Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

sexual life for health reaons of your partner? Would you be so giving to build a relationship powerful enough, strong enough, AGAPE, because you really believe that true love goes beyond any sexual issue? We already had this before, but now it seems more difficult because of age and problems with his health. But I love him so very much that to me, his problems do not mean anyhint. They affect him more than me. Please, share your thought on this.

2006-11-28 11:20:06 · 13 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

...i gave birth the 1st of this month. me and my ex bf broke up nine months ago...after we broke up, i found out i was pregnant...he didn't call or even offer support the whole time i was pregnant even if he knew i was pregnant. later i found out he got back with his ex and got married. when i gave birth, i felt that he has to know. i told my sis to visit him at work to let him know that he can visit my daughter...he hasn't called right away..what do u guys think?

2006-11-28 11:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Irish C 1

Behind your wifes back, when she is sleeping with other women in front of you?

With you even, at times.

Good for the goose...?

Am I doing wrong?

2006-11-28 11:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am having problems seeing my son because my ex boyfriend is so messed up in his head from drugs, i am on the birth certificate he is not because he didn't want to. He didn't even what my son when i was pregnant with him, he wanted me to abort my son i said no, Know that i have separated , i had had my son till he asked me if he could take him to see his mother who was in a coma in another state, i said yes, that was stupid. He didn't even take him his new girlfriend ,he has only be with for three day , was taking care of him. I didn't know where my son was or anything about her to find him, and they have had my son and they only let me see him 2 times and it was for about half an hour and know he dosn't want me having any thing to do with my son. i fixing to call the police i am giving him the chance to let me have fare visitation, i don't want to take him away from his father i just want my time with my son ,the same way he dose.

2006-11-28 11:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by peggy1purple 1

This is for those who are happily married and would NEVER cheat. You have NO DESIRE to cheat at all and you won't, but there is an infatuation you unexpectedly get from this person that you don't even want to feel. They're attractive both inside and out, and in many ways, they're another version of your spouse. And like the good person you are, you do nothing to lead the person on, and make sure your nothing but friends at the most.

Thought this was an interesting question to ask. Thoughts??

By the way, I think we sometimes meet people like this throughout our lives, but because your already taken by the one for you, you 're not going to ever cheat. I think you have an incredibly strong and real bond with the one you love if you can confidentally be yourself around these kinds of people and never cross lines. I think a real love no matter what the conditions, means you will never cheat.

This question is just to read some of your experiences on this.

2006-11-28 11:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

i have been married for 9 ys this coming Jan. I love my husband but it seem that we are falling apart he never wants to spend time with me and has even gotten to the point that he acts like it kills him to even come home sometimes to me and on top of that hes wanting to bring anotherwoman into our marriage what should i do stay like i have been or count my losses and go on with my life because i cant handle being second in his life??

2006-11-28 11:02:53 · 20 answers · asked by Mimi 1

I'm going to buy my ex a gift. The kids are more difficult. They've taken advantage of their Mom and I to the max. I let one know that X-mas and B-day cash will be halved and the other half will pay back (clear and acknowledged) loans. The other, who was most responsible as a kid and supportive during the divorce doesn't "owe" me a dime (the $ to her were always a couple $100 or less and not described as loans) but won't contact me, let me know her phone or address (Mom obviously won't help and I think she's trying to contaminate our relationship) or let me (since I don't know how to contact them) see my grandkids (her kids). With no contact for 1.5+ years, I can't see giving her lots of money. What do people think about this whole sad, sorry situation? Talking with my ex is not an option - she hates me and would like her kids to have nothing to do with me.

2006-11-28 11:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by catniplles 2

i dont have enough room for the details. wish i could. basically, i was a drug addict. she stood by my side. helped me to get into a rehab in california. we lived in chicago. we then got married,her and my three kids moved out here while i finished my rehab but continued to talk to this guy. and she said she "just kissed" him about a month before our marriage. then continued to call him from in california. what do i do..? i want my kids?

2006-11-28 10:55:34 · 8 answers · asked by calebadan1973 1

She tell me that if i ever want to see my son again i would have to come to France to look for him because she is not coming back. I love my wife And i want things to work out with us so that we can live has one happy family

2006-11-28 10:54:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to be divorced, I can't have kids, I'm in a temp-job that feels like the time will never be right to turn permanent. Until I get my own place, which is pretty impossible without a permanent job...I am staying with my parents. My step-dad acts like he hates my guts sometimes (always has) and I just feel like being happy again is so out of reach. I wonder what in the world is my purpose ? To make other people appreciate their lives because they may realize how miserable I seem at times ? I feel like I'm just a feather floating around in the wind, wandering aimlessly and just going with the flow...living moment to moment. When I make plans (like to stay married forever and have kids, etc)...well, you see how that turned out. So...any words of wisdom out there for a girl having her pity party tonight ? Oh, and my brother's in jail, I've never met my biological father and my best friend never has time for me now that she has a child...whose sick all the time. I'm just in a rut !

2006-11-28 10:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids biological mother requested to the attorneys a supervised visitation for the christmas holiday. There's a whole lot of drama behind this case... but in the end, she does need to have supervised visitaiton for the children's safety. Anway- research was done by our attorney to find the best & inexpensive provider for visitations. She has not seen the kids in 2 months, and barely has talked to the kids this year. She lives in another state as well... so that is a reason why she has not seen them. The kids live with me and my husband (their father). So far she has been uninvolved since 2000. Now that she requested a supervised visitaion- we allowed it, now she is backing out. WHY? The kids were excited to see her, and now she backed out. How will this affect our case for when we go to court?

2006-11-28 10:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by CuriousMama 1

2006-11-28 10:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by kramer 1

2006-11-28 10:46:11 · 3 answers · asked by neutral 2

I want to divorce my husband because he pays my daughter (3 yrs. old) and I only negative attention, doesn't help with house work or childcare, and lies about money. He is also a recovering alcoholic who promised he'd stay in counseling, and that didn't happen. He is never affectionate, does not parent, runs away from it, and is just plain irresponsible, leaving me to work my full time job, clean house, take care of our daughter, do all financial tasks, etc., everything but wipe his butt.He has burnt bridges with my family who had offered him work doing carpentry at $40/hr. under the table, blew them off and never called people back after making promises and he's burnt my inlaws by borrowing a ton of cash.My credit is crap now, and has been mentally abusive.My daughter is displaying angry behavior at school like that at home when her father is home.Her teachers and I are working hard to help her through her feelings safely and responsibly.Our mortgage is jumping from $2000 to $2300/mo

2006-11-28 10:42:47 · 11 answers · asked by chapinitegirl 2

2006-11-28 10:41:38 · 22 answers · asked by peggy1purple 1

I'm currently single and would like to know if I have a revocable living trust established when I'm single (where all my property is transferred into the trust) and I later get married and I do not add my wife into the estate, will she have any rights to the home we live in, trust bank accounts, or the rest of my estate if I never add her in the trust and we later get divorced? Does she gain more rights after a certain amount of time after being married (i.e. more than 10 years, etc.). Curious to know this information.

2006-11-28 10:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by p b 1

I think it was Colorado who passed the law saying you could get married at 12 or 13 with parental permission. I would never get married at this age. What do you think about it?

2006-11-28 10:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by fruit salad 6

It's something i'm wondering, i mean i'd never consider it but seriously my parents never shut up with the shouting and the vase throwing... yet for some reason they seem content with it all.

I can forge both parents signitures... could i not send off for the Divorce papers, fill them in myself and send 'em off again? I am so not intending to do this but it's a though isn't it? Can anyone tell me whether this has ever been done, or if this could ever work?!?!

2006-11-28 10:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by Aramiak 2

I should mention that this has not been going on for the whole 10 years. I saw his temper right after we were married but not as bad as it is today. It has been in the last 4 years. I have asked him to see a doctor to have a mental evaluation. I was thinking maybe he had Huntingtons or something. Maybe he's just depressed. Either way he hasn't been mean the whole ten years or else I would not have had 4 kids with him. I would have left sooner. Thanks for al your help.

And to sound like the ytpical abused family He really can be nice at times. He does have his tender moments with the kids.

His father hated him. He was a " drunken mistake" his words not mine

2006-11-28 10:25:47 · 3 answers · asked by emily 2

in wisconsin?

2006-11-28 10:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by davidswoman 2

Could I call the cops on her for controling me,telling me that if I so much as yell, shes going to call the cops.I want to know how I can get my balls back, its not worth getting back at her.Shes driving me crazy....I dont even have any friends because of this marriage!

2006-11-28 10:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Square Root 1

2006-11-28 10:19:10 · 27 answers · asked by R L 1

O.K. She goes to bed with hubby and he takes a shower only once a week. He wears the same clothes he wore during the day, and then goes to bed with them again, and same thing next day. She yells at him and he won't listen. What's up and what to do?

2006-11-28 10:15:44 · 10 answers · asked by DREENA 2

We've been knowing each other for 3 months and dating for 1 month. My family keeps saying I'm "stupid", that it's too soon. Why should we wait? The way I feel isn't going to change. I leave for the Army in 2 weeks and she leaves a month after me. Besides the "It's too soon" argument, is there any reason why we shouldn't?

2006-11-28 10:15:31 · 16 answers · asked by Willie P 2

ok i met this guy on net when i was 17 years old, i gave him some nude pictures of me. i found out now that if i don;t do what he wants he will send those pictures to my family and co workers!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i left him 5 years ago i will be getting married soon if my fiance knows of this if my family knows of this my life will be over. i will kill myslef. what should i do???????????????

2006-11-28 10:00:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

by dna. Can I change the name of the father on the birth certificate.

2006-11-28 09:57:50 · 8 answers · asked by priscilla o 1

Once again, I try to support my husband in every way I can. I have reached my limit, tho, recently. He started 12 different companies and people are at our house, working at all hours. Not out of the way, mind you, right in the middle of our living space (kitchen, dining room, family room). I have always been social, but value my privacy at home. My children do their homework and we eat our meals with people basically in the same room. I never get any notice. For instance, at 5:00 tonight, I was settling in for dinner and our doorbell rang. A worker walks in to spend the next 4 or 5 hours working and brought his wife!!! I am so angry, I cant even be nice anymore. My husband is blaming me. What should I do? These people violate my privacy by learning all about how we live then talk about us to others. I am ready to shell out money for a hotel room....

2006-11-28 09:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you heard of infidelity among black marriages back in the day when the wife would get out of the bed that she and her husband shares so that his girlfriend could spend time with him?

This was supposed to have been an acceptable type of behavior among the black community during the time when a lot of black men were off at war.

If you have any supporting information regarding your answer, please include it.

Thanks!

2006-11-28 09:51:59 · 4 answers · asked by The Truth 1

Please share your experiences discipling your woman with a hurting friend. Examples help.

2006-11-28 09:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many women really do have a "rape" Fantasy of one kind or another? If you have ever played one out, was the experience what you expected?

2006-11-28 09:51:29 · 14 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3