how does a man know if his wife has had an affair sometime in their marriage?

Answer 1

If you are both spiritully connected, you'll detect the other person, especially when having sex. They just sort linger there spiritually.

Answer 2

Cheating begins with just being friends, than a few conversations, than all of a sudden she is in bed with him, and she doesn't talk to you anymore, it is as if she isn't really in your life anymore. You have no idea why she is picking fights, name calling, insulting you. You wonder where the woman you fell in love with and married has gone.When the cell phone rings she goes into another room to talk. She is very distant. Once you and he were friends, and could talk now it seems you can't say a word. Still you hope it is just the stress of her job, and if you are non con-frontal the trouble will just go away by itself. But than one day She out of the blue asks for a divorce, blames you completely, all you get is more insults when you attempt to reason with her. Than you see her with him, your dreams of reconciliation are gone, all faith in her leaves. That's when you know that your wife has had an affair.

Answer 3

That's a hard one. I don't know. Maybe your friends know something. Ask them when you are alone. One at a time. Ask the one that your wife is closest to his wife...they ususlly tell the best friend and your friend may not want to hurt you and tell. I really don't know unless someone tells you or you see her out or hire a PI. Sorry.

Answer 4

Go by instincts and behavior changes. Its hard but the truth finds a way out. Just ask and look in the eyes. Eyes never lie.

Answer 5

Other than the obvious signs, (herpes, hiv, mono just about any std), you wont. women hav the capabilty of taking these things to the grave! why do you think that they hound dog us so much? they want to make sure that we arent cheating, its a control thing. If your woman is extremely passive aggressive, and manipulative, there's your sign. she will use psychology to through you off. I truly believe that if I am even suspicious about a woman, I get rid of her as if she's bad milk.

Answer 6

umm another man keeps calling her or she keeps calling them and not for business.
She finds excuses to get away for a few hours.
Starts doing things she normally wouldn't.
She starts talking about him a lot, bad or good it doesn't matter.
Someone calls and hangs up when you answer but talks when she answers.
She tell you flat out "hay I'm cheating on you, anyways"
Oh and if she is asking you "Babe don't you trust me?" SHE IS CHEATING!!

there are lots of ways to find out.

Answer 7

You do not, women are much more cold blooded than us, and yes, most of them are emotionally smarter too, so unless it is something you believe its still going on, and you are able to set her up (private eye, bugging devices, etc), you'll only find out if she ever decides to tell you.

Answer 8

Take her on Jerry Springer. Maury does lie detector test. LoL!....did she do something for you to suspect or are you asking because you have -or- are and looking for her skeletons so that you may feel better about what you did?

Answer 9

there is no way to know apart from asking her. But is it that important to know ?

If all is OK now, just move on and enjoy life.

Answer 10

He asks her