Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2006

i am a guy, but if i were a girl, i would be a lesbian.
i just loooooooooove to see 2 girls loving each other. there is nothing nicer in this world, nothing nicer in life.
why don't all women just love women.

also, my wife does not like the idea of being with a woman, but i so much want her to kiss another woman. How do I make her do it? I would rather see my wife loving another woman than myself loving a woman, but how do I get her to think that way? (of course i don't want her to be a complete lesbian- i want her to be bi)

2006-11-28 05:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Met my wife on eHarmony. We dated for 8 months before we married. Thought we were very compatable. Turns out she has some very deeply rooted issues as well as some sleep issues. She's a very sweet person and a great mom, but I can't seem to get past her lack of home making abilities and lack of financial responsibility. I hate to "nag" her. I've made numerous suggestions (usually during the couse of an arguement) but she lacks the coping skills to get past the hurt created and move toward a solution. She pretty much shuts down. This is counter-productive and frustates me. Now, I feel like a zombie and can't seem to find any joy in this relationship. We have been married for a year and nothing has changed much at all. There are no kids between us(she wants one, but I can't tell her I'm not real sure I want to commit to that). I'm sure this hurts her, too. We each have two kids from a previous marriage(my wife died of cancer). I thought she got what she wanted, why can't I?

2006-11-28 05:31:36 · 22 answers · asked by MWC Carver Williams '68 1

It was my finaces birthday lastweek and his ex girlfriend texted him to greet him happy birthday, when she knows very well that he is already engage, and saying that she's happy that he has moved on, when he was the one who broke off with her.

2006-11-28 05:25:30 · 15 answers · asked by jinky l 1

2006-11-28 05:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sam H 1

why did kid rock get so mad about the clip with anderson and borat, what did she do so wrong, has anyone seen the video yet?
what happened

2006-11-28 05:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Jessi 2

I guess it must sound really strange, but I never had sex with anybody in my entire life. I had just a few boyfriends and I never had a real oportunity. The hottest momment I ever had was letting a guy suck my teats when I was 40. However, I'm currently very concerned about it. I don't wanna die whithout knowing what sex is all about. I guess it must be actually nice because everyone all over the world only seem to care about it. What should I do to solve my problem?

2006-11-28 05:17:00 · 73 answers · asked by Myself 1

and should you tell your spouse and hope they make it come true?

2006-11-28 05:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I also found mascara and eye liner before and a small cup bra .is my husband really a sissy or on the down low?help please my ex was gay and I dont want this **** in my life again

2006-11-28 05:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by cindybells 2

My parents are planning on getting divorced and my mother is sick so im planning on staying with my mom, but my mother has no clue where to start. What are the steps of getting a divorce?

2006-11-28 05:06:13 · 4 answers · asked by justin 1

Im 25-years old. He is 40-years old. We have been married 5-years and have 2-kids. After my first marriage of 5-years ended, i swore i would never marry again. However He was so perfect to me and for me, that i couldnt pass up on one of the greatest men i have ever met. He has made me love him even more now than 5-years ago. But in the past 3-month or so, i noticed that he has been going thru some changes and more mood swings than usual......he is a hard worker, he is a great lover, he is a great father, and he is very consistant: he goes to work everyday at the same time, he comes home everyday at the same time, he is from another state so he doesnt know anyone else beyond my family, my friends and work. He mentioned that he wanted to make his own friends, and he needed an outlet and that i had nothing to worry about. Why all of a sudden is he bothered by the things that never seemed to matter before? Am i controlling?, am i spoiled? is he going thru midlife crisis?

2006-11-28 05:04:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I'd catch her she says my over reacting caused her to dislike who I had become...yes there were times I used profanity, and called her names..but in our 30 years I never ever acted like that..why does she deflect..is there anything I can do to get her back...she is the love of my life..this guy was her first childhood lover..at 14 (pregnant and abortion) he is married for 20 yrs..wife knew nothing until I told her..she kicked her the curb.
I never saw it coming none of my kids (adults) saw it coming either..they thought we would die in each others arms..

2006-11-28 05:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 04:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by ellis4655@sbcglobal.net 2

my 13 yr old come home to me today just stopped in and told me that their telling them they will have to live with them ex and his gf and that they do not in no way have a say in where they want to live and they do not in anyway get to talk to a judge .they have no choice they will have to live with them .


my son was a mess and very upset.crying to me that he will not live there .

i told him he will get to talk to the evaluator and the judge am i right?

he is over there threating them.


my 14 yr old told him there is no way in hell any of us is living with you .

this is what i have to deal with.
seeing my kids being threatened and scared .


i have to put up with this for another 6 months before the eval then wait for the eval to be done.
then go to a modified hearing and if we dont agree then go to trial honestly how long will all this take..i do not know how much more i can take.

i am not violating the order i havent once

2006-11-28 04:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1

seems friendly enough, but question motives

2006-11-28 04:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by perplexed 2

I just connect with non American women better it seems, they have all the qualities that men want in a wife Loyal, beeautiful, hardworking, aprreciative, caring, ect. Plus many of them are trying to leave ecomically depressed countries and giving them a new life in America will be much better for them. And no I don't want a submissive women or a sex slave, I have always treated women great in all my relationships and share all the responsibilities with her. I'm 6'2, 205, dark hair and green eyes. I'm also in very good shape, I work out four times a week, I'm college educated, I have a very good job, and I don't cheat at all. A women from Asia or South America would be ideal for me I think. So wha does everyone think.

2006-11-28 04:45:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 04:38:19 · 17 answers · asked by b 4

We have been living together for 4 months and been together for 5 yrs. for the past week we have been fighting and he has been giving me the silent treatment since thanksgiving, we fought becuase he is always so full of himself fincally and he only cares about his pockets and not about me and my 3 kids. i have been sleeping on the couch and my kids have been staying in their rooms. the house has been silent for so many nights. i refuse to give in to him, because he needs to start being a man and realize that i have three kids and we are a package.. he also needs to start giving me affection and being their for my kids. what can i do.by the way i don't want to move because the lease is in both or our names and i have spend so much time and money to establish what i have today..

2006-11-28 04:37:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is divorced. He has run up a hefty legal bill taking his ex to court trying to get access to his 5yo daughter. At the last court hearing, the court decided that my son should collect his daugther from his ex wife and her partners on a Friday evening once a fortnight and that his ex should collect her on Sunday evening from him. This arrangement lasted for two occasions. On the first his ex arrived two hours after the agreed time. On the second she didn't collect her daughter until the Monday. At the hearing my ex daughter in law accepted these arrangements, but has since told my son he won't see his daughter again. His legal representative has informed him that he will not go back to court until the bill is paid off, which will take him the best part of a year. He doesn't qualify for legal aid, unlike his ex. Is there anything he can do in the interim? Needless to say he dislikes his ex with a passion.

2006-11-28 04:36:56 · 4 answers · asked by Peter W 2

well just people always mount pressure on people to get married. in my country its a real big deal.

2006-11-28 04:33:43 · 14 answers · asked by bombom 1

she does not like me and she never care to speak to me, but my husband is in Iraq and his mom is close to him he want us to be connected but I dont want to

2006-11-28 04:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know sometimes it's done just because a woman is mad. Sometimes though it's like "My hubby is so lazy. He never takes out the trash. He doesn't appreciate me. We never go out anymore. I'm just going to withhold sex until he comes around." Does that really work? I'd imagine he would only dislike you more and want you less. Why not go the other direction with it? Say "Take out the garbarge, my beloved, and I shall do such and such." You fill in the blank. You'd be turning a lose/lose into win/win wouldn't you?

2006-11-28 04:27:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even though I always felt like a woman, I was born as a guy. It's been 4 years I've been subjected to a surgery to change my sex. Ever since I decided to start my life over. I moved to another town where nobody knew me and I met an amazing guy. We're together for 3 years and we've jut got married. However, I keep that secret from him. I never had the courage enough to tell him the truth because I'm afraid of him to leave me if he ever finds out and I love him too much to risk losing him. But I'm afraid that sooner or later he's gonna find it out eventually. So I don't know what to do about it. He's starting to talk about having children and I'm afraid this might be the beginning of my problems to keep hiding the truth from him. What should I do actually?

2006-11-28 04:24:43 · 49 answers · asked by Myself 1

Please take time to answer.
Why do you want to get married,then turn around and cheat on them?

2006-11-28 04:24:17 · 29 answers · asked by d2poolplaya 3

Do they last? I am talking about rebound relationships or relationships with affair partners. If not, why do they fail? Do you believe a person needs to learn how to be a single person again after the failure of a long term relationship??

2006-11-28 04:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This # appears on his bill about 20 times, I dialed the # and a girl answers, How do I find out who this # belongs to? any easy way of doing this without making anyone suspicious?

2006-11-28 04:12:40 · 30 answers · asked by T 4

I dont do this for any commercial purpose but only as a gesture of friendship and to spread love amongst the global world. Any one interested?

2006-11-28 04:12:10 · 3 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3

2006-11-28 04:10:10 · 36 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I come from a small town, and it seems like the majority of the people I went to school with are married and/or have children. I'm 23, almost 24. I'm still in college because I had a few setbacks, but am set to graduate in May. I have been w/my current bf for almost 4 years now and he's also set to graduate in May. He's almost 28. Is it not normal that we're not married and having kids yet? I am ready to get married or at least engaged, but not have kids. Is 20-24 the normal marriage/kid having time?

2006-11-28 04:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4

He told me hes been seeing someone else for 2 weeks(!)and hes happier than hes ever been and thinks its real thing.how can this be true after such a short time?we were together for 13 yrs,seems like my world has fallen apart

2006-11-28 04:09:00 · 28 answers · asked by JO c 1

Name the top 3 things sexiest about a woman

2006-11-28 04:04:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous