my wife and I not wroking out she went to france with our son to have one week to think over things?

Question

She tell me that if i ever want to see my son again i would have to come to France to look for him because she is not coming back. I love my wife And i want things to work out with us so that we can live has one happy family

Answer 1

if you love her that much you'll move to france to be with your family

Answer 2

Oh my...this must be difficult for you, especially with a child involved. Since you have a history with her, which includes children, you must exercise extreme self-control. She has either made up her mind and there was an erosion of love that you simply missed. Or, your estranged wife has acted out of anger and will come to her senses if you play it cool. If this is the case, you must do everything in your power not to appear weak. The one thing you need from her right now is respect. If you do anything even resembling begging or acting needy, respect will not grow. This could be a test. Nevertheless, you need to prepare yourself with the help of someone besides her. If you made the mistake of making her your world and have few resources, talk to a counselor. --Don't tell her. Secondly, I'd recommend consulting an attorney as a back up plan to safeguard your future, especially if you want to see your child again. If reconcilation takes place, realize you have a woman who might be abusive. You'll have a host of questions to resolve. Trust is going to be very hard to restore. If you are looking at the road and divorce is enivitable, don't be afraid. Take the time to heal yourself and learn how to improve your relationships. Although you feel like shi* right now, hang in there...remember transform your anger/fear/confusion into patience. It's your only hope. Good luck.

Answer 3

If she is serious and does not return back when she is supposed to then call the authorities/social services because she can not steal your son! They will be able to get the ball rolling and start locating your wife/son. Make sure you do give her the time she has asked for though as she could just need some space to think about everything, often people say things in the heat of the moment. Good luck to you and if she doesnt come back report her and fight for your son, some women are selfish enough to think they are solely responsible for their child when both parents made the child they both have rights.
Good luck and i hope everything works out ok. xx

Answer 4

Well you need to figure out why she left to begin with. Are you from France too? If so perhaps she is home sick and you guys should discuss moving back. It is never a good sign when a spouse leaves home "to think". You guys are a team and you all should be working it out together. I say give her the space that she wants and be patient btu not a sucker. IF she has threatened to leave with your son and that you will never see him again you may just need to let her go. You dont want to be in a relationship with someone that selfish....

Answer 5

There are international law agreements between our allies, France being one of them. If she had taken him to Jordan, Egypt, the middle east, I would be concerned, even though you are the father, but to France, you can file papers through an attorney to make sure you can continue to have contact with your son. You may love this woman, but she obviously has drawn the line in the sand and wants to call it quits. I would seek an international divorce attorney. Threatening you with a child in a divorce is playing dirty, and I would not give her a second thought, she isn't worth it.

Answer 6

Firstly remember that there is a child involved in all this. It's possible she just needs some time then you may get back together. But if not and she wants to slip for good, make sure you take into account your son. He should be allowed to see both parents

Answer 7

Give her some time to think, be a nice gentle man.....if she really loves you she will come back. mean while u will have time to figure out your flaws that affected the relationship. work on them and try eliminate them. there is every possibility that she never comes back, so you should concentrate more on your son and his future than ur wife. You can have another women in ur life...but the kid cannt replace his dad....so becarefull..

Answer 8

Viva la France!

Answer 9

wow what a horible person, why would you want to get back to gether with someone that doesent treat you right??? and you have everywright to see your son! she can actualy go to jail/court for doing that, well leaving a nother country w/ your son, you are intitled to him just as much as she is.

Answer 10

Sorry to say this but she sounds like a right b**ch mate. She is not only fu**ing around with your life but your son's too. Fight for joint custody of your son and if I were you I'd move on from her. Good luck with it mate.