Please comment your openion in having extra marital affairs
2006-11-28 19:02:46 · 22 answers · asked by My_Life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not a good idea. Just consider this...any person you cheat with will also cheat on you, and visa versa. Cheaters cheat, even after they've been caught. Once they get what they want, they tend to move on, leaving you behind. It's best to commit to one person, and stay true to your wedding vows. While it might not sound as exciting, it's the best thing you can do for yourself. And you don't have to keep track of your lies. Everyone wins when everyone lives to please each other instead of themselves. <*)))><
2006-11-28 19:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When does this question arise or this feeling of having extra marital affair arise? If we could think twice and sort this problem, then there will be no extra marital affair. Human being is a bundle of mistake mongers. If something has happened by mistake of anykind , then it is not an extra marital affair.A continued process of having extra relation out of marital life is wrong and should be avoided. It never brings satisfaction for which one goes into it , it rather brings all the hell of a problems to be countered and affected to the dearest in the family.
2016-03-29 15:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are wrong. It means the marriage vows meant nothing. If a person wants someone else, the should get a divorce before hooking up with someone else.Extra marital affairs are nothing more than a married person acting like a single person. Someone always gets hurt.
2006-11-28 23:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need an 'affair' outside of your marriage, then your marriage cant be very good. They only end up one way, if you get found out, then the trust your partner had in you has gone. If the partner says they 'forgive' the straying one, they are lying. You CAN forgive, but you cant forget, and that in the end destroys all happiness. Put all you have into the marriage you have. or get out , make a clean break and save all the heartache that will surely follow.
2006-11-28 19:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Daydreamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Extra marital affair to me is sinful and can ruin the relationship of two spouses. If any one of the spouse can't discipline his/herself and for more practical solution, they should be faithful to one another. Otherwise, if not they should legalize the affair by entering into a swinging affair to be fair to both of them. However, they need to be considerate and have the maximum patient and never feel the jealousies in their hearts. Maybe in this way their relationship is more transparent.
2006-11-28 19:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Extramarital affairs are cowardly. It shows that you'd rather turn your back on the problems in the marriage and look for solutions outside of it rather than put in the hard work required to "fix" those issues.
2006-11-28 19:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by jdhs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SUCKS!!!! Individuals that have affairs or are on the verge of having an affair, MUST realize, they have just made their own DEATHBED, the aftermath they caused will be their own slow tortured HELL!
2006-11-28 19:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Skinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good thing to cheat on a spouse. My take on it is this: I didn't take vows of matrimony so if I decide to sleep with a married man, that's on his conscience, not mine. The attraction to married men is sex without emotional attachments or the baggage that goes along with being married.
2006-11-28 20:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by buffybeast 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never a good idea...
You need to divorce or break-up first before moving on...
To cheat would be beneath my character...
2006-11-28 19:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are NEVER a good idea. Not only are you destroying a trust, but you are also risking STD's not only to you, but your partner as well.
2006-11-28 19:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by brittanylevesque 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋