I have a question about my husband. It seems like all he does is swear and complain. Most of the time he is not very easy to be around. He takes out his frustrations on any one near by including our kids. What do I do without aggravating him even more?
2006-11-28 12:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by crashqueen_77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't sound as though you can do much. Pointing it out to him or suggesting counselling will only add fuel to the fire right? On the other hand...who wants to be around someone who constantly complains, b*tches and brings everyones mood down because he's a jerk?
You can always tell him you're taking the kids and screwing because you can't tolerate this and it's cruel to the kids. Beware though. You call his bluff and he calls it....you'd better be ready to follow through or you'll never, ever gain any ground again.
Good luck with Grumpy!
2006-11-28 12:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not aggravating him. He has anger management issues and need counseling. This situation will only get worse which will effect you and your children's self-esteem. Your kids will grow up to believe that this is normal and healthy. The girls will marry the same type of man and the boys will be abusers.
There is nothing you can do for him or nothing that you can do right because he will always find something wrong with it.
Don't allow him to make you and your kids his punching bag.
God bless.............get help !
2006-11-28 12:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have one like that. I finally left him after 6 years. I am getting a divorce. Mine only got worse. I got tired of walking on egg shells all of the time. Good luck. Anger management class might be good. He probably won't admit he even has a problem.
2006-11-28 12:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Patty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if he hasn't been to the Dr. make sure he goes and gets checked out. I found out I was diabetic when that was happening to me, once I got the blood sugar undercontrol, I got back to normal.
If he's like that all the time, you may consider either he's an as*hole or is unhappy. If he is unhappy, read the book called "The proper care and feeding of husbands". If he's an as*hole, dump him?
2006-11-28 12:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up. A real man doesn't act like especially taking out on his family.
2006-11-28 12:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by vato 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your husband has a lot of pent up anger. Can you talk to him and find out what's going on? Maybe he needs to see a counselor. I wouldn't want to be around someone who acted like that.
2006-11-28 12:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't say nothing to him for a few days. He gone wonder what the problem.
2006-11-28 12:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by leah d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him ..
It sounds like things are going to get worse...
2006-11-28 12:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever ask him what's going on, and allow him to vent so he doesn't get crazy?
2006-11-28 12:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋