Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

In love for the first year then love begins to dissipate.

2006-11-28 07:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Joy 1

We were dating long-distance.

2006-11-28 07:39:51 · 22 answers · asked by Loose Cannon 1

Has anyone read these. If so, what was your opinion on them? Were they useful to you and your partner? I was just wondering because I'm halfway through the book "He Comes Second" and my bf is halfway through the book "She Comes First" and neither one of us has learned anything at all. I just wondered if we were the only ones that had read them and found the not useful.

2006-11-28 07:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Lou Anna 1

2006-11-28 07:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by Raven 5

Can this even happen?

2006-11-28 07:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by luke 1

Im just curious cause my mom and dad thinks so but i dont

2006-11-28 07:29:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are into anal sex. We were in a big argument a few days ago and the passion was really high when we had make up sex. Unfortunately, I took my anger out too much and kept doing her butt hole until she was screaming to stop. I didn't stop and she had some complications resulting from that trauma. I took her to the doctor this morning and was told that she had permanent damage to her rectum area. She needs to take medicine for life possibly and she may have serious future complications. I am totally speechless and have no idea what to say. I am wondering is she will be able to forgive me one day. What would you suggest I do or say?

2006-11-28 07:28:30 · 22 answers · asked by Rob 1

2006-11-28 07:26:58 · 35 answers · asked by Kim H 1

When we fight its always over stupid things and make up. We don't have any real problems that we need to "work on". We are each other's best friend and it's so easy for us so why can't everyone just appreciate their partner and share a love like we do?

2006-11-28 07:25:25 · 19 answers · asked by mustang64093gt 4

it will be ten years this dec 14.in fl.is it required to sell house and split proceeds 50/50?when buying the house put the 20% down on the house myself.Ive heard that w/ten years a wife could stay in the house with child 6 until the child was 18 anybody now if thats true? This is my sons home he was born here and I just windered can we stay or do we have to sell,im not in the position to buy him out of his half of the house what do i do?

2006-11-28 07:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by resigned 5

Ive had an affair with my GF of 11 years. The sex, is absolutely great .. she is wonderful .. My wife on the other hand, although comiong around in hte sex department, is inhibited. should I continue with this on going sex once twice or three times a week with the office nympho or not??

2006-11-28 07:20:46 · 19 answers · asked by Eamon35 1

2006-11-28 07:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has spent the last 4 years going through the courts etc etc and yet still she is being a complete ***** about when he sees the kids, he has done everything he can legally and also emotionally by trying to talk to his ex wife, and yet she seems to enjoy making him suffer, he is supposed to have them every other weekend but he hasnt had them for nearly 2 months because everytime its his weekend there is always an excuse for him not to have them. she takes the mobile of the eldest child so he cant ring even though he brought the phone for his eldest and now he seems to have given up fighting for them because its just soul destroying. the eldest is nearly 14 and the youngest is 7. he now feels that maybe he should let go until they are adults and then they come looking for him what does anyone else think?

2006-11-28 07:18:02 · 10 answers · asked by chancock01@btinternet.com 2

He's never mad.... never has issues.... but I cant even bring up money without him shutting me out. We have been together for 10 years and it is a good relationship but I cant discuss anything with him and I am tired of making all the decisions.

2006-11-28 07:15:11 · 17 answers · asked by care_bear1108 2

I am getting a divorce and have a question about my retirement accounts. I am having to split my retirement in half. I thought that is the only amount of money that gets split. Who gets the interest that is gained from the money after the split of the account. Me or her. I am confused about this. Lawyers just want to seem to get everything signed and not explain things in plain English. They have so much jibberish in the language it is amazing anyone no whats they are getting. Also I no longer work with the company I have my retirement account. Can i change it over to an Ira after the divorce so I can build my account back up. Otherwise it seems like all my retirement plans are down the drain with this also. This does not seem fair to me.

2006-11-28 07:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants to go to bars, but it seems like he only wants to go when he's drinking. He gets in this kind of weird mood about it when he drinks. I don't like it. I'm not 21 yet so I can't go with him and i'm pregnant. Am I being overly protective? My huband doesn't seem to know when enough is enough when I comes to alcohol. I'm just afraid of him getting into a bad situation of any kind. Am I being too bossy?

2006-11-28 07:11:43 · 22 answers · asked by Regina D 1

Why are women just not happy? Some have a good husband, money, healthy children,good job,and still they are negative about everything. I am sick of men being to blame. Ladies shed me some light on this subject please.

2006-11-28 07:07:45 · 18 answers · asked by attaboy 1

My husband is a very picky sleeper. He says he can't sleep in the bed with me because sometimes I snore and/or I move around too much. When it is not me, his reason is our dog is too difficult to move when he's asleep. So he goes and sleeps on the couch. Other than this, we have an excellent marriage (both physically and emotionally). Sometimes, I'll sleep on the couch so he can get the bed. Should we just get a bigger apartment so he or I can get a bed to sleep in? Comments please. Thanks.

2006-11-28 07:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by kwightman69 3

are you sitting comfortably.. then i will begin.
the wife and i split 7 months ago, I moved out of my house leaving her and my 2 children there,
she worked at my tattoo shop as a piercer and i allowed her to come and get ALL her stuff from the shop. she went back to work in her mums shop as a piercer and employed a tattooist to try to rival me..LOL. he is rubbish, that i do not mind.
the thing is. i cannot see my children, she will not allow it. her family have issued death threats, which were recorded on my CCTV and given to the police. my dad 3 weeks ago payed for me to fly to australia to see my uncle before he dies and whilst there she broke in to my shop and emptied it. she signed a statement that she has nothing to do with the business 6 months ago, yet the police helped her break in to MY shop "im a sole trader" and take my all "even my accounts and appointments book" the police have admitted their mistake but are not proceeding with anything... what can i do? UK answers

2006-11-28 07:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by sparky 3

I'm so confused. My husband is the most wonderful person in the world and would do anything for me when things in our relationship are good. But when I'm upset with him it's like he can't handle it. He completly looses his cool. He yells, and tells me the most horrible things to get to me. He's gotton to the point to where he's getting physical with me. He's not hitting me or anything. But when I want to walk away he won't let me. He'll poke me and try to control me. He won't let me leave. I know he sounds like a jerk , but when we are not fighting he's a completly different person. Do you think he should see a Dr? Is there something wrong with him. The worste part is that he's blaming his behavior on me, because I irritate him and interupt him when he's mad. HELP!

2006-11-28 07:01:55 · 37 answers · asked by Regina D 1

who are the heirs when there is no will?

2006-11-28 07:01:34 · 5 answers · asked by lucielou 1

she is loving a person that boy is also loving her he is well settled in life he does not have any bad habits and he is in a good job. her parents also knew about that boy they also like him but they were different caste she thinks that the only obstacle according to her parents is caste .she had not spoken about her love with her parents . she had told that boy she will not marry him if her parents refuses him but she is telling that "if i did not marry him means i will not marry anyone in this world" tell me some valuable advices for my friend

2006-11-28 07:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been married for four years and i have children from a previous marriage i am in my late 40s and my husband is 30 he wants to have a baby i have tried three times and lost all of them he says he wants to find someone else to have a baby with but still stay married to me????????

2006-11-28 06:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by tristy 2

I have been married 10 yrs and have 4 kids. My hubby treats me well but treats the kids like dirt. I'm worried about our kids and I worry about their future. I told my husband that they are going to grow up to think it's okay to hurt your children. The kids fight with each other and hurt each other. Hubby gets mad but I say they learned it from their dad. So I need to leave to gets the kids out of the house and away from him but I have not worked in 10 yrs, have no money, no credit and health issues that keep me home most of the time. I also have no friends or family support. I live in a small town so going to a shelter means driving 40 miles and pulling the kids out of school.


The kids are 9, 7, 5 and 3. The 5 yr old and hubby already fight alot. I told hubby that our son is going to be bigger and stronger than him one day and will take him down. Hubby says Good, can't wait.

Sorry so long so now what do I do?

2006-11-28 06:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by emily 2

I was away for 2 months, I came back to my apartment that my boyfriend and I share and I have 2 bras missing, my shotglasses lost, and I think condoms missing though I'm not sure. When I ask him he gets upset saying it's insulting I think he would cheat. I do not cheat tho I have been cheated on before so I guess I'm a little worried but I've had quite a few dreams of him cheating and he's been calling/recieving calls from his coworkers who suddenly are having relationship problems....I love my boyfriend, but he has one big secret, from before we met...and just that he keeps that from me...bothers me....He wont even watch porn so I don't think he'd cheat...but I was away so he went from getting some every day or atleast whenever he wanted to getting nothing at all...so I'm just lost.

2006-11-28 06:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my ex-husband 2 years ago, because after 10 years of a miserable marriage, I was ready to move on. He was a verbally abusive to me, and our oldest daughter. He definitely has anger issues. I can no longer handle the 50/50 custody, the kids want to be at my house (the oldest cannot stand her father). I am ready to proceed in getting full custody ...however, he has re-married, and I am currently living with my boyfriend (with plans to get married). My question is...do I stand a better chance of getting the custody of my children if I was married????

2006-11-28 06:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by shasta 5

i dont think its post pardem depression. I think i don't have time for him and his sh!t now that i have three kids to take care of. He shows no affection to me and i just don't think we love each other any more should i wait and see what happens or send him packing?

2006-11-28 06:40:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife of 4 years and the mother of my daughter just discovered her ex-boyfriend from 9 nine years ago on myspace. She has made contact with him and is now talking to him online more during the day while he's at work. I have heard about this boyfriend before and what a good relationship they had although short. He broke up with her and it broke her heart. I am very uncomfortable with this situation, but she insists it's nothing, just talking. I am afraid of the worst so obviously I'm insecure, which led to a few arguments over this. Yet, she still insists that it's nothing and that I should trust her. She say's he's just a nice guy and that she would like to be friends with him.

2006-11-28 06:40:42 · 23 answers · asked by Sam Adams 2

2006-11-28 06:38:21 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

I'm enganged and I'm 3 months pregnant. It seems as thought my fiance has been holding off our marriage. I bring it up to him sometimes but he is just deaf to what I have to say. This isn't at all home I wanted the order of my life to go in and I don't know what to tell him or what to say. He is ready to go house shopping with me again, but I would like our baby to be born to a married couple.What should I do?!?!?

2006-11-28 06:31:02 · 27 answers · asked by my nickname 3