But now both of us start finding that we are getting bored from each other...we use to talk endless the whole day but now we seldome talk (2-3 times a day that to very less) so if we merry Do you think it would be a successful marriege?
2006-11-28 20:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by sureshflourish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Friend
I think its good question.
why do not you discuss your problem with her.so you can come to a conclusion.were things are not the same.whether communication or you both have lost interest in each other.Try going out with other friends. go with them where you would have preferred to take her and not anybody else.(some good movie etc) Because they can be many reasons.
I personally think you should give each other some space and latter share your feeling with each other and check-.once you are sure about your feeling then only decide about Marriage.
2006-11-28 20:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by netra k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do something to spark your relationship back up, treat her like you did the first week you were together, surprise her with stuff, cook for her (if your a good cook), get some comedy movies and watch them together, then for the next few days quote the movie to bring some humor into situations and your relationship.
sometimes less talk is a good thing, your getting to know your significant other so well you dont need to communicate about the small things as much.
the main 2 things i think a relationship needs (other than love) is trust and itamacy.
trust- the degree in which we feel safe in disclosing personal information with another. we are looking for trust when we develop relationships. we find trust when others dont cheat, protect our secrets, and show continuing affection in the light of negative information.
intamacy-the degree in which we can be ourselves, and still be accepted by the other. . intamacy is measured by our significant other's ability to see us as we see ourselves, while continuing to express positive feelings about us.
2006-11-28 20:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by tupersrooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who ever said marriage was suppose to be fun the whole time your together if your bored then hey just think you already know what its gonna be like when your in to 10 or 20 years of marriage
2006-11-28 20:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by DR.PHIL-A-LIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, marriage is for life not 4 years.....if you are already bored take a break and if you miss each other maybe u still have a chance, if not, start looking
2006-11-28 20:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by alexrombuc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you should do is get married. If you still feel there is a spark there then seek councelling but if that doesn't help then go your seperate ways.
2006-11-28 20:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a marriage counsellor and get married take the blessings of the elders, without gods blessings and the blessings and good wishes of elders you started now start with the blessings of god and elders things will be alright. Think positive. Best of luck
2006-11-28 20:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by leena_fern 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOW THE PERIOD OF LOVE HAVE OVER AND TIME HAS COME TO SETTLE THE LIFE. MAY BE SHE IS THINKING REGARDING THE MARRIAGE AND HER FAMILY IS FORCING FOR THIS. BETTER PROPOSE TO HER FAMILY TO MARRY HER.
2006-11-28 23:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u never loved her if you are now bored of her.... forget her and forget about the marriage...
2006-11-28 20:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by AB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go for out stations toget fresh ness
2006-11-28 20:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by roaringlion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy now marriage won't make any better
2006-11-28 20:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋