause it could always be sent to the wrong person or house. but u should talk to him about the letter that ur family recieve and see what he say about it. and if he never gave u doubt that he is cheating then dont assume thing cause i learn that the hard way. Cause i lost my boyfriend like that by assuming thing that didnt happen. So u would have to think twice on what to do with a situation like this. but find out the truth and dont go looking for trouble. cause if u do that then it is not worth cause u guys are marry. so dont let a letter ruin the marriage life find out the truth first then go on from there. Good luck.
2007-04-26 12:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by lbcgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pissed! B/c if he had came to me before hand I would have agreed and help him find some suitable that wouldn't have caused us or my family any greive at all. My reaction would be a speration to see if I could forgive and to get over the humiliation.... and to find out if he made a mistake or if will do it again behind my back. If he had an affair maybe he is no longer in love with her so what would be the point of continueing on!?
2007-04-26 10:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes this is a case of the affair being over....He or she broke it off and they are retailiating.....This person is really unbalanced to send such a note. I caught my husband cheating and gave him option of divorcing me but he said no he loves me and is deeply sorry and he was in process of breaking it off with this woman which is why she was calling his cell phone over and over again and ultimately how I buted him byt retrieving his voicemail.....This other woman ws also married and with children and I agonized over telling her husband and in the end decided nope I am not dealing with his affair and made him call her and break it off while I listened on the other line......She took it well which tells me she is a big whore who cheats around quite a lot.....
My guess though is that this other person who sent the letters is far more attached to your mate then in my case....She is psycho quite honestly and I would worry about what she will do next. Protect yourself and seek professional help in this situation, this sounds like that movie Fatal Attraction and we all know how that ended.....
2007-04-26 10:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If there is no proof of this and your husband hasn't given you a reason to believe he was cheating then I wouldn't believe it, you have to remember that there are some very jealous people out here and they will do whatever it takes to ruin your marriage. Stick with your husband, if you have not caught him or if he isn't giving you any signs that he is cheating-let it go. This person must know you to send it to your family-they are cowards and jealous......don't believe it. Keep loving your husband and living your life. Now I would let him see the letter and just watch his reaction, you will know if its true or not but again if he hasn't shown signs of cheating and you don't believe it, let it go. Good luck
2007-04-26 10:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Pegi 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Could be from someone who cares about you and thought you should know the details of his comings and goings. I would investigate the source and ask my husband a few questions. Could be something totally innocent that someone else thought was cheating.
2007-04-26 10:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would confront the bas***d, & then kick is sorry a** to the curb. I would get as much money from him as I could. That's what I would do since I have respect for myself. I wouldn't even think twice about kicking him to the curb. Why wouldn't you??? Would you want to stay with someone that made a vow to you, & broke it, & doesn't have any respect for you at all??
2007-04-26 10:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by e_haney16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with the 'anonymous letter'. Listen to his side of story then I decide what to do next.
2007-04-26 10:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would want to know! I would kill me but I would make it with or without him. But sending to the family is just wrong, it should have been sent to the wife only. The family would he hurt enough!
2007-04-26 10:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The letter was cruel. BUT, I would DEFINITLY want to know. With AIDS, Herpes, genetal warts, Hepatitus and a host of other STDs out there, you definitly need to be warned.
Men come and go, but your body is yours for life.
2007-04-26 10:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋