Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

I am a 36 year old single woman. Everybody else in my family is married and everybody is always telling me what to do. It seems like, in my family, if you are married, you have your life together and if you are single you need a great deal of advice from everyone. I'm getting sick of this!

Has anybody else had to deal with being single in a family where everyone is married? In family pictures, everyone poses next to their husband or wife and I am stuck somewhere in the middle or on the sides. Holidays with my family are miserable!

2006-11-28 13:04:23 · 9 answers · asked by ahhihello 2

2006-11-28 13:01:49 · 27 answers · asked by ginnyp82 2

My husband recently cheated on me with a good friend (so i thought she was) and he thought he'd get away with it but lil did he know we talked and she told me everything then eventually he did but I still cant seem to get it out of my head I feel I will be happier without him but yet i love him I don't know what to he promised to never hurt me again but once a cheater always a cheater right??? should i take his word for it or just cut him lose im confused I did'nt do anything to deserve this...can someone please help me on decideing what to do PLEASE

2006-11-28 13:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by tasha o 1

2006-11-28 12:59:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We barely talk and not because we are mad with each other. I suffer from depression and post traumatic syndrone and I need love and affection. please help

2006-11-28 12:54:37 · 8 answers · asked by charliarhette 2

We barely talk and not because we are mad with each other. I suffer from depression and post traumatic syndrone and I need love and affection. please help

2006-11-28 12:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by charliarhette 2

refuses to go work, he says its a wifes place to feed and look after him, so he sends her work while he stays at home all day, he got sent prison once because his kids were starving, he had his dole money stopped for refusing work, he dresses like john wayne and got sent prison again because he supported the nazi party and what he did.

would anywoman want to be married to that? his new wife says she loves him. hes been married 4 times now.

2006-11-28 12:50:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is 25yrs and i am 43yrs I just found out that they will be tying the
not soon, but i don't want to stop. what should i do.

2006-11-28 12:50:11 · 21 answers · asked by SHARON 2

All of the financial things are in his name, but we both started it and work hard. If it came down to it, do I own half or am I working so hard for nothing?

2006-11-28 12:49:42 · 13 answers · asked by peppylove 1

my husband had sex with my best friend of 5 years right in front of me. And he had no regrets.

2006-11-28 12:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by dawndgls 1

Lately me and my husband seem to fight, fight, and fight all we do is argue about everything and I do mean EVERYTHING!!! I want to be happy with him because i love him and want to spend my life with him..but i don't know how to avoid the fights..please someone help me please let me know how I can be happy and not lose the love of my life.Thanks

2006-11-28 12:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by tasha o 1

Lately me and my husband seem to fight, fight, and fight all we do is argue about everything and I do mean EVERYTHING!!! I want to be happy with him because i love him and want to spend my life with him..but i don't know how to avoid the fights..please someone help me please let me know how I can be happy and not lose the love of my life.Thanks

2006-11-28 12:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by tasha o 1

simply put, your woman is put into a very comprimising situation by conceeding to these intimate exams, so you feel that your wife/girlfreind should not be jealous if you wanted to mess around with others a bit?

2006-11-28 12:31:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 12:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked why same gender marriage should be illegal and a LOT of people said "because the Bible says so."

A. The US is not a theocracy: our laws are not supposed to be based on any religion, so how is this a justification to deny civil rights?

B:... Where does the Bible forbid it?

Answer: It does not!
(to prove this, read the studies on my http://allfaith.com/Grace site) or contact me.

2006-11-28 12:30:30 · 14 answers · asked by johnofallfaith 2

i am moving 2 hours away from my family and freinds to go be with my boyfriend who i have been with for the past 5 years. and i want to be engaged so that i feel like i am leaving everything for more than just a boyfriend. i mean we do talk about marriage but thats in the future after i finish college! please help am i wrong to want to be engage?

2006-11-28 12:29:11 · 12 answers · asked by willow7186 2

We've been together nine years. Yes we had and still have our problems.I want to get married in the worst way but I also want us to be in our own home w/ stable jobs .At 1 time he has gotten mad at me for saying such.But now if I bring up the M word as we call it he gets all hot and bothered .Yes there has been some physical and emotional damage of course this is not the whole story.But what do you think.

2006-11-28 12:26:43 · 9 answers · asked by aliciay2004 1

I have a question about my husband. It seems like all he does is swear and complain. Most of the time he is not very easy to be around. He takes out his frustrations on any one near by including our kids. What do I do without aggravating him even more?

2006-11-28 12:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by crashqueen_77 2

Im 45 male restaurant guy for many years..7 years ago restaurant was doing poorly, We decided to reverse roles she was more than happy to step out once our youngest was 10..I stayed doing pt restaurant work while she climbed the cooporate insurance latter.
During that time I've been the homemaked while working pt..she seemed happy never complained..during our 25 anniversary she had an affair (we've been toether 30) her first love when she was 14 came out of the blue and off she went..I tried to save the marriage she just kept on cheating..now we had some problems like most marriages but even our 2 adult kids never saw it coming.
Now I have no career no education some support...off maybe making 35k as some rest.mgr. while she off makin 120k.. what she does know is that I know I can complain to the isurance commissioner because she has done 3-4 fraudulent claims..shall I ruin her?

2006-11-28 12:14:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will meet him at the church tommorrow, he has two teenagers

2006-11-28 12:11:28 · 22 answers · asked by arctrisk 2

my future husband just told me thaat he doesnt tink he can grow in my church and that he wants to find a church that best suits him. i grew up in my church and i dont want to leave. cuz it helps me!!! i dont want us to be married going to differnt churches..and then we have children and my chuld says "what do u want me to wear to church mommy" and then me going" well you going to daddy;s church this sunday baby so wat do u tihnk u should wear." we both christians and tru we both serve the same god but its like not onrmal. unnatural. not at all wat i pictured. AND then just wat if i try to be with him in his church but his church doesnt furfill me spiritually. wat do i do.I deserve to be somewhere where i feel comforatable same with him.....you guys help m..and dont patronize me ou can see that im trying to look at it from both angles!!!

2006-11-28 12:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy has cheated on her before(many times) and he has no real job and, quite frankly, no real future. Nobody in my immediate family can stand him and I have told her how big of a mistake it is. They want me to be in the wedding but I don't want to. I do however, know that I should be supportive of her and I want to be, but this decision could change her life forever and if she had a kid would also change their life as well. What should I do?

2006-11-28 12:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by turtledove3434 1

I am of the opinion that if two people love each other and want to commit their lives to each other, this should be celebrated. Why are so many people opposed to it?

2006-11-28 12:08:17 · 27 answers · asked by johnofallfaith 2

My husbands ex kicked his daughter out of the home she is 16 they live in az we live in texas and she is now with us . how do we stop her child support? we don not need custody just want to stop the amnt of child support he is sending.

2006-11-28 12:07:41 · 5 answers · asked by Estela S 1

2006-11-28 11:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by R L 1

What would you do if you found out your husband had put himself on dating sites saying he wasn't married and was looking for fun in the local area. He tells me that he would never cheat on me, but he has lied about things in the past so I don't know what to think.
If it was just me and him i would probably leave but we have kids together. We had a talk about being unfaithful the other day and he said although he has had offers he loves me too much to actually do anything. To make matters worse I have met someone who knows I'm married but still wants to see me.
I'm so confused at the moment, is hubby just being really sad offering himself to get some attention.
I have told him that if either of us ever cheated on the other that would be it, but he always says he loves me.

I'm so confused...

2006-11-28 11:43:14 · 24 answers · asked by elaine.king79@btinternet.com 2

Does the Spanish Fly drug really work? And how do you use it?

2006-11-28 11:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by deerhunter952 1

I have smoked since I was twelve, I'm now twenty and I want to quit. The problem:I just looooove smoking! I smoke two packs a day if I'm trying to be good, four if I just smoke all I want. I realize the health impacts. I have seen pictures of a lung ridden with cancer. Grossed me out but did not make me quit. I tried the patch, the gum, the inhaler, been hypnotized, tried cold turkey, DID NOT WORK! I even drove an hour to a nature preserve, hiked thirteen miles into the middle of nowhere, leaving my beloved ciggarettes behind, I hiked back that night and drove to nearest gas station to get a smoke. I need help!

2006-11-28 11:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Lachelle 3

2006-11-28 11:25:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

are totally amazed by your partner end after some period of time? If so, how long did that initial crazy infatuation where you can't get enough of each other last?

2006-11-28 11:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by pamgissa 3