Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

Well just a few nights ago he caought me on my myspace and does not like my ex being on myspace and told me if im cheating on just pack my things and leave him i told him im not cheathing on him but then he says if i want to leave, leave just to know well be on good terms as friends and may be something more but he said it is going to take long for him to think it thought im lost and he wants me to make the chose if the relationship should last i told him i love him and would like to stay with him but he said think it thought with my heart and i did i just don't know what to do anymore im lost and i want to cry cause i think he does not love me anymore what should i do

2006-11-28 02:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Margarita J 1

Well just a few nights ago he caought me on my myspace and does not like my ex being on myspace and told me if im cheating on just pack my things and leave him i told him im not cheathing on him but then he says if i want to leave, leave just to know well be on good terms as friends and may be something more but he said it is going to take long for him to think it thought im lost and he wants me to make the chose if the relationship should last i told him i love him and would like to stay with him but he said think it thought with my heart and i did i just don't know what to do anymore im lost and i want to cry cause i think he does not love me anymore what should i do

2006-11-28 02:01:34 · 7 answers · asked by Margarita J 1

been going out for a long time, recently got back together after a 6 month split, my fault obviously and now need to make up for my ways. need the perfect gift to put a smile back on her face!!

2006-11-28 01:54:07 · 19 answers · asked by martinsmithdunbar 2

I have recently found out that my husband is communiacting with his ex, via email and phone. I would like to put a stop on this without confronting him cause i don't want to be lied to in my face. Also he doesn't know that I know his email password which also complicates things.

2006-11-28 01:49:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's say you are in a 10 year marriage, and you have been with your mate since high school. You are considering a divorce, although you knew you would walk away with a half of a million dollars in debt...Would you go through with the divorce? OR Could you wait until you were more financially secure and stable?
Divorce, or Drag it on?

2006-11-28 01:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4

I have been married for over 6 years now and I try really hard with my inlaws. From the time we got engaged my sister in law got jealous (she was married with 3 kids and pregnant with #4) and was very mean to me every time I saw her for the first 4 years of our marriage. I pretty much took it for all these years without saying much. I just left her company upset. It has been better but she gets in her moods and it starts again. Her sister sided with her (although I didn't do anything wrong except marry their brother) and I have had both of them to contend with, lots of snide remarks or questioning everything we do. They are very buddy buddy even to the point where they live next to each other. I cant tell one of them something without the other one knowing as soon as we hang up the phone. It is very hard. I pretty much try to distance myself from them, I find myself dwelling about it and I get myself upset. My husband is afraid of his sisters and wont say a word Any advice?

2006-11-28 01:45:29 · 11 answers · asked by Sunny 2

2006-11-28 01:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, here's my story. My parents split when I was 16 due to my father having an affair. That was 11 years ago and we're all past that now (mostly). He entered into a long term relationship with "the other woman" immediately after the affair. She and I don't always get along, but we have our good moments and try our best to treat each other with respect. Anyway, now that I'm happily married with a 2 year old daughter, Thanksgiving and Christmas have been pure hell for me. With 3 sets of people (My father, my mother, and my in-laws) wanting my wife, daughter, and me to spend time with them over the holidays, we try very hard to compromise and be fair to everybody. My in-laws(God bless them) are very kind and understanding. My mother is understanding. My dad and his wife...not so much. No matter what I suggest, it's never enough and I get accused of favoring the other sets of family and it inevitably devolves into a huge fight. What can I do to make the holidays fun again?

2006-11-28 01:36:28 · 15 answers · asked by constantstatic 2

She is a single woman at the end of her tether. They have a shared reponsibility for their son. Her ex (the childs father, obviously) moved on and is living with someone else and they both work. Not sure if THEY have kids together. But ex is effectively bullying my friend into paying extra for things. Like "give me 20 quid for xxxxxxxxxx". She has said that if her son wants things then she will certainly pay for him to have them but not give him cash in hand, so to speak. Where does she stand?

2006-11-28 01:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by wrighty1976 2

Hi Everyone.

I left my husband 4 years ago whilst i was going through some pretty awful depression. I needed to get away from what i knew not. We stayed friendly, living apart but we never discussed it. He went off with another woman when he thought i wasn't coming back. I was very awful saying things i didnt really mean. He decided we needed to divorce over 2 years ago but he still hasnt instigated it. He is still with the other woman but he has told me that he won't commit to her, yet he does nothing about talking things over with me either.

We meet up to take our 3 gradnchildren out every Saturday and share all presents for both families. He knows that i would like us to get back together or to just talk but it doesnt happen. I feel like i'm living in limbo, just as he did when i left him. I don't need a man but i do truly love my husband.

I suffered a mental breakdown when he left. Is he afraid to hurt me more by divorcing me? why won't he talk? many thanks

2006-11-28 01:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 01:24:06 · 17 answers · asked by Mary M 1

So much so that he is pawning things, utilities are getting cut off. I'm sooooooooooo angry we have 2 children and I think about divorce all of the time. Once upon a time things were really good and they have progressively gotten worse. I also found out he was talking to a girl at work before and after hours but he insists it is work related. Yeah right! Anyway, I'm only staying for a babysitter and (part of) a paycheck! That's bad isn't it?

2006-11-28 01:22:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister flipped my huband off when he complimented her new hair. She swears on the "life of her child" that she did'nt My husband is'nt the type to lie to me. It happened at a place that they both work. As a result of this, I missed Thanksgiving with my family this year.

2006-11-28 01:21:47 · 15 answers · asked by trcycase 1

I expose myself OVER and OVER for this man. . .
I do love him. . .
But, tell me, is it crazy for me to let him back in knowing he'll never love me the way I NEED to be loved?
We all know the feeling. . .longing to be with the person you love. . .
He doesn't long for me. . .and I need to know I'm longed for. . .
So tell me. . .
Do I risk letting my heart break in the hope that he is back in my life because somewhere, deep within himself, he is in love with me? Why else would he come back after 9 months of separation saying he still loves me?

Will I loose my dignity?
Will someone care?
Will I wake tommorrow. . .
from this nightmare?

What can I say to make him realize how he makes me feel without coming on to strong????

Opinons please. . .

This is my life. . .and I need advice.

2006-11-28 01:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-28 01:11:05 · 15 answers · asked by Married2 1

me to help out when he has to work late.. I have no problem, He is my boyfriend and I love him, But we don't live together and Now he is telling me I am going to fast. I have been just going along with what he has given me. He says we are on two different places... so what the heck is he doing w/ my staying over asking for help? I feel numb now like he put the brakes on and that is not really what I want... I feel like I am sacraficing everything, when he is telling me to slow down I am sabatoging our future... What should I do?

2006-11-28 01:06:15 · 14 answers · asked by Teresa 2

I love my wife with all my heart. We have had many problems lately, I have been trying so hard to save our marrage but it seems she is not putting forth any effort... how long should I keep trying?

2006-11-28 01:01:44 · 23 answers · asked by dan d 1

My girlfriend that i have two children with has left me. she claims that it's over forever and the truth is.....it's probably true. this is one of the most painful experiences that i've ever had. lots of emotions. can someone who's been in my place give some advice on how to cope with this pain and get over this woman and still be a good dad in the process. i just don't want to hurt anymore. thanks

2006-11-28 00:59:24 · 13 answers · asked by laviniablue 1

What are some things to stop someone from snoring that work? Medicines?

2006-11-28 00:39:51 · 16 answers · asked by volcomgrly23 3

it's almost 2 years since I know this guy..
we're so close together..
but about almost a year ago he got close to a new one..
now he decide to marry her than me..
I feel so break...

2006-11-28 00:36:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A lot of people are scared of marriage and given the opportunity most people will want to marry a different person.
Do you feel the same way too?

2006-11-28 00:36:05 · 23 answers · asked by Rt click contkt & crte short cut 1

I love my husband and we have a baby together but things just don't seem to work out for us. We always say that we will try to make things better but nothing ever changes. I'm so unhappy and I want things to work out for us but I just don't think it ever will. I don't believe in divorce so should I just stay in this unhappy marriage or should I try to find something better out there?

2006-11-28 00:30:32 · 22 answers · asked by guardianangel 3

thers no abuse, or fighting. few minor disagreements.we been married 8 years.

2006-11-28 00:26:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's always trying to get info from my life and always have a new story and blames the kids. Exemple when we told the girls I was pregnant she sent us an email saying that the 14 old one felt like we did not love her anymore. We spoke to the girl and she denied everything and actualy said that her mom is making up stuff. I confronted the mother that said thatmayb she did make it up. Thta's not the first time she does that.

2006-11-28 00:16:03 · 22 answers · asked by AK 2

i have just found out that my partner would like to sleep with another man as we had a 3some with my ex boyfriend in 2004 and do you think i should stop with him as my ex felt my partners balls and my partner said he enjoyed it

2006-11-28 00:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by SAMANTHA H 2

What does that mean? He said that we would always be friends no matter what. He was friends with his other ex right after they broke up. Whats his deal?

2006-11-28 00:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous