Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

is there a problem wanting sex every other day!
hey I belive that love making is god for the soul and health!
do I ask for to much, please some honest girls input ,

2006-11-28 14:28:42 · 19 answers · asked by Charlie Arutnev 1

2006-11-28 14:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by josie 2

Misleading me and mistaking me because it is REALLY not my fault.

Could you be giving hate towards me for all the wrong reasons?

2006-11-28 14:23:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it also wrong and disrespectful for him to keep saying to his wife "My eyes are free" whenever his wife complains to him about his oogling other women?

2006-11-28 14:23:00 · 25 answers · asked by Dragoness 1

1) Did u wait till you were married to have sex???
2) Did it hurt???
3) Did u cry????

2006-11-28 14:14:53 · 15 answers · asked by #1 HOTTIE 1

But I will be willing to bring that person to my job for employment or help them find something that better they like.

2006-11-28 14:02:10 · 18 answers · asked by KORYE 2

2006-11-28 13:58:49 · 11 answers · asked by funnynotlost 2

I work at a company in which a lot of men who are married brag about cheating on their wives and talk about it like it is nothing and common place. This makes me kind of upset and I wonder do all men get off on cheating on their wife and talking about it openly. It really irritates me because I am engaged and my fiance is cheating. It feels like I am in the "Twilight Zone" and can't believe that these married men get off on cheating on their wife. These married men are not teenagers. They are in their late 20's and 30's and they just get a rise out of telling stories of their infidelity. Seems these so called men are heartless and have no care for their wives.

2006-11-28 13:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by James J 1

2006-11-28 13:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by Pepper 1

2006-11-28 13:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Pepper 1

2006-11-28 13:49:12 · 6 answers · asked by Pepper 1

My wife found some of my porn collection and i need to know if being married and watching porn is ok and if u could explain why it's ok for the both of us.

2006-11-28 13:47:24 · 28 answers · asked by Malicious Intent 3

It's our third wedding anniversary on Thursday. Any inexpensive ideas? We've had a tough year and don't have much money left over this month. Not to mention that my husband is really stressed about money right now, so he's not exactly in a romantic mood. I want him to know how much I care.

2006-11-28 13:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by Chellebelle78 4

Broken Trust
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

Friends come and then they go,
leaving behind, the pain which they committed.

From the trust, that was given to them freely,
with no concern, of the destruction they inflicted.

How do I believe others, from this moment on?
and how many more years, must I try?

To accept the fact, that people are hurtful,
and I’ve learned my lesson, I will not cry.

Where do, these people come from, and I ask,
what manner of iron will, must some people possess.

To enjoy hurting others, with their broken trust,
and always looking forward, to never accept regress.

So if sometimes it seems to you.
I’m clinging to the past.

It’s mostly because, I can’t yet accept,
The trust, that didn’t last.

2006-11-28 13:43:04 · 13 answers · asked by Cobra 5

A friend of mine just got engaged to this woman who he has dated for less than a year. He got commissioned as an officer in the military recently. This woman keeps pressuring him to make the wedding date a little sooner. When he told her they need to wait until he's done with all of his training, she flipped out!. She kicked in the door to her closet and that very night they're busy exchanging every thing they've given each other. She also hates living at home. I'm trying to help him realize he needs to cut her loose, but he's so broken up over her. What can I possibly do?

2006-11-28 13:42:31 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas K 3

We married on 666, his previouse wife died 5 1/2 yrs ago, we live in the house where they lived for 10 yrs and she died in, and I married my husband at this same house! Her and I have the same maiden name and she passed on my birthday. Its getting harder every day. Love Is Blind! He also carries her obituary in his checkbook. I'm not sure what was hers, his , or theirs. I don't know if I should ask or not. His 18 year old daughter and my 13 year old daughter and 11 year old son live with us. We have so much love for each other but since I moved in over a year ago we argue all the time. We never argued before i moved in.

2006-11-28 13:39:22 · 33 answers · asked by bonbonjaba 1

I recently got engaged a few months ago to my girlfriend of 5 years. I found out that she has been cheating on me and she does not know I know but I do know if that makes sense. I am so angry at her and I just want to dump her but on the other hand I am not ready for that. The sick thing is that are wedding date is in May and she has been cheating on me for a few months now shortly after I propsed to her. I feel that if I let her go, then that is 5 years that I lost with a mate and I have to start all over from scratch and you know that takes time to do. What would you do if you found out your fiance was cheating?

2006-11-28 13:34:26 · 41 answers · asked by James J 1

Every night a woman posts here about how to get the magic back with her husband, and every night people tell her to try new things; new positions, new adventures, DVD's, be spontaneous, her her her.

Why is it in the beginning of a relationship the men chase us like crazy, then when it dies off WE have to be the ones to come up with new ideas and adventures. Doesn't that make you a little bitter? It does me, because I'm in the same boat. Me and my guy used to make love a trillion times, now its nothing and I'm sick of it. I've tried and tried to no avail. So I should keep trying? Screw that.

Men say women are deceptive, I think MEN use sex to hook women, and once they have us, the love/sex mysteriously disappears. I want to know WHY men do this and why we, the women, have to fix it???????

2006-11-28 13:32:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ade 6

the right one for me. i prayed to God that I was too weak to end it on my own or to know better if my marriage was a bad idea. i prayed that he would create some circumstance that would end our engagement for us if it wasnt a good thing in his eyes. however, nothing like that happened and we did wind up marrying.

our marriage has been rather difficult and i have found my wife to be a rather difficult person to live with and can honestly sometimes be downright mean. i hate to say it but i dont really enjoy life the way i used to. the only thing i can say is that as a result of it i am closer to God than I have ever been in my life as a result of my prayer and asking him for help to make it through this.

i guess my question for other Christians is, do you believe God could put you in a marriage solely as creating a "cross for you to bear"? in other words, make your life difficult so as to be brought closer to God?

2006-11-28 13:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

2006-11-28 13:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by mizellbaby 1

how old does your child have to be to make his own decision who he wants to live with? iowa

2006-11-28 13:25:07 · 4 answers · asked by alex w 1

2006-11-28 13:21:19 · 12 answers · asked by loann_pizzito 1

Its a term that married women use occasionally. Give us some insight on what you really mean when you tell someone this.

2006-11-28 13:16:24 · 14 answers · asked by HowFuzzyWuzee 6

My husband and I have been together for 6 years, and got married in August of 2006. When we first got together, and again when we first got married, he was lovey and wanted to be close to me, to touch me and spend time with me... but we seem to have lost that yet again, and I really want to know some good ideas for recreating that magic. Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 13:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by jhostman 3

We're getting married in 2-3 years, and I want to remind him that we should start saving. He is clueless about this stuff... all he knows is that he loves me. :-) Should I tell him? Is it necessary? How should I do it?

2006-11-28 13:14:34 · 21 answers · asked by reba 1

for a man to not be hurt or have a bruised ego when his wife tells him he doesn't satisfy her in bed?

There is open communication, told him gently for the first 2 years and now frustratingly pleads with him that he won't learn how to make love or touch me. It's mechanical, awkward and doesnt know my body - has to be TOLD everything to do and when to do it. Tried instructional videos, frank conversation and TEARS...he thinks it's funny (he makes jokes about it) that he's not good in bed and says it doesn't hurt him when I tell him how I feel about our love life. He says it's not that important and he could have a relationship without sex. I know for a fact he is NOT gay, he had sexual relations with women all through teenage years, though we did not sleep together before we were married. (Religious reasons.)

I'm SO frustrated and feel neglected and not cared for. I love my husband and want to stay with him, don't want an affair or divorce. What do I do

2006-11-28 13:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 13:09:38 · 2 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1

i found out he was cheating on me w/her thru emails messages and pixs of her half naked she had sent him. its been so hard 4 me 2 let go, cuz i truly loved him & he dares 2 denied that something went on, he says they only talked. why can i just move on, i left after 5mons of problems been married 10 yrs have 2girls 2gether he doesnt even provide for them, its been 3mons that i left. everytime he can sneaks around & takes my cell phone always telling me to go w/my socalled friends that called me. I havent meet no one & if i do they usually dnt last after hearing my drama. i want 2 B strong & B able 2 move on just like he did & treat him like shiet just like he does 2 me, why do i jump everytime he says jump, he sneaks around at themiddle of the night (@ my place), he shows up @ clubs if he knows im there how can i B strong & stop him making a fool of me, i love him & everything but i know hes sleeping w/her, im the wife i shouldnt be his 2nd choice! how do i get out & not look back?

2006-11-28 13:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1

This is a serious Q that I really need an answer to. First brief intro, I am a 24 yr old single guy who is saving virginity till marriage. But I am a high hormone guy so I have been indulging in masturbation and porn to release my hormones. It has become quite a habit as I have been doing it for the past 8 yrs. It is very, very hard to go a week without masturbating to porn. I usually masturbate to porn at least 3 times a week.
But I recently came to think about how my habit will impact my future wife in marriage. I have been thinking, "Will my future wife be ok with me masturbating to porn 3 times a week? It is not a cheating, right? So will she think of it as no big deal? What if she gets hurt by seeing me masturbating to porn instead of being with her?"
Here goes my Qs.
1. Do you approve of ur husband indulging in porn,mb at least 3 times a week? If yes or no, why?
2. Would you consider it a cheating if ur husband would engage in mb, porn instead of spending time with you?

2006-11-28 13:05:47 · 14 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1

We've been 2gether for 5yrs. Everything is still great between us he makes me feel good when he holds me and he's the only one that has been ther since my dad got sick. We both have been married before and I don't want to lose him because I want him in my life. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-28 13:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by DADDYS' GIRL 4LF 1