no sex involved, although we share a room. but i can't get rid of him from my mind and my heart, is it love?. Being married for near 13 yrs and my hubby is a good person. Feel very guilty, but can't do anything. 24 seven thought about him, i know we're just a friend.
2006-11-28 19:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by OOPS I DID IT AGAIN! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love your hubby, never tell him what happened...once he stops trusting you things will NEVER be the same....stop seeing your "friend" because you'll end up kissing him again or even worse, in bed!. Be the best you can be with your hubby and never do this again.
2006-11-29 09:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years married to this man & this is the way you treat him - with lies & deceit? You don't feel you owe him the truth? You are not in love with the other guy, you know your " friend"... Also if you cheat with this guy & divorce your hubby- this new guy would be nuts to trust you. You will do him like you did your hubby- what a chump you are. I can only hope you have no kids to show them an example of how mom acts. You will find no other man as good as a person as your hubby- and regret forever how you messed up this marriage. Tell hubby the truth & walk away - then get involved with your " friend". How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot? You are heartless.
2006-11-29 03:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youve tasted the forbidden fruit and now your punished by thinking of the "other guy" 24/7. I think your husband deserves to know what you did after 13 yrs of marriage. Depends if he will forgive you or not or if you even care what he thinks. If you love your husband you would give him the respect by telling him what happened and then see what happens from there.
2006-11-29 03:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by chika0284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel guilty it is because you still care about your husband. going and making out with other people however doesn't fix your problems at home, as you can see, it only makes it worse. stop now and use that energy to repair what you have invested 13 years of your life to build. you don't burn down a house because of a squeaky door and you dont throw away a marriage for a stupid crush.
2006-11-29 03:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by GoatFingers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG thats still cheating....get a divorce before you start tongue wrestling with some other guy. sounds like your hubby is too good for you anyway.
2006-11-29 03:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by IM A BITCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to see a marriage counsellor. 13 years is a long time to throw away for you to decide what to do with your life..
2006-11-29 03:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go buy the book called heal your life by Louise l hay ! there some information in there that i think would help you with your decisions ! i think your just feeling a bit overwhelmed !
think about what you saying ?
:)
2006-11-29 03:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by lelanilama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not only cheating, you are cheating your husband out of a great and fulfilling life with someone.....move on!
2006-11-29 03:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a cheating, skunk of a Wife.
Does that help?
2006-11-29 03:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is clearly not your friend.
2006-11-29 12:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋