i was currently in the army, and i really want to go back, the only reason i got out is to have my baby, now my husband is saying if i go back in we're going to get a divorce, and he knew when i got out that i had intentions of going back, and he said ok, now he want to act like i never told him, he seen how much i enjoyed being in the military, should i let him take away my life long dream???? what should i do?
2006-11-28 05:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by ARMY KID 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your lifelong dream doesn't include your husband and baby? Sorry, but you now have to put your little dreams second to raising your child for the next 18 years. If a military career was so important, you wouldn't have diverted off your path to get married, get pregnant and have a baby. It's not about what's "best" it's about what's RIGHT.
2006-11-28 06:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? Do you want to lose him? Sometimes you have to give up your dream for your family, you wouldn't be the first one. I think you need to find something else you like to do which doesn't involve losing your family. You have applications to your child. By having the baby you swore an oath to take care of it, you're not doing that by leaving it.
2006-11-28 14:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Emina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to go back but you have a baby to take care of stay home your husband and your new baby deserve it
2006-11-28 14:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, what is happening with your baby? Did you ever think of that? Maybe your husband is worried that something might happen to you and he will lose you and your child will never get to know her mother. You have other obligations now, don't just think of yourself. Think about what's best for your child too.
2006-11-28 13:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay at home and take care of your baby. You should have waited to have children until you were ready to give up the army.
2006-11-28 14:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your kid to your husband, divorce him and go back to the Army.
2006-11-28 13:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need to listen to your hubby but it sounds like you already spoke about this. If you feel strongly about the army then stick to your ambitions and go for it. He needs to be understanding on his part also.
2006-11-28 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is thinking about the baby. And maybe you can go back and your family can relocate. That way you guys can still be together.
2006-11-28 14:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by peanut44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR DREAM. IF YOUR HUSBAND TRULY LOVES YOU, HE WILL STAND BY YOU KNOW MATTER WHAT YOU DO!! CAN YOU IMAGINE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT YOUR HUSBAND? CAN YOU LIVE WITHOUT HIM? NOW CAN YOU IMAGINE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT THE MILITARY? YOUR THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS. YOUR SON WILL ALWAYS BE PART OF YOU. THERE ARE PLENTY OF SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE MILITARY! GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-28 14:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by claude l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go back and find a new husband
2006-11-28 13:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋