for instance he goes as far as waking me up in the middle of the night to have sex with him even when i am free and when i am ovulating and if i refuse he will not be happy with me through the next day.and this is on a daily basis.
2007-04-26 03:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not having sex with him everyday does not mean that you do not love him, he must have a hang up about himself if he thinks that he has to have sex with you to know that you care.
There are one hundred other ways maybe more to show someone that you love them sex is important but so is all the other things that make a relationship special.
Good luck with this but do not blame your self he has serious issues he needs to address.
2007-04-26 08:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, my boyfriend wakes me up in the middle of the night for sex too, im usually up for it but if im not, i just tell him and I know that he loves me and understand, and I love him more than anything. Your boyfriend is obviously incredibly attracted to you so dont be afraid to say no. He will understand provided that you make the effort every once in a while just to make sure that he doesnt feel like you aren't attracted to him.
2007-04-26 04:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to wake you up in the middle of the night and demand sex on tap, you are supposed to be his partner, not a machine! I don't think he has any respect for you and obviously does not respect the relationship. He has no right to be upset with you, you're human not a robot!
2007-04-26 04:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not mean you don't love them. That's silly. Love isn't about sex.
If he's unhappy with you because you don't like being woken up in the middle of the night for sex, then there is something more serious there. That could either be an overly horny guy, or an overly controlling guy. Watch out.
2007-04-26 04:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good Lord! Once a DAY?!?, My husband and I are the other extreme--maybe once a month. He needs to understand that you need a break sometimes! My husband knows and respects that I have trouble getting interested because I have several physical problems--your husband needs to understand that there's a lot more to love than sex. You can care deeply and love him without more, and sometimes it can be more rewarding.
2007-04-26 04:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every body has a different sex drive, his may just be higher than yours. If it was up to me, me and my bf would have sex everyday, multiple times. I usually ware him out then he takes a few days off. I don't like it but I deal with it because I love him. I understand that he is not as sexual as me and I don't get mad. You should talk to him about how you feel.
2007-04-26 04:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by glbenner 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By not having sex every day does not mean you don't love him
most people don't have sex at all.
sex is not everything just tell them how you feeling about all this.
2007-04-26 23:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean you don't love him and if he says that then he's over-reacting. Enjoy it cos how would you feel if he never wanted it? Mind you if he's waking you up for it you must get annoyed. Tell him when you can't be bothered and if he goes in a huff then he's acting like a child.
2007-04-26 04:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds selfish to me, to be moody with you because you don't fancy sex one day? Get rid of him, seriously, there are guys out there that will treat you with respect, not as a sex toy.
2007-04-26 04:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a silly question to me!
if ur not happy to do it then don't and if hes pushing u just tell him u don't have a infante sex drive - if he dont understand his mind is as narrow as a pensil line
2007-04-26 04:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by mininaxys12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋