2006-11-28 10:19:10 · 27 answers · asked by R L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because women like men with power and whose strong. We like men that can handle their business and take control therefore we can feel a sense of security. Some nice guys let women walk all over them and doesn't challenge us so.So this leaves guys wide-open for women to take advantage of and take for granted. Every woman is different though and not all of us do this.
2006-11-28 10:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by mzlin08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It often seems this way doesn't it, especially to us "nice guys." I think it's just that the so called "crazy's" are more assertive and confident in approaching women. They pursue what they want with a vengeance and have no fear when it comes to rejection.
The "nice guys" are afraid to go after what they really want and leave too much to the imagination of the women they really want to be with for fear of being rejected or hurt. In other words, the nice guys are more sensitive and draw a different type of woman. Unfortunately, the "nice guys" are never satisfied with the women who really care about them because the "grass" always looks greener and they're always wishing they had the kind of woman that the "abusive kings" have, but they can't.
2006-11-29 07:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because eventually the nice guy becomes a crazy abusive guy that get treated like a king.
Then women complain "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
Because you turned them all into crazy SOB's.
2006-11-28 18:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was younger i have seen my mom do that. I really dont think that it is right but, im guessing that she didnt no that she had something good until she left and found some1 that is abusive. I think when women find absive men and when the finally leave them and the find a good guy they arent used to be treated so good. They treat the nice guys like crap because of that. Usally when a girl is with an abusive guy they treat him good so they dont get hit.
2006-11-28 18:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by dream21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are nuturers, the logic i see is that they feel they are helping by supporting "crazy" behavior. Or in some cases they may be fearful of said craziness and supporting their crazy behavior is a way of pacifying their male or playing possum to defend themselves.
Power trip may be why some nice guys get dissed. Viscious cycle, another. A womens Insecurities, upbringing, missunderstanding can cause her to over look the niceness of a guy.
Then again, that guy just might be the only one who thinks hes being nice. I see that alot.
2006-11-28 18:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by liddycaliente 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so true.
I'm guessing that some women secretly like to be put down so they can feel depressed, whether they know it or not. It gives them a focal point on which to blame all the other negative energy in their lives. It also may be that they like the challenge. They think that they can conform the crazy guy to be nice at some point in the future. Us normal guys don't provide them that opportunity.
2006-11-28 18:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by CrisisDog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because "nice" is an empty term for a boring guy with no balls. "Nice" is what you say about someone when there is nothing better to say. No woman needs a "nice" guy who will follow her around like a little puppy.
If you're that guy, stop blaming women, and admit that you are the problem. Don't justify your lack of confidence with "I have sooo much respect for women!"
2006-11-28 18:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by David K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself the same question and i feel as though its all about self-esteem and the woman up bringing. It might sound crazy but a woman with very little self-esteem will settle for the worst so it can feel like the best.I have a best friend and she have a man that ever woman dreams of including myself. He does everything for her run her bath water, wash her hair, cook's, clean, works, pay the bills but most importantly excepted her kids as his own. What do she do in return she is currently cheating on him with a married man that beats his wife. My opinion good woman to good woman we will never understand!
2006-11-28 18:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by nee-nee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women may not know they've stepped on the nice ones til they are long gone. for some reason there can be so much manipulation in a abusive relationship, we loose grip...and keep going back due to manipulation
2006-11-28 18:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by INK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question. You see some women like guys to control them if not they'll be taking over the little pu**ys. But I always ask that kind of question to myself "Why do good fine guys end up with girls that are all slu*y and cheat on them???" Its just weird
2006-11-28 18:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by La Chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋