2007-04-26 04:00:50 · 22 answers · asked by sankyfinatra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Knock the sh*t out of that heifer!!! I'm a woman but I believe that when a woman chooses to hit a man, that she has stepped into a man's pair of boots. I would say let her have about three punches. Anything beyond that, and knock her lights out!!!
I was taught that a man isn't supposed to hit a woman either......but just because I was taught that doesn't necessarily mean that I believe that.
2007-04-26 04:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave. I would say hit her back because she's asking for it, but that's really just going to cause all sorts of problems and it's possible that she would file charges against you for domestic abuse and even if you said she hit you first, there is nothing that can be done about it. Yes, the law still does not recognise men and women as equal or spousal abuse instigated by women.
Just pack your stuff and leave. If you want, you can suggest she go to counselling and try to work things out, but only after you have left and are in a safe situation.
2007-04-26 11:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hit her it will solve nothing, it will only make matters worse and she may end up calling the police and you will end up in jail...
I use to have the same problem, i had very bad anger problems and when i got mad i would black out and do things...I went to anger management for over 9 years and have overcome my severe ange problems and learned how to work through them, violence is never the answer it took me a dislocated shoulder, broken ribs and nose to find that out..
If you let her continue to hit you it will only get worse call the police next time or get the hell out of their, this is a very bad marriage...If you don't want to leave have her get anger managment as well as some marriage counceling...
I know what your going through because i have been through this..It is very hard...If she hits you restrain her, and tell her if she doesn't stop you are going to call the cops, if she continues call the cops she will learn one way or another that she cannot continue doing this
You need to find out what is causing her to become this angry, what is she holding it in?
good luck, i hope everything works out for you!
2007-04-26 12:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....she's obviously angry.....or very disturbed....or both! It's just as wrong for women to beat men as it is for men to beat women! Two wrongs do not make a right......so, I wouldn't advise you to hit her. It solves NOTHING anyway. Violence is never the answer. Sounds like she needs professional help.....perhaps anger management. As for you, I can't imagine being in an abusive relationship. Have you thought of separating......at least until she gets the help she obviously needs? One thing I do know for sure, no one should stay in an abusive relationship/marriage. Best of luck to you.
2007-04-26 11:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by sassysusie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best not to hit her back because she would probably call the police on you. I have been in the same situation and the best thing you could do is leave and find someone else. Or you could suggest to her that you both could seek marital counseling.
2007-04-26 11:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her.
I was raised to believe that men do not hit women. But I was also raised to believe that if I act like a man, I can expect to be treated like a man.
You are in a no win situation, set up a video camera and document this abuse, then sue her for everything you can get.
2007-04-26 11:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order with the police. And file for divorce.
NO ONE has the right to lay hands on another. Instead of getting into a he said/she said situation, go through the whole legal process. Believe it or not, police officers are quite willing to believe and sympathize with men who are being targetted for physical violence by their wives. A few of them have even been through that themselves.
Don't wait another minute to get this situation resolved. Once a person gives themselves permission to be abusive, they won't stop.
2007-04-26 11:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not hit her back, i know you will regret it, do you really want to be in a violent relationship, if you hit her back your relationship will just be a vicious circle of her hitting you and you hitting her. i think you should try and talk to her and tell her what she is doing and how it is making you feel inside, maybe try and suggest councelling to help her with her anger, if she is not willing to change or get help, you should move on, no-one should have to put up with being in a violent relationship be it male or female. good luck.
2007-04-26 11:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never okay for a woman to hit a man. it's the same emotionally for a man as it is for a woman. tell her you will have no choice but to leave if she does it again. unless you want to call the police. it is a crime
2007-04-26 11:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by ME girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!? No question about it. Do not hit back, and leave her now.
2007-04-26 11:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Beach Bum Wannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋