Is it also wrong and disrespectful for him to keep saying to his wife "My eyes are free" whenever his wife complains to him about his oogling other women?
2006-11-28 14:23:00 · 25 answers · asked by Dragoness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
<< msnite196 says: He is just looking. He is still with her, right? >
Yes he is still with me but this leaded to a 7-week affair with a slutty single mother of 2 toddlers who used him for money!!! He is back with me BUT he is STILL oogling!
2006-11-28 14:44:56 · update #1
<< BH said: Some "oogling" is okay...he's human (and male)...humans are visual creatures and men even moreso than women...there's nothing wrong with noticing someone or something we find attractive... >>
I don't mind if he looks at other women occassionally like take a quick look at them but he looks at them as they pass by and he turns his head and then walks back and looks back at them again, oogling at their bodies carefully and lustfully. And he does this in front of me everytime I am with him. That is a different story!
2006-11-28 14:52:49 · update #2
Pretty much
2006-11-28 14:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some "oogling" is okay...he's human (and male)...humans are visual creatures and men even moreso than women...there's nothing wrong with noticing someone or something we find attractive...
If she gripes all the time, then she's insecure and needs to work on that. If he "oogles" too much AND makes an issue of it, then he's being disrespectful.
What goes around, comes around...if his behavior is inappropriate, it'll come back on him.
2006-11-28 22:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
uh yeah. The greatest form of respect a man can give his wife is keep is eyes and thoughts on her. I can almost guarantee that if this man's wife was loOKing at other men with the same mindset he would complain how she is unfaithful (and to be honest he may call her a ****) men tend to think it's ok for them but wrong for women, this world revolves on a double standard sadly. It's ok for a two second glance if someone is cute it's a natural response but don't stare and gawk and make comments that's what makes it so rude!!
2006-11-28 22:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♫lady4life♪ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Of course not.
Men and women look at other people each day. We all find attractive people.
Your husband is very immature and disrespectful to you.
Yes, his eyes are Free...My eyes are free. He is immature if he will not stop his ogling of other women.
You must deal with him...and he must deal with himself.
2006-11-28 22:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to oogle other man and if he gets in her way, she should tell him move, he's blocking a perfect view. Gotta love them "free eyes."
2006-11-28 22:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is very disrespectful. The next time a young handsome guy goes by, his wife should do the same thing. See how he likes it.
2006-11-28 22:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
IT"S VERY WRONG. His eyes are not his any more. When u get married, u share everything w/ ur spouse. A person who's disrespectful to his wife is a JERK!
2006-11-28 22:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by fldrod 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
right and wrong are relative terms. But I can tell you it's very disrespectful of him to do that in front of his wife. I think she should do it back. That's what I do, and it makes my boyfriend so jealous, he stops looking at them.. at least for a little while.
2006-11-28 22:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's natural to check out other people you pass in everyday situations, may even a little harmless ego boosting flirting.
But to do it in front of your partner to the point it hurts them is disrespectful. She should talk to him, stating that yes he is free to "just" look but to please refrain from doing so when she is there.
2006-11-28 22:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he is showing his wife a lack of respect and not honoring his marriage vows (where he said he'd love, HONOR and cherish her). He can look, if he's discreet, but this man is throwing it in his wife's face, and that is not ok.
2006-11-28 22:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is being very disrespectful and he should have eyes only for you he is being a big@ss jerk how would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot i guarantee he wouldn't
2006-11-28 22:28:45 · answer #11 · answered by ladyluck356 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋