Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

2006-11-28 20:55:46 · 14 answers · asked by sara 1

2006-11-28 20:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just found out that the girl im getting married to in 2 weeks time is a porn actress. She lied to me that her rich dad gives her money for living, after 6 months of relationship, when we just about to getting married she telling me that she is bound in a 6 month contract with this web based porn-site where she has to make one 30min video every 2 weeks. I am so lost i dnt knw what to do.

2006-11-28 20:46:24 · 31 answers · asked by billy 1

Very atentive tmy needs in begining. That didnt last. He drives truck.once when i got into his truck,i was shocked by the amount of xxx i found. dvd,vhs mags. all of it. He is a local driver. should be home every night. not always the case.

NEVER have i given him a reason for turning to porn. I have always been ready/willing &able.
But Its to the point that i have quit trying to initiate any conact at all. I have been rejected so very many times, i cant even count.

Found po box he was mail ordering xxx dvd&mags. while acting to me as if he had no interest in sex. Seems he has lots of interest. however it dosnt involve me.... at 40 im not ready to say that no more sex s ok.

Is this an addicton?
IS THERE ANY HOPE ofthings geting better?

any suggetions or advice please??

2006-11-28 20:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by Mikez Bad Girl 3

My husband once told me that if I would ever cheat on him he would leave and take our two kids with him, and that he would get full custody.
Not that I'm planning on cheating, but it doesn't seem logical that courts would grant one parent full custody of the children if the other parent caused the breakdown of the marriage by infidelity.
Why would cheating on my husband mean that I would be a bad parent to my kids? Can the courts really take away kids for that reason? Or was my husband just trying to scare me?

2006-11-28 20:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Delfina D 3

2006-11-28 20:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by vishal 1

A year ago, I discovered that my boyfriend cheated me. Upon discovering that he had a fling, I made him choose between me and the girl. He chose me because he realized that he loves me so much and that he even claimed that he was an idiot for hurting me so bad. At present, I am informed by the girl that they no longer communicate to each other and that my boyfriend says that he doesn't care about her anymore. Am I right for even asking whether the girl is happy now because I only want to have a peace of mind? My boyfriend and I are getting married this coming December. We both agreed with my father. Can my broken up trust to him be 100% again?

2006-11-28 20:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by vanderlitt v 1

They cheat on their wives ( dont lie a$$holes!)

Don't pay child support or try to evade it.

Insult their wives with abusive verbal language and use their hands to communicate their anger.

Insult other nationalities such as (Arabs) for not being fair with women but in fact do not look at themselves.

Greedy

2006-11-28 20:27:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 4 yrs. and have two boys. We have always gotten along as friends. She says that there is something that is "just not there". I love her so much and have struggled with some personal issues in the past. She tells me that "she does not see me like that". I assume she means as a lover. She doesn't work at all. I work two jobs and am a good provider for our family, but that means that other areas are neglected (including her). Now that I kinda woke up and realized how I have done many things wrong, I fear it's too late. I can see how she would be hurt by my actions in the past, but I don't want to just give up now. I don't want to divorce her. I want to be the man to make her happy. I am trying to be optimistic about our future, but she is extremely pessimistic about it. She thinks that we should just click automatically. She says that I'm a good husband (now) but she doesn't think she wants to be with me forever. I am desperate for some direction!

2006-11-28 20:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by cohrsman 1

2006-11-28 20:10:10 · 7 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

But now both of us start finding that we are getting bored from each other...we use to talk endless the whole day but now we seldome talk (2-3 times a day that to very less) so if we merry Do you think it would be a successful marriege?

2006-11-28 20:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by sureshflourish 2

My husband met a woman on myspace and i found out he was talking crap about me with her. He told her he didnt love me anymore and that he is "stuck" in our marriage, amongst other not so nice things.... I confronted him and he told me he was lying to her. They ended up having cybersex after only knowing each other for 5 days. He says it is over with her and he wants to work on our relationship. I have reason to believe he is still comunicating with her. Am I stupid to think he can't love me and talk like that about me.....? Would you talk bad about someone you love with a stranger?

2006-11-28 20:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by Real 2

2006-11-28 19:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by Beth 2

Miss X & Mr Y were married 6 months ago -an arranged marriage. She has lived & worked in USA (green card) the past 3 years. (with her mom & dad & younger sister.) Husband is a perpetual student... living on another continent to complete his advanced degree. He is supported by his parents and a loan from the bank for his schooling. He married her, expecting to get a rich wife. (she has a good job) Her husband is furious because he found out that she has no savings.. having given her paychecks to her parents since she lives with them & her education was paid for by them. He thought she would pay off his school debt. The only property they have in common is his computer, cell phone, and a camera. He hopes to live in USA, continue studies, and be supported by wife. Should she keep her paycheck for this guy? She does not mind giving to mom & dad. Mom & dad told her to do as she wishes. Whose money is her paycheck. (legally): she is now married but not financially supported by husband.

2006-11-28 19:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by carmen 1

2006-11-28 19:39:59 · 26 answers · asked by rizaplanco 1

2006-11-28 19:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

(Please excuse the odd phrasing. I didn’t want anyone to be effected by who the guy is & who the girl is.)

We live on a 5 acre lot. The house is on the higher level & a comfortable little trailer house in on the lower level by the lake.

The internet surfer is glued to the computer in the bedroom. The couch potato is glued to the TV in the Living room. The couch potato gets up, leaves the house to go down to the trailer without telling the internet surfer.

The surfer goes to the living room to say “Lets go to bed.” No one is there, then knowing the couch potato is probably down at the trailer, surfer calls registering a complaint about not telling surfer that potato was leaving house.

Couch potato was asleep & says “I’ll come on up.” No Show (potato falls back asleep). 15 minutes later, same call, same result. The 30 minutes later same call, same result, then 15 minutes more later. Each time the surfer complains of feeling rejected.

2006-11-28 19:37:28 · 10 answers · asked by leopardlady 6

I am going to be get married.....it's an arrange marrige.....so I don't know how should I start. He always gives a lot of instructions to me. I am trying my best to change myself but I feel he is not happy. What should i do?

2006-11-28 19:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 19:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by glee 1

no sex involved, although we share a room. but i can't get rid of him from my mind and my heart, is it love?. Being married for near 13 yrs and my hubby is a good person. Feel very guilty, but can't do anything. 24 seven thought about him, i know we're just a friend.

2006-11-28 19:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by OOPS I DID IT AGAIN! 2

Like charity or something

2006-11-28 19:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by Bloorf 2

i dont want to blackmail children to do some work or other, then how to convence them to understand the problem or situtation to solve the things amicably

2006-11-28 19:06:15 · 12 answers · asked by vishnu vardhan g 1

Please comment your openion in having extra marital affairs

2006-11-28 19:02:46 · 22 answers · asked by My_Life 1

She is like a cold fish.

2006-11-28 18:55:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my wife was to have a friend that she would open up to and tell personal secrets to about her and me, would that be considered a relationship? If so would that relationship be considered a extramarital affair?

2006-11-28 18:51:00 · 14 answers · asked by sneaky 1

2006-11-28 18:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has made a friend at work because she needed someone to talk to. He's 13years younger and and she insists they are strictly friends. The other day I ran across her phone bill that showed all kinds of text messages last month. About 100 of them to her "friend", but the part that I can't accept is that some were at midnight, 1am, 2am 2:45 am etc... To me anyone calling/texting at that time of night is not calling to see if they be at work in the morning...She still insists it is strictly innocent. Nothing more than friendship. So I ask is that possible to be able to be such good friends with a woman that you can call/text all hours of the night and there be nothing going on?

2006-11-28 18:46:44 · 19 answers · asked by sneaky 1

i love here too much and we will grt marriege within 3 monthes,..she knows nothing about sex,.....completely nothing,... she ie white heart girle,....how can i teach here?

2006-11-28 18:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by hadi 1

2006-11-28 18:34:15 · 11 answers · asked by Beth 2

For example today :we were watching television and he got an erection I asked him what is going on and he said "nothing",and he wants to go to sleep.We have sex only once a week because he said that he needed to be relaxed,but when we want to have sex many times he cannot perform (doesn't get erection)I don't know what is going on with him,he doesn't want to tell me nothing.My concern is that when he gets all erections he is thinking of somebody else,because he isnot into sex with me anymore.He told me that sex is not important for him.Please help.THX!

2006-11-28 18:26:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous