my boyfriend and i have been living together for 5 yrs. for the past week we having been speaking to each other because he was drunk on thanksgiving and embassed me.. i am so pissed because he thinks he is so full of himself because he got money in his pockets. well anyway he told me last week that he wants me to move out so i took out all my stuff from our bedroom and move it into the closet in the hallway. since then i have been sleeping on the couch and give each other the silent treatment.
2006-11-28 06:26:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what should i do, i have 3 kids and work full time, i don't have enough of money to move out on my own and he won't move
2006-11-28 06:27:23 · update #1
and my children's father pays child support and i work full time and have a bachelors degree.
2006-11-28 06:27:57 · update #2
also my kids don't like my man anyway, but they love their new home and don't want to move
2006-11-28 06:28:36 · update #3
You should never live with a b/f for longer than 2 yrs. without
getting married....Marriage provides some legal protections...
What are your options ?
Apologize to b/f and make nice in bed ?
Move back with parents or siblings ?
Find another man to care for you ?
Get a good job and support yourself ?
2006-11-28 06:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you two aren't married you don't have the right to stay there...I mean no rights legally! You should have thought about this crap before you let some guy use you for 5 years! You should of got married!
2006-11-28 15:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the silent treatment never works, because generally the other party doesn't know what they did wrong. You have to sit down with him and explain to him WHY you're angry, and why his behaviour upset you. Don't make the conversation about him, but about how you feel about it.
If you're not talking to each other, the problem is not going to fix itself. You have to make an effort.
2006-11-28 14:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to keep on living where you and your cildren are unwelcomed?
Who signed the lease? Are you paying 50/50 on mortgage or rent? If so, you would have to negotiate with him who stays and who goes.
If the apartment is his or he is the renter, then you have to move out if he doesn;t want you there. Do you want to come to the humiliation of getting evicted?
If you are the one leasing, then yuo can evict him by giving him a a 30 day notice.
It sounds like you can be on yoru won, so stop begging for shelter when you don't need to.
Good luck
2006-11-28 14:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have a Bachelors degree huh?? You can't even spell or even solve your own relationship problems!! Guess that degree isn't helping you much!
2006-11-28 14:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you have to kiss butt until you can manage to save enough money to live they way you want.
2006-11-28 14:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋