Ok here lately I haven't been being myself in the sexual way. It seems like every time me and mine try to get in the groove something always seems to happen. Let me give you an example: just the other night we were ya know and we smashed our heads into each others. Well believe me he has a pretty hard head. I was almost in tears and it kind of killed the mood for me. Well I think I hurt his feelings, and lately he has been blaming himself or thinking something is going on with me. Like in the cheating since which is completely un-true. I don't know what is wrong but it is so not like me to pass up being kinky with the old man. Can some one please give me an idea of what I could do!
2006-11-28 05:58:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The possibilities are endless, stop keeping it in the bedroom for starters...have sex in the kitchen on the table, on the floor if you'd like, on the couch, in the shower, do something risky, go to the park and go for a walk, do it there, don't put limit's on your sexual relationship....don't schedule it out, when the two of you feel like having sex, do it! Try getting some massage oils and do full body massages for each other...it's very sensual and a huge turn on. Oral is always a good thing for men or women. Mix it up, have fun....think about all your dreams and fantasies and if it's possible...do them! Try role playing or sex games...toys even. Have fun!
2006-11-28 06:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know many articles relate the same type of thing, the relationship is a bit sour or beginning to become too blaaa. the thought is to try some of the things that drew the two of you together in the first place. revisit a special getaway that has a real meaning to you both. go on a date to someplace you always talked of going to but did not find the time. if you spent time doing the "dinner and dancing" then by all means go for it again.
sometimes routine is nice but has no spice. just watch the extreme things like rock climbing or skydiving. older bodies don't bounce has well, lol.
2006-11-28 06:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 17:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your doctor. There may be something going on that you don't realize. There's a million & 1 different things that could be effecting your libido & your doctor should be able to figure it out. Reassure your partner that there is something going on with your body... but it has nothing to do with another man. He shouldn't be blaming himself when it's not his fault. ;)
2006-11-28 06:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what his fantasies are and try to go with that. Also have more foreplay cuz that sends up the sexual stimulation to a way high
2006-11-28 06:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie21106 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you smashing your heads together? Sounds like you were giving each other a headache!
2006-11-28 06:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Role play and stuff. Ask him to let you direct him. Get toys if you have to!
2006-11-28 06:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take it easy. let him know exactlt what you want
2006-11-28 06:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try spicing things up, wear something sexy!
2006-11-28 06:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I can help you baby !!
2006-11-28 06:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋