2006-11-28 19:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would depend whether you return those feelings or not. I know two people, a man and a woman, who've been very good friends for many years. She's deeply in love with him, has loved him all those years and suffers horribly when he pays attention to any other woman. He appears unaware that she has these feelings for him but it's crystal clear that he would never feel the same about her. He likes younger women who are very pretty and his friend is approaching her 50s, makes no effort whatsoever with her appearance and looks as if she's never heard of sex. If she told him how she felt, I believe it could mean the end of their friendship. At best it would radically change the nature of that friendship. Whether it would be best for her to face the truth, I don't know.
Only you know how you and your friend feel about each other and ultimately only you can decide.
2006-11-28 21:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my best friend was a guy:
I'd tell him, cool, but I'm not into masculinity. We can be friends though, but repect my heterosexuality. Then I'd ask, why? Are you just confused or for real? If for real, let him know he may get hurt if he dwells on that feeling for me when I find the right girl. He should go else where to find the right guy.
If my best friend was a girl:
We'd get in on. In fact, my best friend is my wife :)
2006-11-28 19:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too., I definitely have a good pal whom i will share each thing which contain secrets and strategies along with her. we've been mutually for fantastically much 7 years. I met her whilst we used to coach on the comparable college. even nonetheless we at the instant are not to any extent further in the comparable college, we nonetheless touch and connect up many times.
2016-12-29 15:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by mccloy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, tough one. Think how you feel bout him/her. The best relationships are those in which lovers are also friends. If you don't feel any attraction tell them you are flattered but you prefer to remain best friends for life.
2006-11-28 19:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by alexrombuc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him that there are some things you are not ready to take risks and that is sacrificing your friendship
boyfriends/girlfriends break up but best friends will be with you through the very end
2006-11-28 20:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lorelei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me, so I married her! We've been happily married for almost 4 years now. Your spouse or significant other SHOULD be your best friend.
2006-11-28 19:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Niknud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready to go to the next level.
2006-11-28 19:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is your best friend go for it. you must really enjoy the company. if you can stand each other's company for more than an hour it must be true love!
2006-11-28 19:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend's a male.. haha.. im gonna make his nose bleed if he tells me so!! anyway, if i hav a girl bstfriend.. uhm... i dont know.. i thnk it juz depends.. maybe we're gonna be more than it if we feel both.. but if i dont like her..ill handle it w/o offending her and destroying our relationship..
2006-11-28 20:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put him up on stage and make a kagillion dollars! My best friend is a dog (canine) ;-)
2006-11-28 19:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋