Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

from my weekly food-shop allowance to pay for the bus-ride to the supermarket to collect our weekly food shopping,is this a right liberty take or what?

2006-11-28 06:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 06:29:09 · 25 answers · asked by jane22 1

my boyfriend and i have been living together for 5 yrs. for the past week we having been speaking to each other because he was drunk on thanksgiving and embassed me.. i am so pissed because he thinks he is so full of himself because he got money in his pockets. well anyway he told me last week that he wants me to move out so i took out all my stuff from our bedroom and move it into the closet in the hallway. since then i have been sleeping on the couch and give each other the silent treatment.

2006-11-28 06:26:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean c'mon my girlfriend served me up dinner and it was only hot and not piping hot.

She then recieved a sound beating for her poor efforts.

LoL she wont make that mistake again in a hurry

Her parents looked a bit shocked though;)

When will woman learn?

2006-11-28 06:23:56 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf of 7 years (who i have 2 sons with) has daughter by this girl. This little girl can barely talk. she isnt quite 2 years old so she kinda just rambles. But this girl will keep having the little girl leave messages on his phone like every day or every other day while shes in the ground telling her daughter to say things like "love you dada", "hi", bye"and just directing the conversation herself. Now I have to add that this girl cant get over my man but tries to play it off like hes no big deal and she absolutely hates me and my kids. She gets mad b/c hes with me and wont let the little girl around me. Do you think she is trying to be funny to get him to talk to her or feel bad or something or get in contact with her or am i just being crazy? I mean its not like the little girl even understands who she is leaving messages for or what she is even saying to do it every other day.

2006-11-28 06:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

I'm trying to find something for my boyfriend, if I can convince him to do it. The problem is that he isnt insured and neither of us has much in the way of money to pay for services. Even just some websites with information on maybe what I can do to help him would be of great health. I intend to ask my chaplain about this as well. Thanks!

2006-11-28 06:20:48 · 8 answers · asked by kittiesandsparklelythings 4

He has used it before he admitted and i think he still does and i ask him to prove me rong by doing a home test he refused and said i will just have to trust him .his actions tell me hes using it and then he slows down and sleeps all the time and then all at once after sleeping for a week or two hes up and running and doing everything as if its an emergacy again.I think after a year of this I should just give up hes a control freak too

2006-11-28 06:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by cindybells 2

2006-11-28 06:18:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 06:16:52 · 1 answers · asked by lovelife2 1

My wife and I have been married for eight years. and We have NEVER had intercourse. She was a virgin when we got married in almost everyway. I was willing to wait for her because I loved her. On our wedding night she had her period so we just went to sleep.

She is DEATHLY afraid of getting pregnant so se refuses to have intercourse. She is not into oral and is unwilling to use her hands. All she is willing to do, is the old dry hump thing that teenagers do (close on).

Our marrige is the hsits I have developed a real bad temper and now she is also quite reluctant to have sex because of the way I treat and talk to her which I admit is not always pleasent I am at my wits end what should I do?

She says that she is normal and will not seek counselling on sexual matters

should I leave her is the lack of sex a good reason to divorce another

2006-11-28 06:16:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to make him want me again. How can I do that?

2006-11-28 06:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Stacye S 3

2006-11-28 06:16:12 · 4 answers · asked by Brian 4

Got married to a great guy, problem is we were together so long beforehand, i dont think im in love anymore. Whats a girl to do?

2006-11-28 06:12:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

adamently AGAINST ABORTION...Now, as we know...it is NOT against the law...But i personally feel, that some relative just gets him in a tizzy over that issue...just to get his blood pressure UP!!! AND IT DOES...i think that is very sad.... But he tells you how WRONG YOU ARE FOR BELIEVING IN PRO-CHOICE...(he doesn't respect other's opinions...i feel YOU should say something.)..even though he is INTIMIDATING...say.."let's just drop the subject...cuz obviously we don't agree"...and walk away if you can??? what to say?????yOU ARE A NICE PERSON AND DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SOMEONE'S OPINION FORCED UPON YOU!!! (abuse)

2006-11-28 06:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4

im sure plenty of you ladies fell like this sometimes. but seriosly i wanna new husband mine sucks.

2006-11-28 06:01:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 06:01:27 · 30 answers · asked by fabulous 2

I'M SINGLE PARENT NEVER BEEN MARRIED AND I'M TAKING MY CHILD TO KUWAIT & THEY ARE ASKING FOR PROOF OF CUSTUDY, WHAT DO I NEED AND WHERE TO I GO FOR IT? ALOS I NEED A DOCMENT TO SAY IV'E NEVER BEEN MARRIED ? WHAT DO I NEED & WHERE DO I GET IT FROM? PLEASE ANY ONE TELL ME. THANX FOR READING THIS

2006-11-28 06:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by milly w 2

2006-11-28 06:00:12 · 22 answers · asked by fabulous 2

Ok here lately I haven't been being myself in the sexual way. It seems like every time me and mine try to get in the groove something always seems to happen. Let me give you an example: just the other night we were ya know and we smashed our heads into each others. Well believe me he has a pretty hard head. I was almost in tears and it kind of killed the mood for me. Well I think I hurt his feelings, and lately he has been blaming himself or thinking something is going on with me. Like in the cheating since which is completely un-true. I don't know what is wrong but it is so not like me to pass up being kinky with the old man. Can some one please give me an idea of what I could do!

2006-11-28 05:58:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was currently in the army, and i really want to go back, the only reason i got out is to have my baby, now my husband is saying if i go back in we're going to get a divorce, and he knew when i got out that i had intentions of going back, and he said ok, now he want to act like i never told him, he seen how much i enjoyed being in the military, should i let him take away my life long dream???? what should i do?

2006-11-28 05:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by ARMY KID 2

I have been married for 13 years. 8 months ago I found my HS sweetie on the classmates website. We've talked off and on ... on the phone. Right away that incredible love feeling came back and I realized that I never felt that for my husband. There are a lot of reasons, I'm sure I shut people out due to the fact I was raised in an alcoholic family and was verbally abused. I think when I lost my 1st love, I lost faith in people, was never able to trust again. I have learned so much from this experience. And I know I have hurt my husband too. My children, 12 & 8 are not aware of what has been going on, although every time my phone rang lately, my husband would ask if it was my "boyfriend calling" in front of them.

My husband and I married with a lot of emotional baggage, though mine was more severe. And all this has started a recovery process. I left a message on my ex's cell phone... "I'm letting go of you... Good luck with your family. Have a nice life... bye." He may call me back.

2006-11-28 05:54:13 · 19 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4

I have been married 3 years, together for 5. A year into our marriage, he developed chronic migraines, that left him completely unable to be my partner in any sense of the word. I understood and was doting and worried for a good year and a half, while he was depressed and on a slew of medications that kept him a zombie. His migraines improved a bit, but he still was not around to be my husband. I needed him, and told him, but he remained self centered in every way. His headaches became "convenient" it appeared, popping up during fights, giving him a constant get out of jail free card. He's turned into such a negative human being, getting no joy out of life, and he can't understand why this brings me down. I hit the end of my rope a few months ago, went to therapy, told him i was considering leaving. Then all of a sudden he started being nice. I feel like it's too little too late, but he says he can't live without me. Am i being selfish? I am tired of enduring. sigh.

2006-11-28 05:52:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Leaving him is out of the question, I love him. I just don't understand how he can be so mean, he hurts my feelings,he said it's because he is trying to motavate me. He calls me lots of names, he calls me lazy,and tells me I need to change my life style.
I understand why he tells me this things,i stoped working4 months ago and became a house wife for a little bit, because I came down with depression, i went to the doctor for lots of test she put me on prozac,for depession and seroquil and aprazolam for sleep. she also putme on medicine for hyperthyroid, and other ones too.
before I got sick I was only one working, he stayed home everyday sleeping and playing ames all night. I never put him down he was out of work for 3years. i took care of him,BUt now since i am sick he is forced to work,and he comes home evey day to aclean house and supper on the table,i takes of the kids too, and he calls me lazy. I just cry, whatshould I do, I know he isjust trying to help. But it hurts still

2006-11-28 05:48:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is having a very bad breath i cant tollerate it it is creating troubles in my sex life i told him but i think he is not taking it too seriously how can i make him realize that i really feel so bad and it is destroying my interest in sex

2006-11-28 05:48:05 · 43 answers · asked by sp 1

My husband told me he hated me after I got a promotion so I left and ended up with a guy who has been my friend for awhile now and well we ended up sleeping together, we both decided it was a mistake and decided to be just friends. Here is where it gets hard, I had a miscarriage yesterday and am 100% sure it was his baby,
My husband has know ideal and I am not sure if I should tell the other guy either. Help!!

2006-11-28 05:46:02 · 27 answers · asked by Tammy R 2

My relationship is not good, my partner has not worked steady for about three years, and maybe only 3 months this year. We have spent nearly all my inheritance (80K), and I still can not get him to look for work. I do not trust him, I think this has been his plan all along, he will not help around the house, and is a slob to top it all off. We have a home and mortgage togther,and 12 yr. old daughter. I keep telling him he has to move, but he just ignores me. How do I get him to go? This is not healthy. I do not want to leave my home, it was purchased with a large down payment from,my inheritance above and beyond the 80K. Do I have any legal rights? We are not married, and have lived here about 5 1/2 years. HELP!

2006-11-28 05:42:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my freind has moved away and want a long disatnce realtioship I don't want to get invovled what shoul i do

2006-11-28 05:41:10 · 7 answers · asked by jaylen212004 1

my mum is a single mum with 7 cleaning jobs and a mortgage to pay she works all week and by the end of it has no money.christmas is comming up and she has no presents yet for me or my sister we never have no food its just all gone wrong.she is always down i think she is depressed. were could she borrow money from ith out having to pay dubble the money she borrowed back?
how can i help???

2006-11-28 05:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by elle 1

My wife and i have been together for the past 5 years 2.5 in college and 2.5 in the real world. Everything was great minus a couple of fights/breakups in college, we had a beautiful wedding and a great honeymoon. She is a nurse and i noticed some weird behavior, and found out that she had cheated on my with a 40 year old dr. I was devastated and did not want to stay together at first but then realized how much i love her. We decided to work on things which we hardly did, mostlty tried to buy happiness (new BMW). She insists that the relationship was a one time thing, it is hard to say for sure but i did check her phone bills and e-mails and found nothing. I have had alot of trouble letting it go though. I tried to but every so often i would shove it back in her face. Now i have moved out on her request, and she has told me that she hasnt been in love with me for 2years, but that she does love me. I know this is not true, but she doesnt want to get counseling. What do i do?

2006-11-28 05:40:02 · 11 answers · asked by Dan B 2

happened such as death of two loved ones, jealousy, self-esteem issues, laziness almost everything except infidelity and though to you what I named seems very little it indeed brought alot of deep pain between us. We've been together almost 6 years now and being married and living together for the 1st time has really changed us but now we're trying to give it another shot but things are so different between us and we both know somethings different but have no clue as to what it is. We're not as intimate as we use to be it's almost as if we're just roomates. My question is, is this normal after so much pain to feel this way? or not? and if so how do you deal with it? What are some tips of how to make things the way it use to be,

2006-11-28 05:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1