My wife and I are into anal sex. We were in a big argument a few days ago and the passion was really high when we had make up sex. Unfortunately, I took my anger out too much and kept doing her butt hole until she was screaming to stop. I didn't stop and she had some complications resulting from that trauma. I took her to the doctor this morning and was told that she had permanent damage to her rectum area. She needs to take medicine for life possibly and she may have serious future complications. I am totally speechless and have no idea what to say. I am wondering is she will be able to forgive me one day. What would you suggest I do or say?
2006-11-28 07:28:30 · 22 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just learn from this experience...never take out your anger on a butthole...
2006-11-28 07:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call me a prude if you will but I honestly believe that the only reason a man has anal sex with a woman is to hurt her. Anal sex is by it's very definition a violent act and the physical repercussions of doing it can be very significant.
So you committed an act of violence on someone whom you allegedly love and when she said stop you significantly increased the level of violence. You sir neither love nor respect your wife.
In a saner world she would have had you immediately arrested for rape and you would be writing this from a prison. Wouldn't it be ironic if while in prison your rectum and all structures associated with it were also damaged for life ?
2006-11-28 16:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ever would you NOT stop? She had a lot of trust in you. And not only did you totaly mess that up, But you had the nerve to damage her to the point she might be on meds for the rest of her life. You really need to go get some serious counseling. She is going to have a hard time EVER trusting you again. She must be so hurt that you would ever do some thing like that to her.
2006-11-28 15:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious then you have issues. How would you like it if she was doing something to you and you yelled stop. If this did happen then you should have stopped and took your anger out on something else. There is nothing that you can do, because lets face it you already did it. What can you say? Oh dear I am sorry because you told me to stop and even yelled at me. If I were her I would make you go to therapy.
2006-11-28 15:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Denise G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need serious help. Have you ever seen the movie The Master of Disguise? You are so many different people. You should really be ashamed of yourself to post such non-sense. Your prior questions state that your wife is pregnant, so if that is true and you did this to her you need to be locked up. Are you really that sick in the head?
2006-11-28 21:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow, Dude!
She said STOP and you didn't stop?! Have you ever had someone do YOU in the ***? It's a really sensitive area and sometimes, even if you use a gallon of lube- it still hurts!
PROMISE her that you'll NEVER hurt her again and when she says STOP, you'll STOP no matter how close you are to finishing!
I can't believe you did that to your WIFE...someone you're supposed to LOVE.
2006-11-28 15:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by preciouspinkla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From reading other questions you have asked and answered, you are either such a liar , or bas_ _ _ _, or both (probably), that I have absolutely no pity on you at all. I even have doubts you're really married from what I read
Hope others read the other BS you have written
2006-11-28 15:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh your gonna pay for the rest of your life she will remind you everyday what you did. She may forgive you or feel better if you let her shove something in and out of your a** till you pass out.
2006-11-28 15:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by rottn30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're going to have to find a way to make the other hole happy.
2006-11-28 15:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't what you could say to ease the pain, but you at lease know that everytime she takes a dump she will be thinking of you.
2006-11-28 15:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey how about that, an a.s.shole doing a butthole. Go sit on the bedpost and see how it feels.
2006-11-28 15:37:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋