whose money is it anyway?

Question

Miss X & Mr Y were married 6 months ago -an arranged marriage. She has lived & worked in USA (green card) the past 3 years. (with her mom & dad & younger sister.) Husband is a perpetual student... living on another continent to complete his advanced degree. He is supported by his parents and a loan from the bank for his schooling. He married her, expecting to get a rich wife. (she has a good job) Her husband is furious because he found out that she has no savings.. having given her paychecks to her parents since she lives with them & her education was paid for by them. He thought she would pay off his school debt. The only property they have in common is his computer, cell phone, and a camera. He hopes to live in USA, continue studies, and be supported by wife. Should she keep her paycheck for this guy? She does not mind giving to mom & dad. Mom & dad told her to do as she wishes. Whose money is her paycheck. (legally): she is now married but not financially supported by husband.

Answer 1

The money is hers and hers to do with as she pleases. The "man" needs to get off his lazy a** and get a job and support himself. Why should she be supporting him??? Sounds like he thought he was getting a sugar mama.

Answer 2

She earns the money, the paychecks are made out to her and all without the help of the husband. Now comes the question.... who's money does the idiot husband thinks it is? It's hers.

Answer 3

it's her money, legally. she can keep it for herself if she wishes. she is in the usa. it's her right.
maybe she should get her own place, save up her money and either rent or buy a place of her own. then she won't have to worry about mom and dad much anymore. like i said, it's the usa, it's her right. arranged marriages are the same as every other marriage.

Answer 4

r u sleeping wake up butterfly ( 1) that not a married you own nothing he useing you wake up dont walk to the court house run you need him like a hole in the head (2) he dont need a wife he need a mother (3) he a grow man (4) now you want to live rent free because he want you to pay for his school

Answer 5

Her name is on the paycheck not his. She needs to tell this guy ..this isn't the old country and I like it here. Good luck to her. Maybe her "husband" will wake up one day. If not , divorce his lazy a

Answer 6

Yeah, dumbass, you're being unfair. the youngster help is being paid on your female friend and her little ones, not you, with the help of order of a choose. you ought to be British. You people ought to easily call it newborn help because it really is what that's. For the youngster, not your splurge fund. you're an fool. Why the hell do you ought to be entitled to any of it? deal with it, this is the cost you pay for paying for in contact with a lady with another dude's little ones. you at the instantaneous are not the absolutely one.

Answer 7

She worked for it, the money is hers. If she chooses to support her parents, that's fine. As to that louse she married, the last thing I would do is either hand over money to him or help him get to the US. Get rid of him double-quick, I say. He is a user.

Answer 8

THAT MAN IS A SELFISH M O R O N AND UNREASONABLE. HE HAS NO FEELINGS SINCE HE MARRIED HER FOR MONEY. HE NEEDS A KICK ON HIS BUTT FOR HAVING NO EMOTIONS FOR HER. SHE NEEDS TO REALISE WHAT A LOSER SHE GOT BUT ONE DAY SHE WILL AND PROBABLY DIVORCE HIM ROYALLY. SO JUST TELL HIM THAT HE IS SELFISH CRUEL AND BRAINLESS FOR HAVING SUCH A SELFISH ATTITUDE IN LIFE. IF ITS YOU THEN I PITY YOU FOR CHEATING THAT POOR GIRL. THE MONEY IS NOT YOURS AND SHE HAS A RIGHT TO LOOK AFTER HER PARENTS. YOU NEED TO GO WORK.. YOU OR WHOEVER HE IS... IS NOTHING BUT A LAZY BUGGER

Answer 9

Both.

Answer 10

its her choice ,she is not legally bound to give her pay cheque to anyone